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chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 1:51:59 PM)

AAkaska,


I'm removing myself from this  BDSM scene because i don't have to put up with rude ,nonsupportive , judgemental people.I  didn't know that  some people on this board  wasn't going to help me achieve my goal  in becoming a better domme.I'm asking basic question to help me reach my goal and what do i get rudeness.I've been trying to get support from this community for awhile now and i keep getting the same treatment from people on this board..The last time i was here.I reveal myself  and   i still got the same treatment.




xBullx -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 1:59:15 PM)

Hello woman,

If I were you I would take what LA says to heart, I have never seen her miss on a point by to far. I will leave room for the exception she may ever say anything negative about me, after all she is allowed a few mistakes.(smirks)

Live well,

Bull



LadyPact -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:07:17 PM)

An excellent point made there, LuckyAlbatross.  How can One expect to control others, if they can not control themselves..... Even in such cases as simple manners?



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:09:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chastitybelt

AAkaska,


I'm removing myself from this  BDSM scene because i don't have to put up with rude ,nonsupportive , judgemental people.I  didn't know that  some people on this board  wasn't going to help me achieve my goal  in becoming a better domme.I'm asking basic question to help me reach my goal and what do i get rudeness.I've been trying to get support from this community for awhile now and i keep getting the same treatment from people on this board..The last time i was here.I reveal myself  and   i still got the same treatment.


Well, all any of us can say is don't let the back door gitcha where the good lord splitcha hon, and safe travels.
 
Jewel



chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:17:55 PM)

(shaking my head)People i have ask for  BDSM suppport online and offline and nobody wants to help me.I'm a  very nice
,supportive person until a person show their true color and I'm not going to let any  person disrepect me on Collarme just  because they have BDSM trust issue.



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:22:16 PM)

By "support" do you mean money? Because I've seen quite a few try to offer you advice. May I ask if english is your first language? I'm not being crappy, I'm serious. Is there a language barrier that is keeping you from getting your point across?
 
Jewel



azzmaster -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:24:48 PM)

what continues to amuse me is how bent out of shape people get by members questions or answers. sure on  the forums people bicker alot and that is public so more of a temptation to say something sharp back... but private emails..? damn, if u don't like the other persons tone or way they present just don't answer the note. in life there r those we like n those we don't get on with. concentrate on the ones u do like n u will b happier



chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:25:04 PM)

Oh gosh!!(shaking my head) I ask for support and instead i get judgement,and nonsupport from  some people who  has no interest in helping a fellow person become a better mistress. 



chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:28:38 PM)

money!!Huh  Why would i need money?I  mean verbal advice. 



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:40:14 PM)

Advice:  Stop getting defensive and taking things personally and start looking at how you are projecting yourself to others.



Aileen68 -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:42:49 PM)

Maybe if you came here asking the questions that you needed answers to instead of coming here and ranting about how rude people are, you would have gotten a better response.



chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:48:51 PM)

It's you who is  being judgemental toward me.I can't help it if my words sound evil.



chastitybelt -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:50:05 PM)

aileen68,
Never mind !!!be more judgmental  toward me and move on



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:50:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chastitybelt

It's you who is  being judgemental toward me.I can't help it if my words sound evil.


If you can't help it, then who can? Try asking a real question and seeking real answers. That would be a step in the right direction.
 
Jewel



Aileen68 -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:56:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chastitybelt

aileen68,
Never mind !!!be more judgmental  toward me and move on


Well Ok...since you asked.  It appears as if you can't seem to understand that you come across as abrupt and abrasive to many people here.  You show up and complain, and then by your second response, begin to get snippy.  Leads one to believe, based only on your responses that you are the one with the problem.  Was that judgemental enough?  I can keep on going if you want.



azzmaster -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 2:59:42 PM)

wasn't chastity belt leavin? she is seemin more like a sub who is cruisin 4 a bruisin from her dom... hmmmm , maybe that xplains it



SleepyBeast -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 3:01:42 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: chastitybelt

It's you who is  being judgemental toward me.I can't help it if my words sound evil.


You are the one choosing your words, so you are the one responsible for the way they sound.



Mysti -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 3:02:09 PM)

Instead of attacking your fellow forum posters for offering valid observations, why not ask the BDSM related question here instead of creating a thread whos whole intent and purpose is for you to throw a hissy fit that OMG nobody will help me so I'm taking my kink and going home and you cant play!? Youre less likely to get slammed for your rude mannerisms, and more likely to have gotten the information you sought out without this little drama.

Stop acting like a child and start acting like the Dominant woman you claim to be.

you bore me.
moving on

Edit: this is meant for the OP, not Aileen (sorry Aileen [:o])



MsParados -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 3:05:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chastitybelt

(shaking my head)People i have ask for  BDSM suppport online and offline and nobody wants to help me.I'm a  very nice
,supportive person until a person show their true color and I'm not going to let any  person disrepect me on Collarme just  because they have BDSM trust issue.


I'm sorry but if everywhere you go people turn their back on you and you keep getting that same responsive with different people. The only one that is the same in this equation would be you...... see a pattern there?
Just a random observation.



gooddogbenji -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 3:09:34 PM)

Defiant, is that you???????

I always find it funny when one person somehow has repeated problems with people in an area where most do not, and then blames the other people.

I'm willing to bet that almost anyone on here could start a thread with that question and get polite answers out the wazoo.  But the one person who has, apparently, tried everywhere, has not succeeded once.

And we're to blame.

Yours,


benji



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