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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 12:44:25 PM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		I sleep whereever Master says i do....He puts me to bed at night , and ive never been punished away from his bed.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 12:50:00 PM   
wyldsubmissive


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Status: offline 		I sleep on my own bed. When  I did have a dom I slept with him in his bed. And when I am with m'Lady I sleep in her bed with her & her owner.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 1:14:14 PM   
babyboyk


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

Do you sleep in your owner's bed or on the floor by your owner's side or do you have your own room.I am curious and I want to know,...bounty


i sleep in my own bed, in my own flat, mind you, im barely a minute away from Mistress

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 1:19:16 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: findmedaddy

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ORIGINAL: kc692

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ORIGINAL: findmedaddy

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

You don't belong in New Jersey either, but that don't seem to stop you.

Ron



Wow, that was mean. Wish I had more time to read the boards so I could figure out who can't stand whom, and why. Well, maybe I don't wish I did. There's enough drama where I work.



I will believe if you read the boards more you will find that is Ron's humor and was not intended mean at all.


Thanks, kc. I almost sort of know Ron's humor (a little...lol), and if I'd paused I might even have considered his remark a compliment. Wish I'd paused!!! No offence intended to anyone. Thanks again.



No harm, no foul, smiles.  I love the man dearly, but Ron's humor takes an equally twisted mind to understand.. And, I believe you were correct in that he intended it as a compliment, lol!

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 1:34:13 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I live alone so I sleep in my bed.  When with my Master I am either at the foot of his bed or on the floor.  The floor tends to be easier - I get kicked less, lol.

(And personally I think Marie belongs in California, heh)

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 5:45:07 PM   
BreatheinToMe


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Status: offline 		At His side.  But now I am a free agent, so I get all the covers.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 6:08:50 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		She sleeps in the bed next to me, naked and curled up against me.  I sleep much better with her curled up against me than if she is not there.

K

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 6:45:03 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I sleep in my bed in my apartment (which I still like saying since the newness of having my own apartment hasnt worn off yet)
If angel stays over, he sleeps next to me. He doesnt do so often, since there are too many things keeping us apart timewise and he can almost never give up an entire night.
I have had others that sleep either on the couch or the floor.   I dont like having someone sleep at my feet, I cant deal with having them touched at night.

DV


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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 6:54:36 PM   
joyinslavery


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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 7:06:23 PM   
juliaoceania


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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I sleep in my own bed most nights

When I am with him I sleep in his bed

He has joked that he will bring me a wooden shipping pallet from the docks to show me my place though....smiles

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 7:33:28 PM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		I sleep most of the times with my Master. For punishment tho I have slept at the foot of the bed. If our room was larger I believe he would have me sleep in the floor for punishment..But the foot of the bed is hard to sleep on esspecially since he is so tall that I have to sleep on the very edge of fear being kicked, so I don't sleep well at the foot of the bed. So, I try to behave.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/3/2007 11:33:56 PM   
HCWT1


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Status: offline 		In the past,when in collar,i sleep in a special sheepskin bed at the foot of my oweners.My new owner has a bed in the dungeon to start with,interesting.

I think after all the years ivé served in one way or another,and having never sleept with an owner,it would be a hard limit,even if it was offered.

Sometimes i think ivé missed out on some of the finner things when in service,so be it.This old leopard isn't changing it's spots.With a stiff upper lip,standards must be upheld.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 12:16:52 AM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		I mostly sleep in bed with my master or in my own bed. Sometimes, but not that often, at the foot of the bed. It all depends on what he is feeling like or whatever that particular night, ie he likes to sleep alone sometimes ot have the bed all to himself

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 5:30:02 AM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(And personally I think Marie belongs in California, heh)


California dreaming', on such a winter's day.....   
 
<sigh>  

:) heh.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 5:39:20 AM   
acissej


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From: New Jersey
Status: offline 		We just sleep next to each other in our bed.  

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 6:09:16 AM   
RPutnamJr


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Status: offline 		I personally sleep wherever I feel like it. Usually it in my bed.

She sleeps wherever I tell her, thus it depends upon if she has been a good girl or not.

If she has been very good then I like to sleep with my manhood inside of her, which hole is at my discretion of course. The point being though is I like to feel a part of her, so its the closeness that is the point. And also being able to take her immediately upon waking up, for my manhood is usually starved for attention at that time. The scent of her all around me, cuddled up in my arms.

If she has just been a good girl, then I will allow her also in my bed. Cuddled up in my arms again, unless she has managed to slip away somehow in the middle of the night.

If she has been neither good nor bad that day then she can sleep in her doggie bed placed somewhere strategicly in the bedroom in a corner, so I can keep an eye on her. This also allows her to sneak off in the middle of the night and prepare whatever she needs to do without disturbing my sleep.

If she has been a bad girl, then she gets chained to the bottom of my bed. Nothing is worst than having to sleep on a hard surface without any comfort. Will be lucky if I feel compassionate enough to drape a blanket over her for the night.

If she has been a very bad girl. then she sleeps in a doggie cage away from my presence. I don't want to even look at her until I'm ready to deal with her. That's the only thing worst than being chained to the floor...trying to sleep in a cage where you cannot stretch out for several hours at a time. Without any comforts at all. Where you can only contemplate why you are stuck in the cage instead of being in a nice warm bed with your master or at the very least in your own bed.

If I'm not home then my pet is only allowed to sleep in one of two places. Either in her bed in my bedroom or on her pillow in the living room. That's so I know where to find her when I get home if she is still asleep for some reason. Especially since she should be by the door waiting on me or off accomplishing some task that needs to be done.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 6:30:33 AM   
hammernhoney


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Status: offline 		I have a master BR on the front of the house and its noisy as hell so I much prefer to sleep in the back of the house in a smaller BR..Diane cuddle up behind me,my kitten willow and our pom dom in bed ..AT the foot on the floor at my  call is a girl...NOT as punishment but as where a slave should be...IN between marriages I would let a girl when beckoned to my bed spend the night there but on few occasions..TY for the responses..bounty

< Message edited by hammernhoney -- 3/4/2007 6:31:41 AM >

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 6:46:01 AM   
RPutnamJr


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Status: offline 		People say...why should the master be punished by sleeping alone...one answer...tough love. Question is why should the slave be rewarded by sleeping in their master's bed? It goes back to what my mom used to love saying when I was bad as a child right before the spanking. This is going to hurt me more than it does you. As a child I never understood that since I'm the one who got spanked. But as an adult I understand the hurt caused  by the disappointment in having to punish bad behavior.

If a slave is bad. Is it the slaves fault? Or the master's for not training the slave properly in the first place? If it is the slave's fault, then shouldn't they be punished for their indiscretion? And if it is truely the master's fault then shouldn't he be punished for not living up to his responsability to his slave? 

And as you say, that you cannot sleep well without your master, thus leading to reduced performance the next day. It is up to you to pull yourself up and perform appropriately at the level your master desires. Or then again face appropriate punishment.

The nice thing about being the Master is the concept of compassion and forgiveness. Thus you can be still be punished severly, by your master being overly kind and compassionate to you when you have been a bad girl. Thus feeling guilty knowing you do not deserve to be treated so well. And forgiven for your past behavior.

I keep the extra doggie bed in my bedroom as a reminder to her that it is a privilage to sleep in MY bed, with me. It is also considered a safe place for her to go to. I CAN, but do not command her to leave that place. Thus allowing her to come out on her own or go into seclusion not to be bothered for whatever reason.

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 7:32:43 AM   
rascallymisty


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Status: offline 		I use to sleep with my ex Master when we could be together..... for now I sleep alone once more.
 
~ misty ~

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RE: WHEE DO YOU SLEEP? - 3/4/2007 8:56:19 AM   
alandraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

She used to sleep on the floor whenever he was not in the bed; I am not sure if she still does since he is away from the house so much now with work.



He has changed  where i sleep since He is working away from the House so much. i now sleep on the bed unless He specifically says otherwise.

Knight's alandra

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