((("what is the key to submission?")))
like life, there is not just ONE key to submission. it is an entire world full of them and each person must find the one that fits the lock within themselves they are trying to open at each moment they are asked to submit.
The trust, the love, any and all feelings you find are all apart of this for you. Each is a key of a different kind for a different kind of lock you have erected within yourself that you seek to open.
Each time you submit, each feeling that races through you is a part of it for you. And each time they all grow, at least the good ones should. Letting them help you purge the bad ones is also a part of this. but no matter what you do with each feeling, it is another KEY to your submission.
To me it is like this, I am in a locked room, with many huge locks on the door and more guards then the Queen outside, and inside, I am bound and chained so that no part of me can be seen by anyone entering. Some do not see me at all I am so buried by the chains of society and life. But some day, there will be one that not only gets in, but sees everything like he is super man with x ray vision. Only his vision comes from me. I give him what he needs to see me.
Each lock he must have me help him open is only opened by the key I hide within. it can only be opened if you trust enough to let them not only see that lock, but you must bring the key to it as well.
As each submission revels another key to your soul, and therefore the freedom to be pleasing to those that are chosen, it is taken and put on the key ring that you have given them the right to place upon you, made from the collar you wear. That alone is the very first lock you give them. That is the very first key they hold within themselves that they need to deserve the right to place that collar upon you.
May you never let anyone pick this lock instead of produce the key for you.
The keys are not just found within the submissive. Even if it is only them that wear the collar. It is your hand that is wrapped as well, by the handle of the leash while you hold them. Each person involved finds keys within themselves, each of us has souls to bare, keep that in mind as you ask for these Locks and Keys from each other.
So you see, you do not seek only ONE key, each submission brings forth another for you to offer them as you do with the handle of your leash and a confessed desire, only then will you ever find a time where there is only one left to open.
May God himself open this one for you. Until he does, I hope the rest are opened so that you soar so close to him, he smiles as you go by because he can look into your eyes and see all of the joy the soul within is sharing with it’s world.
((("i'm looking for help finding ways keeping my beautiful Dom interested".)))
this is the easy part, simply ask yourself at the start of each day, what can i do to make today the best ever for my One? what can i do to make them love me more today then yesterday? what can i do to make them feel me with each thought they have of me? what can i do to make them think of me at all today? if i do this, will it make them happy or sad? see how easy this is?
simply think of them instead of yourself, that's the Key to this, you give up yourself and the mind set of "What do I need?" to, "What do they need?" you think of them and hopefully, they are doing the same. if not, you are in trouble already.