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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 4/4/2005 2:42:15 PM

BeachMystress

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The front piece has snaps. The black rubber ring is held by snaps and can be taken off to set over the dildo or to change ring sizes It has the same principal as mine. Mine uses metal rings, but you'll get the idea. I'll attach a photo of a dildo on the front of my harness. My harness has a range of attachment snaps so I can wear it in many positions. The one you're looking at has just the one set of snaps. The idea of how the dildo fits in is the same though.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 4/5/2005 3:05:11 PM

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Thanks for the responses... yes, we did have a more medium size strapon for quite a long time, but she wanted a major upgrade and hence the current predicament. Although uncomfortable for a day or 2, no major damage as done. For her, it is a statement of power and almost rape..a gender swapping game.. perhaps penis envy, as it is a very ralistic and large silicone penis and testicles (I hope She doesnt read this).

And, yes, she does get mad when her plan doesnt work, and I have the marks to prove it. But that is the relationship, and what I live with.

Another session and attempt scheduled tonight, I have been told to take work off tomorrow. Something diabolical is going on in her mind. Thanks for your comments

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 4/5/2005 10:57:12 PM

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Okay, I understand that we need the harness, and no we dont have a problem with my Mistress being too small. I dont remember what size she is, but it should fit her very well. we'll have to shorten the straps but *shrugs*.

I just dont see how that dildo is going to fit into this.
Look at the picture.

HEY! HEADS UP! That harness you're looking at is NOT compatible with the feeldoe! I was doing strappy play with toy tonight, and when I reached down to guide the dildo at one point, it hit me. The one you're looking at has snaps.. not a hole through the harness. Without a hole, there isn't any way for the feeldoe to go through! YIKES. (What a thing to have pop into your mind when you're "going for the gold".. LOL) You either need to choose another dildo or another harness. Since I know you love that one and find it sexy, you may want to buy a pair.

Sitting here thinking of harnesses I've seen, I don't know how any I've seen would work well with the feeldoe. I have one with a hole instead of a back panel and snaps, and the hole is too high for the feeldoe to rest comfortably. If I were you, I'd write the manufacturer of the feeldoe and ask what harness they recommend. ( Tantus Silicone, Inc. is the major distributor. http://www.tantussilicone.com/ )

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 4/6/2005 12:14:56 AM

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That link on avoiding jelly dildo's didn't work. It just opend up a blank new window.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 4/8/2005 9:57:32 PM

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Well I emailed Extreme Restraints again and this time they had this to say,

" The harness has snaps that undo in order to place the FeelDoe through
the ring. The lower part of the fabic on the Corsett slightly folds
upward against the back of the dildo. It is true that a plain flared
base dildo is the ideal one for that particular harness . are
compatable enough to work , but something like the Ultimate Dildo
harness may work better for you "

So I'm going to email the manufaturer of the feeldoe and see if they can recommend a harness, because there IS a groove at the bottom of the feeldoe made for a harness, so we just need to find out what is compatable with it.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 7/7/2006 9:19:09 AM

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Yes, very much worth it. I live to taken again and again by my gf. UMmm it is good.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 7/7/2006 11:37:49 AM

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Well I have to agree with what a few others have said here, go slow. There is a Leather Master in my community that has a boy that he can double fist He also has a boy all he can do right now is put in a finger. The enjoyment is the same for both of the boys. He has taught a few classes on fisting and every time He stresses this is not something to rush into, do not force to big of an object anal there are no nerve endings other then just around the ring of the anus you will not feel the tear until its way to late. I have had Mistresses use strap-ons and dildos and also had One try and fist me, something I have not fully been able to do but I really really want to. Also I have had a Master that wanted anal sex a lot. The one thing in common with them All, They never pushed me past where I said it hurt and they all used a lot of lube. This is not an area to rush into there are serious side effects if there is an injury and you may not even know it until its to late.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 7/7/2006 5:30:38 PM

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I have found that strap-ons actually didn't hurt me as much as the "real version". I am not sure why.. probably because of the person using them. I did find the last time I had actual anal sex.. that we used anal-eeze or something like that..and it seemed to make all of the difference. I think because the strap on doesn't give in the same way as something real.. it's a bit harder to tell when you might be getting to the point of causing damage.

I am not sure what punishing does in the whole thing.. I think that patience is probably called for when damage can be done.. unless that is what you like. The pain/pleasure thing did make it so I didn't focus on what he was doing as much.. so in turn.. I probably did relax.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 7/7/2006 7:39:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

Well I emailed Extreme Restraints again and this time they had this to say,

" The harness has snaps that undo in order to place the FeelDoe through
the ring. The lower part of the fabic on the Corsett slightly folds
upward against the back of the dildo. It is true that a plain flared
base dildo is the ideal one for that particular harness . are
compatable enough to work , but something like the Ultimate Dildo
harness may work better for you "

So I'm going to email the manufaturer of the feeldoe and see if they can recommend a harness, because there IS a groove at the bottom of the feeldoe made for a harness, so we just need to find out what is compatable with it.

Check the website for the company JT's STockroom. They sell the feeldoe and also have a harness they recommend especially for it.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 7/8/2006 7:09:23 AM

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She needs to start with a small strapon and work up to the next size.
When i'm training a new sub/client i always start very small and very slooooooooow!!!!!!
with lots of lube.

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She has a new large silicone strapon, and my problem is learning how to take it all. Mutual frustration, but mostly on her end. Trying to find resources or ideas on how one learns to deal with it.

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RE: strapons or anal intercourse - 11/13/2006 6:32:05 PM

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A couple of years before upgrades? Try a couple of hours!!!!!

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