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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

whats amusing and of course what i expected is the usual BS about how subs r sposed to be assertive etc etc...what i said in my post was what i look for. i as in azzmaster look for. in case u hadnt noticed i hadnt written 2 any of u asking if u were available. u can be a sub any way u want, its nothing to me

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

whats amusing and of course what i expected is the usual BS about how subs r sposed to be assertive etc etc...what i said in my post was what i look for. i as in azzmaster look for. in case u hadnt noticed i hadnt written 2 any of u asking if u were available. u can be a sub any way u want, its nothing to me

Of course. However you did imply that if you act a certain way then you are a certain thing and if not, then you are not being true to yourself.

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ORIGINAL: afeathr

My question is:  What does a sub look / sound like?

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

ah but whip...people choose what pix to post. mine was scientifically selected to go with my name for instance. just like clothing... u in fact do pick ur clothes to represent u, and if u study psychology there is much truth to body language. ur right about tip of the iceberg tho... but remember seeing the tip DOES tell u an iceber lies below. why did u pick ur profile shot. its very tasteful.. i never looked at ur profile so i do not kno of ur dom sub or switch, but the expression is quite neutral.

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ORIGINAL: catize

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ORIGINAL: afeathr

I received a message today that started me thinking... and perhaps this question has been asked before but here goes anyway. The message I received said exactly this (verbatim): "i must say , your words and pix do not seem submissive. this is by no means a criticism,not at all, just a casual observation"

My question is:  What does a sub look / sound like?  How do they carry themselves, and talk to others?  Is there some sort of expectation when it comes to a subs personality or appearance?

Respectfully,

What?  You didn’t get the manual? 
You must have an “s” tattooed on your forehead.
You must never take a picture of yourself standing up or wearing clothes.
You must never ever disagree with any identified dominant.
You have no needs or wants, no brains, opinions or ideas.
You never get tired.  
Your knees/back/arms never get sore, your bruises magically heal within an hour, and you only bleed if the dominant commands it.
If you are really submissive, you can be drop-kicked from a second story balcony without breaking any bones because you would never inconvenience your dominant with the need for a trip to the emergency room.
You never age, gain weight or have a bad hair day.
You are:
Stupendously
 Ultimately
 Beautifully
 Magically
 Idiotic,
 Servile,
 Stupid,
 Irrepressibly
 Valiantly
 Emotionless.
And never USE CAPITAL LETTERS!    

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

JMO...

They look just like anyone else. There is no set of rules on appearances. It's who you are and what you are. It's an aura. sub/slave/Domme/Dom/Master/Mistress are all just labels.

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i must say , your words and pix do

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ORIGINAL: Inhibitor

If a sub farts in a movie theatre, how does it smell?

....probably like subs, jk.

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 And I just love this puffy bouncy thing.  

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

while looks can b decieving, despite overly politically correct insistance saying there is no dominant look or submissive look, in fact things like a stern look, looking down in ur pic, what u wear, holding a whip etc will give a dom appearance , while a shy smile, hands in cuffs, looking up at camera give a submissive vibe. i would assume that since this is a BDSM site one would give a thought about the pic u post to convey to other members something about ones personality. my pic is a big smile near an ass. i picked it because i thought it was rather humorous given my screen name and i had shades on so i can't be too identified, which is important because of my job. ideally i would prefer one looking more stern andwearing black, but all of those are too detailed and identifiable. If i remainon collarmen much longer i will take a few just for this site with myface not too clearly shown

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Well it appears to be what could only be desribed as a "mysterious bulge" is in your second picture....Some sort of an optical illusion? Or maybe you simply have a cock.
The bulge is rather pronounced....

Other than that you are a hottie!  I dig tall chicks!  But most importantly tall chicks dig me....I'd probably throw you a bone if you would get rid of that meat in your drawers.

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

ah but whip...people choose what pix to post. mine was scientifically selected to go with my name for instance. just like clothing... u in fact do pick ur clothes to represent u, and if u study psychology there is much truth to body language. ur right about tip of the iceberg tho... but remember seeing the tip DOES tell u an iceber lies below. why did u pick ur profile shot. its very tasteful.. i never looked at ur profile so i do not kno of ur dom sub or switch, but the expression is quite neutral.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Please don't be offended, but I think you are probably getting that because you want to see it. While we've been asked if we are dom/sub based on our interactions we've never gotten it because of a picture.