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Superman42280 -> Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 12:09:46 PM)


How many female slaves here enjoy having outfits chosen? What are you typically made to wear and how do you feel about it? What about food chosen? Any female subs or slaves care to share stories with that too?



siamsa24 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 12:12:25 PM)

I'm not a slave or a submissive, but I still ask what he would like to see me wear. This is more because I have trouble choosing clothing that fits in at various events (does that make sense?).
Or I will ask what he is wearing and dress based on what he is wearing.



Dieplztks -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 12:41:47 PM)

I enjoy having my outfits chosen for me. On most days, when it's warm enough, Master has me wear skirts with no panties, kneehigh boots with six inch heels, and tights with a garter belt. Shirts dont matter all that much, at least not until now. W/we're going to get me some new clothes sometime, so I can wear what He likes all the time. I love wearing or not wearing whatever He wants, because I know that I'm pleasing Him and I know that He likes what I have on.

Food choice is something else W/we do, because I tend to not eat. (been fighting anorexia for a few years. Gotten treatment or whatnot, but it still shows up everynow and then). Like, when W/we go to resturants, He orders my food for me, through I can pick something and if it's ok with Him, He gets it, if not, then He picks something else out for me. I actually like that, because then I dont have to feel so guilty about eating. I'm eating what He wants me to eat and it makes Him happy. He also tells me how much to eat. But sometimes I'm not able to, because I get full quickly. At least He understsands that. He's kinda working on getting me to eat like a normal person, so I can become healthy again. Maybe that's part of why I like it so much, because He's taking care of me.

That help you out any? hehe sorry if I just rambled about unimportant things. I tend to do that sometimes.[:)]



Superman42280 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 12:55:35 PM)


No, that's great. I love it.

I have an intense hosiery fetish (I dont wear, only on women) and would love to have a sub or slave wear them all the time. Any reactions or thoughts or discussions on being made to wear hosiery or tights or stockings or pantyhose all the time?



siamsa24 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 12:59:58 PM)

We do the same things with food for the same reasons. Glad to know that we aren't the only ones. It really helps (at least for me)



Superman42280 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:26:16 PM)

May I say I love the white stockings in your pic. You a fan of stockings?

I hope this conversation continues..... (evil grin)

Chris




EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:26:17 PM)

Clothes? No, the Owner and I both agree I have a better sense of fashion than he does. I might bring a selection for him if we have time, but we're adults and he expects me to give him more free time and energy, if he had to choose my clothes, that would defeat the purpose. It's just not practical.

Food? Well, the Owner LOVES forcing me to eat and try new things, specially things I really do not WANT to try or knows I likely won't enjoy. But other than these specific sadistic times, refer to above. Not practical to micro-manage.

As a top, I might occasionally enjoy picking out someones clothes, or over time molding their overall wardrobe to my preferences, but again that's because I have better taste than they do. As an everyday thing it would become tedious and silly for me.




Wolfspet -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:33:03 PM)

Wolf threw out all but 2 pair of underwear 13 or so years ago, lol
He prefers cleavage showing, but trusts that I know how to dress to please him and be socially appropriate.

Like emerald, he has little to no fashion sense, so actually I dress him most of the time.



stormsfate -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:36:40 PM)

:::sigh::: You can email my owner and he can tell you all about having a slave wear nylons. Fortunately, I enjoy wearing them...lol.


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darlingjade -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:37:34 PM)

I LOVE it!!!

As it happens, I'm one of those women that didn't get the shopping gene. In fact, I HATE shopping. And, believe it or not, it can and has been used as a form of punishment for me. Grrr!!!!

When pushed to the wall and forced to shop either because I'm wearing rags that bother even me or because I've been commanded to, I'm so anal about it that it quickly turns into a nightmare. Truth be told if left to my own devices I'd choose sweats and huge baggy tee's (that's winter attire, of course, summer attire would be the tee's and cotton shorts) so it's actually better all around if I'm told what to wear.

That said, however, I didn't fully understand the reasons behind dressing a certain way until a few years back when a subbie friend explained to me that wearing certain clothes to please a Dom fullfilled a kink or fantasy of HIS. You'd think that'd be a no brainer buuuuttt. It seemed sort of silly to me before then because I knew that within a short period of time I'd end up naked anyway. Once I better understood the reasoning behind it and viewed it as a relatively easy way to please someone I got completely into the spirit of things and learned to love it.
In fact, these days I use getting dressed to specification as a way to center myself on the upcoming scene.

As to what I've been required to wear, that's varied according to preferences and has included everything from the cutsy style to hardcore slutwear to nothing at all.



Superman42280 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:39:01 PM)


Sure... whats his email address? The mail function on my PC does not seem to be working. I'd love to know more about his love of nylons and how he has you dress in them -- does he buy them or you, how often do you wear them, all details if possible, please.

Thank you.




stormsfate -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:50:12 PM)

I'll send it to you off the boards.


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siamsa24 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 1:50:17 PM)

quote:

May I say I love the white stockings in your pic. You a fan of stockings?



Thank you. I must say that I don't like them much, they aren't very comfortable to wear unless you aren't planning on moving at all and they are generally too short for me. However, I do like the way that they look and tend to wear them for pictures [:D]



Superman42280 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 3:41:33 PM)


Storm: Thank you so much. I'd love to continue to be an online pen pal and chat often if that is alright with you Owner.

Sia -- Sad you don't like them, but you do look hot in them!



siamsa24 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 3:44:55 PM)

Thanks again, that's the only reason that I wear them [:D]



SirCache -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/29/2005 4:38:50 PM)

I had a slave some years ago who thoroughly enjoyed having her clothing chosen. Granted, most clothing was every-day appropriate, but being a bit attracted to cosplay gave me a whole new reason to spend money on clothing--particularly maids outfits, serving wench Ren-Fairre outfits and the like--and have her join me in public.

The maid outfits in particular always garnered people's attention, and it was a very legitimately innocent way to continue our fun in public. She loved being noticed by one and all as specifically subserviant to me, and... well, it was good for us both.

Part of the reason I joined this site was specifically to find a slave who would be attracted to that same kind of play. Particularly since I have so much more money now than I did those years ago! And.. truthfully I'd found a few cosplay sites with the exact clothing I'd been looking for. It's like having a living doll, one that you can dress in whatever manner of your choosing to better suit the lessons that must be learned, the needs that I need to have met, or the perfect excuse to punish when we get home.



srahfox -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/30/2005 8:17:04 AM)

Master only occationally choices what I'm to wear, and generaly it's more along the ling of what I'm not allowed to wear. I enjoy it mostly because I know I'm doing something to please him even if he's not around. I have a transvestite friend who's trying his best to get me to embrace stockings, I don't care for them myself and I'm kind of greatful Master hasn't taken an intrest.
Master does control what I eat. I can't seem to comtrol it myself (I snack way to much when left alone) but this is working beautifully. That's not to say there aren't days when I had a really hard time. My hands will start shaking as I'm trying not to eat that stray piece of cheese when I'm making sandwiches for lunch. But it's nice to know he cares enough to take the time to take control of what I eat. Around once a week we grab something out and He lets me pick what I want. But hey, I've lost ten pounds!
Overall, I won't give this up for the world.



ARoseAndAnEye -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/30/2005 9:31:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: As it happens, I'm one of those women that didn't get the shopping gene. In fact, I HATE shopping. And, believe it or not, it can and has been used as a form of punishment for me. Grrr!!!!


OMG! I thought i was the only one who absolutely HATES to shop. Master picks out 90% of my clothing. i love it and i thrive on it! When i do shop alone, its for a SPECIFIC item, and yes.... it turns into a battle with myself most of the time. If its not perfect (in my eyes) i won't spend the jack (which means i rarely spend the jack....).[:@]

then again, when Master and i shop together, its always fun to watch the sales people GASP when He comes into the fitting room with me. hehe.

i even HATE grocery shopping (almost as much as i hate clothes shopping), and get in trouble now and then when Master comes home and finds a jar of grape jelly and a stale box of Fruit Loops for supper.

~ anna



proudsub -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/30/2005 12:05:39 PM)

quote:

How many female slaves here enjoy having outfits chosen? What are you typically made to wear and how do you feel about it? What about food chosen?


I pick out my own clothes but Hubby will certainly tell me if He doesn't like what i'm wearing and i will change for Him. As for food no one tells me what to eat because i am the one who does all the research on nutrition and we eat according to the South Beach plan. He calls me the South Beach cop because He is trying to follow the plan but never read the book, so i have to keep Him on track.



Superman42280 -> RE: Clothing Chosen (3/30/2005 12:36:14 PM)


Sia, any other pictures of you in stockings? (evil grin....)

Actually, a perk of being my sub is that since you have to wear hosiery-stockings all the time, your legs get rubbed a lot. In fact, my standing house rule is that if you're not performing another odd function I've asked you to do, your stocking covered legs have to be within my reach at all times and offered to me when walking into the room.



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