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GeekyGirl -> Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:31:39 AM)
So last night I had a wonderful time with a great guy who I've become friends with lately. I drive away from him this morning and suddenly go into an massive emotional sub-drop type feeling...I'm sick at my stomach, I'm depressed, I feel horrible...partially because I really like this person and have discovered that he wants to be "friends" and "see me again" but isn't looking for an emotional commitment where as I feel this is someone I could fall for in a heartbeat. Everytime I'm around him, I feel the urge to fall at his feet and the call is stronger than any I've felt in a long time....(I hope he isn't reading this because he doesn't need to know that last part.) So in light of how utterly terrible I feel, please, Cheer Up Geeky Girl : Share anything you like...a joke, a funny story, whatever...I want to read something that will make me smile. Isn't that what friends are for?

Rule -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:44:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl I really like this person and have discovered that he wants to be "friends" and "see me again" but isn't looking for an emotional commitment where as I feel this is someone I could fall for in a heartbeat. Everytime I'm around him, I feel the urge to fall at his feet and the call is stronger than any I've felt in a long time.... Does he truly? Or is he lying because he is shy or afraid that you will reject him? Perhaps he thinks little of you because you are easy? Either confront him and tear down his lies, or play hard to get and see what he is willing to do, whether he will travel though hell and high water to be with you. Good luck.

FukinTroll -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:47:56 AM)
Slurp! [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/dance.gif[/image]

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:51:57 AM)
i saw Scissor Sisters last night and even though the lead singer is gay ( i think), he's so sexy especially wearing those skin tight pants suits. then after their show, i went another show to review this independent band, reModern. the lead singer was a very sexy in his tight jeans and leather jacket. i had fun hanging out with them until gettting home around 2a. working now on a review from Thursday night - saw an underground R&B/Soul group called Just Infinite. my next adventure won't happen until the 20th when i'll be part of a cable access show taping.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:53:34 AM)
What do toilet paper and the Starship Enterprise have in common? They both circle Uranus looking for Klingons. [sm=biggrin.gif] Sending you {{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:55:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rule quote: ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl I really like this person and have discovered that he wants to be "friends" and "see me again" but isn't looking for an emotional commitment where as I feel this is someone I could fall for in a heartbeat. Everytime I'm around him, I feel the urge to fall at his feet and the call is stronger than any I've felt in a long time.... Does he truly? Or is he lying because he is shy or afraid that you will reject him? Perhaps he thinks little of you because you are easy? Either confront him and tear down his lies, or play hard to get and see what he is willing to do, whether he will travel though hell and high water to be with you. Good luck. Oh I think he truly wants to be my friend and even more...but he's just gotten out of a bad relationship and I think he's not over her 100%. As for being easy, I never said I "did" anything with him, now did I ? I just said I spent the evening with him. And I do play hard to get (I never call first, never message first, and he makes a point to contact me EVERY day.) I do believe that he's very shy and a little old fashioned and very nervous about "jumping into things". And I did confront him and had a long talk about it. Basically, he feels he's having emotional problems at the moment and feels he can't really open to up to someone yet. When he's around me he acts crazy about me, when he's not around me, he contacts me all the time...all the typical signs of "liking" a girl. But then it's like he goes all shy on me and starts talking about how we're "just friends" and he doesn't want to "date" right now. (He wants to go to the movies and eat dinner and hang out and kiss but it isn't a "date").

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:57:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll Slurp! [sm=dance.gif] Thank you :) You know I love to be slurped!

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 9:59:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel What do toilet paper and the Starship Enterprise have in common? They both circle Uranus looking for Klingons. [sm=biggrin.gif] Sending you {{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}} That's funny as hell...thanks for the laugh :)

Sternhand4 -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:00:45 AM)
Ahhh affairs of the heart,,, Nothings higher than that bond we seek... and few things lower than when its rejected... Take heart, work on something just for yourself today. Try some pigtails. ( if you do please post a pic I have a visual.. lol ) And as it was stated in another post be a little less availible.. good things seldom come without effort. As for cheering you up... Three women at the doctors office. The first one goes in to see the doctor. When the doctor goes to examine her he notices a big "Y" on her chest. The doctor asks, "Why do you have a big "Y" on your chest?" She replies, "Well, my boyfriend went to Yale and when we make love he likes to wear his college sweater." The doctor nods and continues on with the next patient. When he examines her he notices a big "H" on her chest. Agian, the doctor asks, "How did you get a big "H" on your chest?" The woman replys "My husband went to Harvard and when we make love he likes to wear his college sweater." The doctors just nods his head and continues on with the last patient. As he examines her he notices once again that this woman also has a letter on her chest. A large "M". He says, "Dont tell me, your boyfriend went to Michigan?" "No ... " replies the patient. "But my girlfriend went to Wisconsin" Have a better day

KatyLied -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:03:27 AM)
I dunno, go read a book or go for a latte or go for a walk. [8D] I had a guy like that in my life. I could fall at his feet, even today. Overwhelming chemistry, and attraction the likes of which I've never felt since, and this was many years ago. We were at different places in our lives and it wasn't meant to be. But I still look at that as the potential relationship that wasn't.

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:05:21 AM)
I have learned to take things for what they are now and not to let my heart get in the way..Today, I got my freak on...yeah, he's fine as hell and a wonderful personality but I locked my heart away in a box so I can't get hurt (or atleast not as easily)...I agree with Katy--- go to a cafe, get some coffee and read a book, it works for me...Anyways, I hope you feel better soon (hugs)..and a SLURP from Troll always helps[:D]

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:07:05 AM)
THE feeling could be that ol" love bug,hospitals are reporting a huge out break since spring is just around the corner,Take an aspirin and if in a week you aren't better then the ol" bug has claimed another victim smiles.....bounty

FukinTroll -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:07:34 AM)
krissi, money would help more. Send her a ticket to Atlantic city.

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:08:51 AM)
Thank you for the kind words guys :) Ya'll know how to make me feel better! I really do think this guy is into me but just very scared of the words "relationship" and "dating". I even said to him last night, "So you want to see me, go out with me, talk to me, hang out with, etc but you don't want to CALL it dating cause it causes your brain to go screwy?" and he pretty much seemed to agree with that.

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:11:44 AM)
Troll...a threesome would cheer her up...let's all meet in NYC[8D]

FukinTroll -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 10:32:29 AM)
Send tickets babe!

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 11:03:35 AM)
I'm up for it! I could use some troll lovin' :) Honestly, I'm feeling a little better. I just had a really bad emotional drop this morning and almost threw up :( Now I'm better..I'm hanging out with my two best friends, avoiding being alone, and trying to cheer up. Thanks again guys :)

Rule -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 2:47:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl But then it's like he goes all shy on me and starts talking about how we're "just friends" and he doesn't want to "date" right now. (He wants to go to the movies and eat dinner and hang out and kiss but it isn't a "date"). Tell him that a man gets his act together and that you do not have the impression that he does.

RobertCloud -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 3:12:53 PM)
A dwarf enters into a cave and in front of him he sees the eyes of a dragon. He knows that in his pouch he is carrying a potion of domination and that one toss of this and he will have a pet of the dragon forever so he reaches inside and grabs the potion and tosses it but too late remembers that the potion of domination was in the pouch on his left side. The potion in the pouch on his right side was a love potion and one of the side effects of that potion was that the one tossing it would fall in love as well. So now you have a male dragon in love with a male dwarf and they are going around constantly stopping to make love wherever they can find the time. And if you thought an elf fucking porn fest was bad, imagine a dragon fucking a dwarf and then you really can have a good laugh.

GeekyGirl -> RE: Help Cheer Up GeekyGirl (3/10/2007 4:33:58 PM)
Thanks again guys...on a slightly related note, I believe I'm going to start a thread in Gen. forum about the weird sub drop symptoms I had today. I feel much better, with the help of you guys and my friends :)

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