rivenmoon -> RE: Bottoming from the Top (4/6/2006 1:36:23 PM)
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all is a matter of personal taste But to quote Mum: "How do you know you dont like it if you dont try a bit? If you try it and dont like it well ok, at least you know you've had a go and know what it tastes like." Mind you, she was talking about brussel sprouts at the time..........but i think it applies well to life in general. another thing rings true also...........somethings take time, they are an aquired taste. Seems the troubles topping in such a situation is to be expected naturally, its all new, the emotions, the thoughts and feeling but relax, part of it is just plain ole stage fright, more practice more comfortable the new role is. Give yourself and your bottom a chance and time to work it out and if one step each time feels a little more enjoyable for you to Top, then thats your guidepost. I agree with Gemeni - you definately dont need pressure from the bottom, which I (a sub) encountered when playing Top to a switch friend, his demands to do this n that and this way etc etc ... killed it completely so much so I just cant play with him at all. But that was my experience - it doesnt have to be that way. BEST WISHES.
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