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caught4u -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 11:53:44 AM)

NO [sm=ugh.gif]



BoundDragon -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 12:38:41 PM)

What a delightful question!!! It is a subject which fills me with great excitement.

I have been in nothing but serious vanilla relationships before my man & although I am loyal & would never cheat my sexuality did feel a little ignored.

Now I have been with him for a year and he's starting to see just what my tendacies are... he's in seventh heaven.
I'm bi & if we have a session with another girl I fancy then I'm all for it.... we've both agreed it'll never happen without the other there which is where a problem would be... as long as we stick to that then no jealous outburst will ensue (or anyone ending up single)

We both like the idea of more than 2... so just a case of who would be number 3 (and maybe 4 if he's very good)

I see it as a special gift I can give him because the way I think & feel is so rare so he gets to explore his fantasies & I dont exactly lose out either... win win... I like the maths!



favesclava -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 3:15:09 PM)

not monogamous per se. but very territorial. it has been the hardest part of my submission. i do not feel jealous everytime, but sometimes its more than i can stand. when he cuddles or kisses them deeply or call them by pet names. since they've been His slaves longer than me its to be expected that they recieve this treatment from Him. He pretty much gives all equal attention. i know how He feels about me, but i'm a greedy fuck.



callistaIn -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:05:44 PM)

In the past, nothing was ever 'planned out' between us. If he wanted to do something, he did it. He did not require my permission. Though I never got to watch him with another; I do know that he had other girls. Would I have found it arousing to see him with them; absolutly. Given permission, I would have joined in [:)]

Best of wishes

callie



DianeB269 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:09:45 PM)

I love to watch my Domme friends take my subs with strapons...



Diane



Lordandmaster -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:10:53 PM)

I have a slave who loves to watch me with other women, and I do my best to oblige.



fairerthanshe -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:40:21 PM)

I recently got to watch him play someone else and it was amazing!  I thoroughly enjoyed being able to witness how he plays from the outsiders view.  He is a rope specialist and seeing another woman tied up at his feet was extremely hot.

Then this Saturday, he gave me to a Domme and we had an absolute blast.  He joined in after watching us for about 30 minutes.  Both of these scenes were incredibly satisfying for us, only strengthened our bond and have sparked our imaginations for future possibilities.

well wishes ~ fairer



feastie -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:49:45 PM)

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I'm glad to know that. I wouldn't ever want you to think that others were judging you because of it.


Heck no ... I give them plenty of other reasons to judge me [:D]



Divina -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 4:57:49 PM)

Being with him sexually, making love, having sex, call it what you will, is a transcedental, almost magical experience because of the love and the connection involved. Anyone else present and/or involved transforms the situation, breaks the magic. They would be "interference" in an otherwise perfect picture, as the interaction between me and him would have to take a detour. He and I, "the empire of two" is out of this world; he and I and who knows who else, is a fuck, be it a good one.
I understand that for this transcedental experience to happen there must be intense feelings on both sides so I see a threesome as somehow being rather more emotionally "loose", rather more detached. I do not mean to say that people who said they enjoyed it didn't have deep feelings for their SO, but I indeed discerned a varied degree of detachedness, in their being the watcher; the voyeur.
I don't want to be detached when I share something with him, I want to be so far in it that I could lose myself in him. And that cannot possibly happen -for me- with a third person around.
So, I dismiss the possibility of sharing him as inferior experience, very far from my ideals. And I am afraid I would resent him preferring fucks over almost religious moments between the two of us, or him not seeing the whole thing the same way.
So much so, that I would walk.



tiemetight247 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (9/20/2012 3:10:35 AM)

screw that. i tend to think i ought to be enough..guys are greedy and so am i. I dont share...in certain circumstances



tiemetight247 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (9/20/2012 3:11:45 AM)

wasnt posting to anyone in pacticular..just saying~~~



DarkSteven -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (9/20/2012 4:04:14 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tiemetight247

wasnt posting to anyone in pacticular..just saying~~~


No problem. Since you revived a five year old thread, almost every single person previous has left the site anyway.



loveseat -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (9/20/2012 4:36:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: toservez

I am one that can share sexually easily but have no ability to share a heart so anything poly or some activity that involves getting to know someone else deeply is out of the question.



I will answer the OP's question by quoting toserves. My Dom is my partner and we have talked about having another woman to great extent, but for the both of us sex is something that involves getting to know someone else deeply and is a matter of the heart. So we are monogamous, and happily so.

Now initially the OP asked as a sub would you enjoy watching your Dom with another sub/slave. Although it's implied that it is in a sexual manner, it's not explicitly stated. Therefore, I could happily watch him flog another woman, I could more than happily watch him tell another sub to clean our house while wearing a french maid outfit and even enjoy the eye candy, but sex between us is sacred.



VideoAdminChi -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (9/20/2012 5:05:15 AM)

When the last post on a thread is more than three months old, please start a new thread. You may link to the old thread.

Thank you.



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