Elorin
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Joined: 8/22/2004 From: San Antonio, TX Status: offline
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Sir has me. He and I are poly, clearly defined and laid out from the beginning of our relationship, as well as re-iterated when each of us has had a relationship status change. It is his right to bring another sub/slave into our arrangement. It is also his right to have a sub/slave that has nothing to do with me and is simply another relationship that he has. He has stated I am his primary partner so I'm certain I would have met and gotten to know, as well as have a good relationship with the person before he/she moved in or anything. However it is not necessary for me to like his other relationships. I do know that he prefers I know and spend time with his other relationship partners, as he does with mine. We like to be able to do vanilla things w/ a group and not have to play "which partner can't be invited..." So what would I do? With the want, I have nothing to do. I already know we are both open to the concept. If he suddenly expressed a desire to seek out a second, I would wish him well and ask him if there is anything I can do to help in his search, if he wanted me to do anything. If he suddenly announced that a second sub was being brought into the relationship I'd be startled that I didn't know it beforehand, but I would put forth my best friendly face and attempt to get to know the person and make him/her feel welcome. ~E
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