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who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:12:20 AM   
mixielicous


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Status: offline 		Did your Master/Mistress/Dom/Top/slave/sub/bottom find you, or did you find them?

i guess if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, He found me, but meeting Him was all on me.


He found me. i like those words.


edit to add, OF COURSE i misspell the title. DOH!

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:17:57 AM   
Shylahgirl


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Status: offline 		Master found me twice.

The first time was at a fetish theamed night at a local dance club. He was doing a mummification demo and I volenteard to get wrapped in plastic.

He gave me his nubmer and said "Call me when you loose your vierginity"

I lost it the next month, but didn't call.

6ish months latter he found me again on myspace. We went on a few dates and he hasn't gottem me to leave sinse. I've been with him for a year and 4 months now..

Shylah

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:20:08 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		He found me, totally.

Then he waited patiently for my dorky self to figure out he was there.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:25:51 AM   
MissyRane


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

He found me, totally.

Then he waited patiently for my dorky self to figure out he was there.


omg like TOTALLY yanno! *hand movement n all*
sorry..couldn't help myself luv

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:27:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		He found me..and we have pretty much been together ever since.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:31:02 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

Did your Master/Mistress/Dom/Top/slave/sub/bottom find you, or did you find them?

i guess if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, He found me, but meeting Him was all on me.


He found me. i like those words.


edit to add, OF COURSE i misspell the title. DOH!


He emailed me first, but we put ourselves in the position to meet each other as far as I am concerned.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:33:49 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

Did your Master/Mistress/Dom/Top/slave/sub/bottom find you, or did you find them?

i guess if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, He found me, but meeting Him was all on me.


He found me. i like those words.


edit to add, OF COURSE i misspell the title. DOH!


Umm... I found his suite in college when I was a freshman looking for beer. Does that count as finding him?  

However, we didn't start dating until I was a junior. I'd been crushing on him on and off since we met but things had never worked out for a lot of reasons. So I don't know if I found him or we just found each other and things finally worked out.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:35:22 AM   
bayboundse


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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:36:38 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		He contacted me.... along with about 70 other guys, the first few days I was here.  Didn't take me long to realize He was the one I wanted to get to know better.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:38:23 AM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		LOL you know what me and Master got together through collarme.. but for the life of me I cant remeber if I e-mailed him first or he e-mailed me LOL I do know that he was more active in us actually meeting because when I met guys from here it was usualy months after anicial contact, with Master I think at most it was a week after the first e-mail (who ever sent it LOL) because he is very big on meeting fast.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:40:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Have'nt found the ONE yet. Met a lot of great friends along the way.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:44:11 AM   
mixielicous


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Umm... I found his suite in college when I was a freshman looking for beer. Does that count as finding him?


most certinally does count! lol, at least in the manner of which i am asking

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 9:58:57 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		We found one another.   Submission was all my choice.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 10:16:46 AM   
Caitriona


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Status: offline 		Umm...we were brought together by a hurricane...but he initiated contact so I guess he found me.  We went down the M/s path together, after we were married.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 10:20:41 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		We found each other on a online game called Star Wars Galaxies. Neither of us were looking and we didn't know until a bit later that we both had interests in BDSM. We both chalk it up to fate 

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 10:51:43 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

We found each other on a online game called Star Wars Galaxies. Neither of us were looking and we didn't know until a bit later that we both had interests in BDSM. We both chalk it up to fate 

~Lashra



Awwww! That is so sweet! Valyraen has been playing that game pre-NGE and he bought me a copy when he graduated and moved back home. While we were long-distence he would take me sight-seeing or on leveling raids as couple time.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 11:09:21 AM   
bearincuffs


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Status: offline 		I originally messaged Master on another site without any intention on being his slave!!! As time went on, I just found myself wanting to retain communication and kept replying to his emails. So technically, I found him!

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 11:10:49 AM   
mythi


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Status: offline 		Everquest came out 4 days before my wedding to my (e)stranged husband.  We honeymooned in the deserts of North Ro.  I figure that right there gives me all the geek/dork cred's I'll ever need for life! lol

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 11:12:36 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		That is definately geek cred! I've already mentioned to Valyraen that is we get married in real life, I want to have an online ceramony for our guild as well.

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RE: who made the coice? - 3/12/2007 11:20:53 AM   
mythi


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Status: offline 		Sorry that one was off topic...

In the past I've met my all 4 of my Dom's thru mutual (mostly vanilla) friends, and with 2 of them I was strictly friends with them for several months before anything "came up" because of my already being in vanilla relationship.  So I guess it was more of a finding each other by pure dumb luck situation.

Now if dumb luck would just show up again for me pretty please!

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