Drifa
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Joined: 7/27/2007 From: Rural Texas Status: offline
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While almost any flared-vase dildo will work in a good harness, I actually prefer a double-ended model myself, one of the types that offer clitoral stimulation for the wearer. If you are using a harness, the double-ended Nexus is really nice. My favorite, however, is the Share: one end is molded to fit a woman's inner spaces, the other end is a phallus... and because of the interior fit you don't have to have the harness. Like many women, I'm broad through the hips, so you need to take that into account in some positions (missionary, for example). Unlike with a narrower-hipped man, your partner is spread a bit wider to accomodate that. Usually with a strap on other positions seem to work better for me as a result. Classic doggy-style is probably the easiest to start with. One nice alternative is a thigh harness (here, here, here, and here, for example). I wear it high on the thigh, and I find I have much better control with it. With this you're just putting the one leg between your partner's thighs. When on the receiving end of one of these, you can get very good clitoral stimulation also. And both partners can use one, and thus both of you may enjoy at the same time. No matter what kind of harness, it needs to be stable. The dildo should not flop around. The firmer it's attached, the easier it is to use.
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