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WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS PROVIDE ?

That All Dominant positions should be respected as such?

38% (8)

Dominant position b respected only ifthe person respects the Dominant?

33% (7)

No Dominant position need b respected if not associated with Dominant?

9% (2)

Dominants only be respected if another Dominant states so ?

14% (3)

All Dominant positions be ignored and treated as vanilla ?

4% (1)

Total Votes : 21

(last vote on : 8/8/2016 3:08:33 PM)
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WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS PROV... - 5/21/2004 3:03:43 AM

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 3:45:15 AM

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I am lost here, please define "Dominant position"

My boss signs my paycheck, therefore she is technically in a Dominant position. I respect her as such, but I respect her for many other things as well.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 4:02:41 AM

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Dominant position in BDSM
Is Your Boss in BDSM ?
the question states Your BDSM protical
hence it is relating to Your BDSM protical
not your vanilla world if Your job stands in
the vanilla world and not BDSM.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 4:53:04 AM

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I am not going to recount my statement in the other thread that without defining the terms used the question is not possible to answer, in my opinion.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 6:18:17 AM

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Using bdsm protocol on the boards reminds me too much of cyber. IMHO, fake and contrived, lacking true interaction. All the frills, but none of the emotional substance.

Though I have tremendous interest in learning about people's RL protocols, in my own relationship there is almost no protocol beyond what's been established naturally over a 22-year marriage. But then again "lifestyle" D/s is not a big part of our personal dynamic.

If board bdsm protocol was ever demanded of me, (say, something beyond civility; and I don't count gentle teasing as awful) I'm outta here.

I agree with the poster (sorry, I forgot who) who wears a green name tag to muches when everyone else wears blue or red. To this cyber munch I'm also going to be wearing a green name tag. And I'm fine with people wearing white tags, too. Or purple.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 11:17:11 AM

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I believe this poll is too vague at best or not offering enough choices. How about all people deserve respect?

And who determines if the person is a *dominant*? If it is them, well, then I would have to state that it doesn't matter what they consider themselves in their every day lives, but only their relationship with me. I have one dominant in my life, I call him Master. I have many other's that I know RL that are dominant men. Most I call by their first names while getting to know them, then call them Sir eventually. Ironically, most feel *fake* respect worse than no respect. They feel secure enough in their own dominance that they do not have yell and scream and act like a child because some submissive didn't give them their *just due*.

Then there is of course the fact that I am not submissive, and only a slave to men. So, where a woman may well be dominant in her dealings with others in her life, in her dealings with me we are on equal footing. I treat her with the same respect she shows me, no more, no less.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 3:06:50 PM

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How about all people deserve respect?

That says it in a nutshell right there. There are so many opinions and feelings about what (if any) difference your role makes in how you are treated here. There will never be a consensus. So the best alternative is to treat everyone with respect unless they show that they don't deserve it.
My personal feeling is that subs and slaves should address me as Sir. But many don't agree with that and that is fine with me. I don't whine about it. It isn't that big of a deal.
I would hope that my words and actions would be what I am judged on ultimately. Oh and also that I am not constantly confused with Estrict.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/21/2004 4:01:27 PM

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quote]How about all people deserve respect? [/quote] - Sandy

She said why I can't vote. Of course I don't exepect you to edit the poll since it was <gasp> a subbmissive that brought that up.

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/25/2004 4:37:09 AM

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WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS PROVIDE ?

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/25/2004 7:04:11 AM

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I voted for Choice B.

btw, it's "protocol" not "protical".

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/25/2004 10:44:48 AM

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Dread, this poll conflicts with your other polls. How can this poll have any other options than yes or no as your first poll does???

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/25/2004 4:49:05 PM

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quote:

it's "protocol" not "protical".

Actually black how I spell My words in My
sentances on My polls are correct. How you
choose to spell them is your error ~smiles~

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Dread, this poll conflicts with your other polls.

inyouagain
you dont like My poll ignore it and make your
own polls. Being the NON Conformist I am it
pleases Me that My polls give you conflict to
the point to cause you sum discomfort so you
feel the need to make issue of it
JMO
hehehehhehehehe

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/25/2004 7:24:17 PM

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Being the NON Conformist I a

Actually, a true non-conformist would never make a poll in the first place because what other people think or do is of no interest to them.

At least by the Webster's dictionary definition of non-conformist.

Sinergy

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 5/26/2004 3:16:31 AM

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giggles
ding dongggg
Sinergy!!
hence the polls
that counter DICK
each other and
have answers that
purposely direct
where I want the
answers to go. LOL
~smiles~ thankYou
for being so observant.
Theres a method to
My Madness what about
Yours?

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 6/2/2004 12:43:23 PM

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Aoccdrnig 2 a rschearceh at Cmabrigde
Unervtisy, it deosn't mttaer n waht
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Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos
not raed ervey lteter by istlef,
but the wrod as a wlohe. I taert
all farkes ealquly, Of cruose I look
at all ppleoe as farkes dnot U?
gleiggs....Frignig amzanig huh?

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 6/13/2004 5:56:16 PM

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RE: WHAT DOES YOUR BDSM PROTICAL ON DOMINANT POSITIONS ... - 7/5/2004 7:32:55 PM

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