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obey1 -> RE: Formal Training and Hardlines (3/16/2007 1:30:07 AM)

As for the specifics of your story and profile, I would say seek another Domme who has a girl who is bisexual.  She would be present as well as her sub and she would be in control of the sub while your master/dom would be in control of you.  Your master and the Domme would control the shots and there would be 4 consenting adults there to find the final solution.  IMHO a Domme will be more relentless and more relenting at the same time for the purposes of your experiment.  She can tell the sub to lie on her back and let you gingerly do your best or vice-versa.  Your dom will be pleased and you can go from there.




TolerableCruelty -> RE: Formal Training and Hardlines (3/16/2007 12:01:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: obey1
You too as a newbie need a representative. 


slave union reps ? LMFAO

My girls have no limits. I have the limits. It was their responisbility before begging a collar to see that I wasn't some sicko fuckstick that wants to whack off on them while checking out net porn pics of inter-species beastiality and smearing guacomole on Myself.
Newb or not, if she's not bright enough to say '' ya know, maybe this slave thing ain't for me, cause i have some limits i need abided''.. then she probably doesn't belong in a slave collar in the first place.

just My 2 cents.

T.R.




goodpet -> RE: Formal Training and Hardlines (3/16/2007 5:24:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FiveohsBabygirl

. I have come on line  to learn and grow my knowledge of what is expected and what is involved with a Master/Slave relationship.I was of the understanding that sub/slaves have certain rights- that they can have hardlines and limits. Master disagrees and says I need to submit to him-it is what he wants and thats all that matters-


You have some good advice from obey1, SD and MR.

YES you have limits and YES you have hardlines, as you put it. 

to be asked to enter into a realtionship without them is, well silly.

If you don't  want to worry about limits in the relationship then find a Dom whom you know very well and whose limites are more then yours.. LOL then you can don't worry about them.. (as much)

there are some folks and places, events and groups that can give you face to face guidance and advice. Before jumping into a relationship get some experiences and training, attend some conferences and events. go to munches and groups.. learn and talk with others first..

If this so called Dom you are talking to balks at you going to learn from a group, event or conference then run run run.  find some local slaves to talk with..




MasterCurios -> RE: Formal Training and Hardlines (3/17/2007 8:40:55 AM)

since everyone runs there house/relationship differently it really is a loaded question but can be answered.
training to be a Master/Mistress means coming to terms with yourself being able to disect yourself and see exactly where and how you tick. to search yourself and see what will make you happy.
as far as Protocol and the training of slaves there are plenty of us tht will be happy to go into details bout the variety of trainings for specific slaves(domestic,service,sex,etc...)




Elorin -> RE: Formal Training and Hardlines (3/18/2007 6:04:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
I also recommend the books of the Ms Studies collection: http://www.goodboner.com/ms.html

~shameless self promotion~

YAY! I love when people recommend books written by friends, as well as ones I'm a model in. ~happy wiggles~




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