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Llyren -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 8:26:39 PM)
Market ourselves? We're now expected to market ourselves? Well in that case, here's my jingle. If you're in the market for a sub Whose words will never flub Look at me! Look at me! I'm as perfect as can be! My hair is of copper red Flowing, silken, even in bed Palest skin! For the win! Nothing from the bargain bin! Send me a note if you are lonely For a limited time only A better deal you'll never find Easy payments of 39.99! In all seriousness, I'm not here to market myself. Perhaps because I view myself as only suitable for a very small group of men and women. I don't think anyone is going to argue that it's a good or flattering picture. On the other hand, he's shown himself at his absolute worst, so anyone who takes him won't be deceived. I'm not going to bash Chrissy, and not just because it would be much too easy. Obviously she has enough issues with appearance without being mean. He shouldn't be trying to cheat on his wife, but at least he's being honest about it. Gah, I can't believe I'm defending him. Anyway, my point is that it's petty and vicious to slander someone based on something as ephemeral and useless as appearance. I'd rather be me, with huge hips and huge breasts and a huge personality, with wit and standards and life, than someone who looked perfect only on the surface. And if that makes me arrogant, and means that I will not have men sending me poorly-spelled notes asking about my fantasies ever again. Oh no. I hope this isn't too incoherent. I'm actually a great deal more angry than I'm trying to appear. I think both the OP and Chrissy should be ashamed of themselves. [sm=preen.gif]

chrissyslave -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 8:41:51 PM)
LOL!...this is gotten so off topic! My comments were directed only at the poster who put up a lousy photo, and at least to me if I were a Domme would cause me to pass by his profile faster than a bullet BDSM train. Anyone who read anything more than that into my straight forward comment has some sort of personal issue...i.e. some reflex action due to past comments on their size and looking for an excuse to take their rejection reaction out upon. The reality is, in my own view that is, that most of the guys here simply realize that most skinny/average sized woman have enough suiters in the vanilla world of a VARIETY of styles/sizes (dominants included) that the woman have enough opportunities for fulfillment that for what they are mostly interested in that appearance here MUST be secondary...not that they really prefer plus-sized woman. I would "love" to see someone start a poll that includes "if you had your rathers you would prefer: -skinny -slightly trimmer than average, -average (not plus size even if 14W is mid-range) -a few pounds heavier - BMI of 25 to 30 -BMI over 30 All I can say is I'll wait to do my voting in that poll. Meanwhile in the vanilla-world I'll take the votes on sites such as "Hot or Not" and go from there (for myself always 8.0 and higher), but then most photos there from plus-size woman are from shoulders on up....go figure. I would love to see a "BDSM Hot or Not" site be started, with and without scene gear on. The question is whether most Doms/Dommes here truly have different preferences or are more "willing to settle" after their primary "Dom" concerns are met. Frankly I think the PC view expressed so far is a bit different than the reality-check that most on here are unwilling to put into a new topic thread and be tested on. (silence again?) But pleasseeee...go ahead and make my day....and prove me wrong...LOL! Meanwhile I still content that the poster here should have left his clothes on, as well as his wedding band on his finger....and the Dommes here have basically given him their silent finger in response. And please tell me you "fuller" size woman have more self confidence than to dwell on a single comment made to a out-of-shape middle aged man in tight briefs to defend than "weight issue" here on a Friday night...instead of getting laid or whipped into sub-space! All us woman breast size A, B and C (sorry a cut off point here unless you provide the serial number of your implants) may we unite! We have the right to be trimmer and more healthy!! Tennis anyone?...slot open on court 9 at 2 PM tomorrow ... ...LOL! chirssy - trim slave

FelinePersuasion -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 8:45:03 PM)
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FelinePersuasion -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 8:55:31 PM)
And the women who choose to be plus size have the right to be plus size. Skinnier, is not always healthier, by the way. Nor is it always prettiest. And as for boob cut off size, mine are 48 DD ad are 210 percent all mine. When I was a size 16 I was a 34 C Also all mine. No "serial" numbers here. I like my large breasts and I wouldn't change them. quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave All us woman breast size A, B and C (sorry a cut off point here unless you provide the serial number of your implants) may we unite! We have the right to be trimmer and more healthy!! Tennis anyone?...slot open on court 9 at 2 PM tomorrow ... ...LOL! chirssy - trim slave

KnightofMists -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:02:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave LOL!...this is gotten so off topic! My comments were directed only at the poster who put up a lousy photo, and at least to me if I were a Domme would cause me to pass by his profile faster than a bullet BDSM train. Anyone who read anything more than that into my straight forward comment has some sort of personal issue...i.e. some reflex action due to past comments on their size and looking for an excuse to take their rejection reaction out upon. The reality is, in my own view that is, that most of the guys here simply realize that most skinny/average sized woman have enough suiters in the vanilla world of a VARIETY of styles/sizes (dominants included) that the woman have enough opportunities for fulfillment that for what they are mostly interested in that appearance here MUST be secondary...not that they really prefer plus-sized woman. I would "love" to see someone start a poll that includes "if you had your rathers you would prefer: -skinny -slightly trimmer than average, -average (not plus size even if 14W is mid-range) -a few pounds heavier - BMI of 25 to 30 -BMI over 30 All I can say is I'll wait to do my voting in that poll. Meanwhile in the vanilla-world I'll take the votes on sites such as "Hot or Not" and go from there (for myself always 8.0 and higher), but then most photos there from plus-size woman are from shoulders on up....go figure. I would love to see a "BDSM Hot or Not" site be started, with and without scene gear on. The question is whether most Doms/Dommes here truly have different preferences or are more "willing to settle" after their primary "Dom" concerns are met. Frankly I think the PC view expressed so far is a bit different than the reality-check that most on here are unwilling to put into a new topic thread and be tested on. (silence again?) But pleasseeee...go ahead and make my day....and prove me wrong...LOL! Meanwhile I still content that the poster here should have left his clothes on, as well as his wedding band on his finger....and the Dommes here have basically given him their silent finger in response. And please tell me you "fuller" size woman have more self confidence than to dwell on a single comment made to a out-of-shape middle aged man in tight briefs to defend than "weight issue" here on a Friday night...instead of getting laid or whipped into sub-space! All us woman breast size A, B and C (sorry a cut off point here unless you provide the serial number of your implants) may we unite! We have the right to be trimmer and more healthy!! Tennis anyone?...slot open on court 9 at 2 PM tomorrow ... ...LOL! chirssy - trim slave This post reminds me of how beauty of the flesh is quickly forgotten when one sees the ugliness of one's thoughts

MagiksSlave -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:08:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave LOL!...this is gotten so off topic! My comments were directed only at the poster who put up a lousy photo, and at least to me if I were a Domme would cause me to pass by his profile faster than a bullet BDSM train. Anyone who read anything more than that into my straight forward comment has some sort of personal issue...i.e. some reflex action due to past comments on their size and looking for an excuse to take their rejection reaction out upon. The reality is, in my own view that is, that most of the guys here simply realize that most skinny/average sized woman have enough suiters in the vanilla world of a VARIETY of styles/sizes (dominants included) that the woman have enough opportunities for fulfillment that for what they are mostly interested in that appearance here MUST be secondary...not that they really prefer plus-sized woman. I would "love" to see someone start a poll that includes "if you had your rathers you would prefer: -skinny -slightly trimmer than average, -average (not plus size even if 14W is mid-range) -a few pounds heavier - BMI of 25 to 30 -BMI over 30 All I can say is I'll wait to do my voting in that poll. Meanwhile in the vanilla-world I'll take the votes on sites such as "Hot or Not" and go from there (for myself always 8.0 and higher), but then most photos there from plus-size woman are from shoulders on up....go figure. I would love to see a "BDSM Hot or Not" site be started, with and without scene gear on. The question is whether most Doms/Dommes here truly have different preferences or are more "willing to settle" after their primary "Dom" concerns are met. Frankly I think the PC view expressed so far is a bit different than the reality-check that most on here are unwilling to put into a new topic thread and be tested on. (silence again?) But pleasseeee...go ahead and make my day....and prove me wrong...LOL! Meanwhile I still content that the poster here should have left his clothes on, as well as his wedding band on his finger....and the Dommes here have basically given him their silent finger in response. And please tell me you "fuller" size woman have more self confidence than to dwell on a single comment made to a out-of-shape middle aged man in tight briefs to defend than "weight issue" here on a Friday night...instead of getting laid or whipped into sub-space! All us woman breast size A, B and C (sorry a cut off point here unless you provide the serial number of your implants) may we unite! We have the right to be trimmer and more healthy!! Tennis anyone?...slot open on court 9 at 2 PM tomorrow ... ...LOL! chirssy - trim slave You know you are generalizing and stateng your opinions as fact when the truth as not all people are nearly as shallow and nasty as you are, you have a right to your opinion and honestly I dont care what YOU think but the fact that you are placing your opinions on the general public and stating them as fact that is bothering me... You are makeing other people look bad by lumping them in with yourslef and your shallowness.. you are totally entitled to be shallow but dont take the rest of the population with you!!! OH and my younger sister is thin and her breasts are a 42D and they are real as real can be as for me Im a 42DD and the only marks on my breasts are made by Master and not by a sergeon (no plastic parts for me) So go ahead and say what you wish but dont attempt to maskerade them as truths because really that just makes you look stupid. Magik's slave

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:11:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave I'm sorry to say that you completely butchered the quotes and my words came out as yours, and someone else's came out as mine (careful about editing quotes please!). Fact is I'm still waiting for a show of hands that indicate that his photo was a turn-on. And especially from a Domme here! Like "oh yea baby, show me your love handles in briefs....it turns me on!...let me whip that ass!!" The silence... is almost deafening. My original point still stands. He didn't ask about his photo. He asked about married guys. Honestly, there was no need to even bring it up.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:13:36 PM)
Personally didn't think she was all that pretty to begin with. quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists This post reminds me of how beauty of the flesh is quickly forgotten when one sees the ugliness of one's thoughts

RPutnamJr -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:15:36 PM)
I just ask for proportions to be somewhat appropriate accounting for age also. Have some meat on your bones but not too much meat to where it looks and wiggles like jello. Will forgive breasts wiggling like jello though. Better than hard as a rock. Unless they're young and firm. Not meaning to disrespect BBW, they are just not my type sexually. Everybody has their types and I respect that, so respect mine. As for the looks of the poster...that is giving me nightmares and I'm a guy...sorry but in your case I would try a suit instead. If you don't have the sexy looks try for the classy looks instead.

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:18:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave LOL!...this is gotten so off topic! My comments were directed only at the poster who put up a lousy photo, and at least to me if I were a Domme would cause me to pass by his profile faster than a bullet BDSM train. Anyone who read anything more than that into my straight forward comment has some sort of personal issue...i.e. some reflex action due to past comments on their size and looking for an excuse to take their rejection reaction out upon. The reality is, in my own view that is, that most of the guys here simply realize that most skinny/average sized woman have enough suiters in the vanilla world of a VARIETY of styles/sizes (dominants included) that the woman have enough opportunities for fulfillment that for what they are mostly interested in that appearance here MUST be secondary...not that they really prefer plus-sized woman. I would "love" to see someone start a poll that includes "if you had your rathers you would prefer: -skinny -slightly trimmer than average, -average (not plus size even if 14W is mid-range) -a few pounds heavier - BMI of 25 to 30 -BMI over 30 Actually, my dominant hates women your size and smaller. Bad for fucking in his opinion. Get off your little soapbox hon. quote: All I can say is I'll wait to do my voting in that poll. Meanwhile in the vanilla-world I'll take the votes on sites such as "Hot or Not" and go from there (for myself always 8.0 and higher), but then most photos there from plus-size woman are from shoulders on up....go figure. I would love to see a "BDSM Hot or Not" site be started, with and without scene gear on. The question is whether most Doms/Dommes here truly have different preferences or are more "willing to settle" after their primary "Dom" concerns are met. Frankly I think the PC view expressed so far is a bit different than the reality-check that most on here are unwilling to put into a new topic thread and be tested on. (silence again?) But pleasseeee...go ahead and make my day....and prove me wrong...LOL! Meanwhile I still content that the poster here should have left his clothes on, as well as his wedding band on his finger....and the Dommes here have basically given him their silent finger in response. And please tell me you "fuller" size woman have more self confidence than to dwell on a single comment made to a out-of-shape middle aged man in tight briefs to defend than "weight issue" here on a Friday night...instead of getting laid or whipped into sub-space! Maybe if you wouldn't hint around about how you having respect for your body = you are thin nobody would have a problem with you. You could have said "the photo isn't flattering" and left it at that. quote: All us woman breast size A, B and C (sorry a cut off point here unless you provide the serial number of your implants) Tell me, do you specialize in being an ass? There are plenty of D, DD, and DDD who are natural. I'm a fucking DDDD+ who is looking into getting a reduction. I've never even had my wisedom teeth pulled much less plastic surgery. quote: may we unite! We have the right to be trimmer and more healthy!! Tennis anyone?...slot open on court 9 at 2 PM tomorrow ... ...LOL! chirssy - trim slave I hate tennis. But I'll gladly meet you in the sparring ring. If your skinny butt can handle the abuse. Edited to add: Yes that last remark was mean. No I'm not proud of it. However, I'm leaving it there before I did say it and I'm not going to retract it.

chrissyslave -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:27:13 PM)
Well, gotta say I have views on this thread similar to this gentleman. I have no problem with other views...weightier or not, just don't try to make mine wrong because I stated the obvious. And again, I'm not hearing any Domme's lining up to take him on. As for other gals I wish you the best and the most weight to your body choices...that just means more of the typical guys left for me! Now for me I have another set of skiing exercises to do with my "Heavy Hands"...oops that's "hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two!

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:30:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave Well, gotta say I have views on this thread similar to this gentleman. I have no problem with other views...weightier or not, just don't try to make mine wrong because I stated the obvious. And again, I'm not hearing any Domme's lining up to take him on. As for other gals I wish you the best and the most weight to your body choices...that just means more of the typical guys left for me! Now for me I have another set of skiing exercises to do with my "Heavy Hands"...oops that's "hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two! Ugh.. so shallow, so stuck-up. Has it occured to you that maybe you should get your head smacked with a cluebat before entering into this world? The domme's aren't lining up because he's sleeze and I doubt it has anything to do with his body weight. I've seen more happily "fat" subs and masters paired up in this lifestyle then I have anywhere else. Truely this is a lifestyle where one looks beyond such things. However, you are new. And perhaps you should consider if you want to belong to a lifestyle that doesn't care about weight.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:34:28 PM)
Why are you assuming us bigger women are sitting on the couch eating pizza? That's just being sterotypical. quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two!

Valyraen -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:36:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion Why are you assuming us bigger women are sitting on the couch eating pizza? That's just being sterotypical. quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two! Easy... stereotypes are simpler to understand. They don't require a great deal of complex thinking or consideration.

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:38:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Valyraen quote: ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion Why are you assuming us bigger women are sitting on the couch eating pizza? That's just being sterotypical. quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two! Easy... stereotypes are simpler to understand. They don't require a great deal of complex thinking or consideration. giggles Darlin' I love you...

Llyren -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:45:36 PM)
Okay, I was going to be nice and just let this drop, but enough is enough. I actually lift weights several times a week, and also go to the gym regularly. I know. Shocking isn't it to someone such as yoursellf, who can't see beyond the Botox. Do you deliberately misspell your name on your posts, or are you just that oblivious? And last, but certainly not least, I shall proofread your .sig file. Is a song bird truly caged whense (whence) the securing door is able to be left open, and yet choses to remain inside and sing it's (its) guilded (gilded) songs for the pleasure of it's (its) master?"......myself It's is a contraction of it is. Its is the possessive form. Unless you're saying the songbird is part of a professional organization, it's not guilded. And frankly, unless its songs are coated in gold, they're not gilded either. Whence makes no sense, but it makes more sense than whense. This is just the same as the OP putting his unattractive tush on display. You're putting your unattractive self on display with this nonsensical .sig file. Believe it or not, some people find shallowness and incoherence as unattractive as you find fat. Chrissy, why can't you just accept that not all of us want to be you? Just let it go, and live your live as you see fit, without the need to denigrate those who do not share your path or beliefs. [sm=preen.gif]

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:49:32 PM)
For that matter, gilded (what I assume she meant to write instead of guild, which refers to a groups of craftsmen) refers to fake gold put on something to make it look nicer then it really is. Hmmm... Fruedian anyone? Edited to Add: Aww, you said everything I wanted to. I should have read more closely. hangs her head in shame Does it count that I've been wanting to say that for awhile?

ShiftedJewel -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:51:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chrissyslave Well, gotta say I have views on this thread similar to this gentleman. I have no problem with other views...weightier or not, just don't try to make mine wrong because I stated the obvious. And again, I'm not hearing any Domme's lining up to take him on. As for other gals I wish you the best and the most weight to your body choices...that just means more of the typical guys left for me! Now for me I have another set of skiing exercises to do with my "Heavy Hands"...oops that's "hand weights" for you woman eating pizza on the couch tonight! chirssy - a-one and a-two! Yanno... I find that reading the message boards is an excellent way to find out who you would want to spend time with and who you wouldn't want to be around longer then a few minutes. Size isn't nearly as important as attitude (read "good attitude"). It's one thing to be opinionated, but you are simply a snob about it. The dominant that finally claims you better have lots of mirrors in the house as admiring yourself seems to be your forte'. *You can have your "typical" guys, all of them. No skin of these ladies back, they, after all, have the above average guys for themselves.* *Jewel*

FelinePersuasion -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:52:13 PM)
Yup. True and when you're making pot shots Couch potato ism and sterotyping is easiest. quote: ORIGINAL: Valyraen Easy... stereotypes are simpler to understand. They don't require a great deal of complex thinking or consideration.

AquaticSub -> RE: do married guys have much luck here? (3/16/2007 9:54:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel *You can have your "typical" guys, all of them. No skin of these ladies back, they, after all, have the above average guys for themselves.* *Jewel* Aqua says: Thank you. Thank you very much. Valyraen says: Can I use you to chill my beers? I know that could beat a fire extinguisher in a chill competition. [:)] Edited because I made a typo in relaying his response.

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