Elorin
Posts: 970
Joined: 8/22/2004 From: San Antonio, TX Status: offline
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My take on this - if someone approaches me and says he wants financial domination, he should either say "I fantasize about this but can't do it for real" or he should be honest about being serious. If he is serious, I talk about limits. How much can you afford weekly? Monthly? How often can I "push" it and demand something more? If they are serious about doing this for real, $10 a week would be plenty, hell even less would be fine. I have found from talking to a number of financial subs that they want to feel like they are being milked, used like an ATM, like they have no money for themselves b/c they have to spend it all on their "Goddess", etc. With sending any amount regularly, the rest of the emotion can be played to like a fantasy. There is no need to send hundreds of dollars a week/month. What I have a problem with is those who have fantasies about sending hundreds, but can't afford it, so choose to tell me that they are serious and for real, and after getting their rocks off during negotiation disappear like hot potatoes. The dishonesty is very irritating. If someone came to me and said that they were looking for a fantasy because they couldn't really do this, I would work with them about some fantasy play. But you have to be honest. ~E
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