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Ahh, Rememberance.. Your First time Domming? - 3/15/2007 11:28:01 PM   
MalenaSalice


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If this has already been posted as a thread, I apologize. My last post got me to thinking about how natural it seems for some people to dominate others with ease, and I thought it might be amusing to ask other, more experianced people, what their first time domming was like. Did anything funny, weird, awkward, or unexpected happen? I'm sure there are a few good stories out there. Although I have limited experiance, I will share my first time:

I was down in Atlanta at a friend's house and a play party was going on. A girl decided she wanted to be dominated, asked me, and after telling her it was my first time, I said okay. I asked her what she liked- she said spanking, hair pulling, being held/tied down, teased, etc. So we established a safeword, and went into the bedroom...

one thing she apparantly neglected to say was that she liked fighting back. So, me holding her down turned into a wrestling match of scratching, hair pulling, slapping, and much frustration on my part. I don't think I've ever cursed so loudly or that much in my life, and I swear I still have nailmarks. Since she never used the safeword, and was definitely capable of shooting her prissy little mouth off at the time, I knew I hadn't crossed any boundaries. Finally one of the people at the party noticed I was having difficulty, and another girl came in, leaned down, and whispered something into the ear of the girl I had finally managed to somewhat subdue. After that, there were no difficulties. Because all parties ended up passing out in exhaustion afterwards, I never did find out exactly what was said that night, but needless to say, I felt a bit miffed at my inability to gain control of the hellcat myself, and moreso upset at the fact that she never felt the need to disclose her penchant for struggling.
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RE: Ahh, Rememberance.. Your First time Domming? - 3/16/2007 9:22:02 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		My opinion only: she was able to push you because you played into what she wanted, which was the power struggle. If you don't like a power stuggle, simply stop and tell her that either she submits or the scene it over; you will not fight her for control. However, if you like the power stuggle, find a wrestler and learn some holds. ;-)

My first attempt a Domination was shy. I was afraid of hurting him too much...but it totally made me wet. Had that taken care of and sent him on his way.

To this day, my fear is overindulgence in my sadistic side. I feel real violence there and I'm afraid of loosing control with disasterous results. I need to find the right partner to explore that. So far, I've found one, but we don't get to see each other much.

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RE: Ahh, Rememberance.. Your First time Domming? - 3/16/2007 11:01:59 AM   
Aslanemperor


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Status: offline 		ok...  My first time domming...  That would be with Allie.  I must say that I lucked out in the fact that I was as new to being a Master as she was to being a slave.  I didn't know what the hell I was doing, but I was a descent actor and so I basically played the part of the villain who's captured the damsel and has decided to be VERY bad with her.  I think I scared the hell out of her with how rough I was, but her pussy was dripping when I finally took her so I'm pretty sure that she enjoyed it.
All in all, I have to say I liked it, but I've always liked to have my way, and I enjoy the struggle of getting what I want in BDSM.  It was really nice to be able to fulfil one of my naughty fantasies without having to do something decidedly illegal and wrong.

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