fourpeas
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Joined: 5/6/2005 Status: offline
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It is absolutely imperative that you AND your Dom get tested before you engage in sexual behavior. And as for unprotected sex, 6 months of monogamy is the medically accepted time frame. This isn't about trust, it's about medical facts. No one wants to have their life taken away by HIV or other STD's just because your partner was too embarassed or shy, or WHATEVER to GO TO A DOCTOR. END OF STORY. There is no cure for genital warts, herpes, HIV. Other STD's can be treated but can have complications. I don't think this is a trust issue or a lifestyle issue, I think it is a person-to-person issue and I definitely would get tested with your partner. I would also encourage you that if he refuses to get tested to find someone who will get tested. I am looking forward to sharing my life with someone and I feel that being honest about sexual behavior, while difficult, fits with everything else. I feel like this lifestyle calls for a very, very, VERY high level of honesty and if someone can't be honest with you about getting tested, then what else is he not going to be honest with you about? Sorry to be on a rant, but I have seen too many people get HIV and other STDs because "Oh my partner is clean, he says he's clean." I wish this weren't true, but unprotected sex without knowing and fully trusting and also, having medical proof, is very dangerous. At the end of the day it's your life and your body, even as an owned slave... How can you serve your Master the best you want to serve Him if you a) can't trust that he cares about your health and safety b) if you contract an STD and are not in your best physical health...?
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