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hisannabelle -> RE: is there such a thing as a pro submissive/ (3/18/2007 7:38:18 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain
So I think many pro submissives are the results of Doms making subs work for them.
To each his own, but as a philosophical point, I find the concept difficult. How can someone Dom a sub if he is having to pay her? There is certainly no power transfer. It is obvious the best that happens is a BDSM/sensation play scene. If a Dom has no one to flog and wants it bad enough to pay for it, by all means do it because it may release dangerous built-up frustrations and keep him/her out of nonconsensual situations.
i think that it's really similar to pro-domme situations (how is it submission if you're paying? kind of issues). i also think it's good to point out that many people who might otherwise be classified as sadists and dominants wouldn't necessarily take out their sadism nonconsensually if they didn't have another outlet. i know it's a very real possibility some would, though. but yeah, i think the power transfer issues are very similar to the issues in a pro-dom/me situation.
for me, this is something i would consider doing - and yes, He'd be involved. it wouldn't necessarily be me "working for Him," unless He wanted it that way...i mean, it would be something both of us wanted, and i know He would take into account my feelings, thoughts, ideas, and proposals about the situation, etc. i don't think He'd ever push me into doing it.
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