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whipofdoom -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 6:40:02 PM)
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Thank you A/all for the truly remarkable and in so many cases quite funny responses. I am glad that so many of you took my post for what it was ment. I will be going back to reply to the ones, one on one, that I really liked. I mean that as a complement. To those of you that just have to know, no, I am not usually this rude. Nor did I intend to come off that way,( at least not as much as some people took it.)
As to all those who questioned my background, here it is in brief. I've been in the scene for over 20 years and I know that some of you won't beleave this but am a well known and well respected member of my local BDSM community. At this point I am also teaching 1 to 2 classes a month on everything from the dynamics of the Master/slave relationship to fire play.
So now to make it fair I will answer my own questions for you.
Why am I here? To meet and talk to people in the scene and to pass on the things that I've learned over time.
How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck? No, I'm not. Just fucking, and BDSM have very little in common.
Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave?
As for this, I know it much, much more than that. It is the greatest gift one person can give another. And I have been truely blessed every time someone gave themselves into my care.
Do any of you have even the slightest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about?
Honesty. To be honest with yourself and others about your wants, needs, and kinks.
When did the BDSM kindergarden start?
OK, you got me. Even I have to admit I sound like an ass here. What was ment was that when on an adult site, talking about an adult subject, act like an adult. Even though I my have sounded a little negative you will notice I did not pick on any one person. (unlike many responses to me. don't worry I can take it)
Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master?
This had nothing to do with age as much as experience. As someone else said. Even an old shit like me was 23 at one time. And I admit back then I knew shit.
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.
And this was my point all along. There is nothing wrong with just wanting to fuck, but if that's why you're here be honest. I am not here to fuck. I'm here because I'm a Dom and I'm into bondage. If i suspend my sud it's not to fuck her. It's because how beautiful she is in rope. Bondage is an art. I have taken all this time to refine my skills to get the responce out of my sub that I want. I am honest with myself as to why I do this. All of this, was to get all of you to think about it the same way.
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