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Big Sister? - 3/21/2007 7:02:02 PM

gringuita

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Hello,
This is my first post... so please, be gentle. I'm Daddy's girl (submissive, slave, slut, one of those s words... Daddy doesn't qualify it, and I have no need to either), and I'm wondering if there is any interest from female switches to be a 'big sister' in a Daddy/daughter relationship. What I'm wondering is if the dynamic of being obedient to Daddy and being a friend/sister/playmate and occasionally dom me under Daddy's supervision is at all interesting or even a comfortable idea. This isn't a personal add, so I'd just like to hear if that would be a comfortable arrangement for a switch in a relationship like mine.
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RE: Big Sister? - 3/21/2007 8:26:49 PM

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I love the thought of this. I think I would adore having a little sister!! I'm not looking for another Daddy (I already have one) but as a switch, I think that would be an arrangement I could really groove on.

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/22/2007 10:28:12 PM

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Thanks for the reply Elorin. It's good hearing that my hopes are something that would actually interest a switch... and not just a silly notion I got in my head.

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/22/2007 10:36:21 PM

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I don't think you would have to be a switch to enjoy that dynamic. It would be simular to the alpha beta... *humms the greek alphabet* ... sub/slave concept.

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 4:35:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll
I don't think you would have to be a switch to enjoy that dynamic. It would be simular to the alpha beta... *humms the greek alphabet* ... sub/slave concept.

I may be lynched for this opinion, but I think an alpha slave who is in control of the other slaves in the household IS a switch. ~shrugs~

gringuita
I actually wouldn't mind having a big sister, or being a big sister. Either appeals to me. I'm a domme myself so if I had a big sister it's not like I wouldn't have other chances to dominate. However, I don't know how it would work in a household to have Daddy and little sister be primaries and big sister in the middle is the less senior relationship. Course, big sister in the middle gets the best of both worlds - submit to Daddy, dominate lil sister, but sometimes just be sisters and get to schmooze and do subbie stuff w/ lil sister. But she would NOT sleep in the middle. ~tee hee~

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 4:48:05 AM

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If the alpha girl only Topped at the Masters command..would she be a switch? Even when the Master had her be alpha at all times, but she did not seek that position...would she be a switch? I do not think so.
Back to the original post. I think many switches would enjoy that position...Get their cake and get to eat it...

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 6:42:44 AM

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I've had the "lil sister" and enjoyed it geatly, so much so that it opened me up to the possiblity of another coming in as the "big sister" but have yet to find anyone in the 35 plus age bracket to interact with on that level. For some reason we are geared and more confrotable with the concepts of these "family dynamics" that whole alpha beta system is unnatural for us.

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 9:44:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

I may be lynched for this opinion, but I think an alpha slave who is in control of the other slaves in the household IS a switch. ~shrugs~

So any submissive that takes control of Ums is a switch?

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 7:37:20 PM

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No I disagree that any submissive who takes control is a switch..she or he could simply be following the orders/wishes of her or his Dominant. It's the motivation that defines someone more than the action in my opinion. I don't particularly like the term switch to describe myself, rather I'm Michael's slave. I am a Dominant personality, but in my love relationship I prefer to be the submissive partner. I also dominate others on occasion. Therefore I identify as a Dominant and a slave- masochist and sadist.

but to answer the question, yes, being the big sister is appealing to me. I have been just that before and enjoyed it immensely.

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RE: Big Sister? - 3/23/2007 8:17:41 PM

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My opinion, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll put it this way. Someone who takes control of other adults in a consual relationship, while also giving up control to another adult consensually, switches. Whether they are A switch or not depends on their personal choice and how they self identify.

Without a universally accepted definition, it's up to interpretation. I'm ok with my interpretation being different, and I'm ok w/ others not agreeing w/ my view.
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RE: Big Sister? - 3/25/2007 6:50:25 PM

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Thank you all for all the opinions! Good to hear that my kinky dreams have hopes of fulfillment.

I don't pretend to know or understand the different titles and definitions that come with this lifestyle; however I appreciate the opinions and insight.

I don't know how to quote... but totally understand the 'she won't sleep in the middle' sentiment.

I'm not sure how the alpha/beta sub system works... but... I do want to be the favorite (is that really horrible of me?).

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