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Scarfbound -> silk scarf bondage (4/9/2005 3:52:17 PM)

I have a question for you about tying with silk scarves. It is my fetish and being a trained rope binder I am very good at this little used but fine art. My biggest problem is finding willing partners to bind. When topping someone I like to use scarves and sexual teasing instead of ropes and pain. I've always thought there was a gray area there in between curious and hard core extreem where people just want to be tied up and enjoy light to moderate torture and sexual stimulation. My question is, where the heck do I fit in here. I am a switch but mostly enjoy topping. Any thoughts on silk scarf bondage, experiences. Any thoughts on my gray area observation. Any questions?




MistressTrin -> RE: silk scarf bondage (4/10/2005 9:05:15 PM)

I have a very good vanilla male friend who told me once that his girlfriend had asked him to tie her up with silk scarves. He was simultaneously horrified and excited and I encouraged him to do it..why not, right? Apparently it went well and the next time, he asked to be tied to see what it felt like...

This may be an effective means of introducing the scarves into your play. Many men (and women) like to be tied with scarves, since they seem "prettier or less harsh" than ropes, saran, chains, etc. Since you switch, it could be a nice way to introduce it into play that gives your partner the confidence it isn't scary and the control they may need over the concept. The next time may be easier to tease them into the scarves and they will be confident it's not so bad and can be quite fun.

Hope that's what you were looking for...[:)]

~Good luck and happy tying~

Trin




UrbossinSanDiego -> RE: silk scarf bondage (4/29/2005 5:40:21 PM)

I have not used silk scarves per se, I have however used several of my neckties...they are usually silk or a very smooth soft fabric...they tie well (no pun intended) and knots come loose easily, and since they are longer than most scarves, they can be useful in many configurations...and besides, you can wear them and keep them in your car innocuously...
Good luck....




subbella -> RE: silk scarf bondage (4/30/2005 12:58:42 AM)

My sister presented our Master with two beautiful silk scarves as a gift. Her hopes being that he would incorporate them into sessions. I'd love the feel of silk as a blindfold, and between sister and me, we are hoping to encourage Master to "tease" us with the softness of silk!




glassdoll -> RE: silk scarf bondage (5/2/2005 8:48:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Scarfbound

I have a question for you about tying with silk scarves. It is my fetish and being a trained rope binder I am very good at this little used but fine art. My biggest problem is finding willing partners to bind. When topping someone I like to use scarves and sexual teasing instead of ropes and pain. I've always thought there was a gray area there in between curious and hard core extreem where people just want to be tied up and enjoy light to moderate torture and sexual stimulation. My question is, where the heck do I fit in here. I am a switch but mostly enjoy topping. Any thoughts on silk scarf bondage, experiences. Any thoughts on my gray area observation. Any questions?



it's your kink.




lsd2k5 -> RE: silk scarf bondage (5/18/2005 10:38:45 PM)

i totally agree with glassdoll everyone has there own thing and thats yours so dont be afraid or confused by it have as much fun with it as you can. and if your partner is afraid of doing it let them have some fun with it first. who knows if you make it look good enough....[;)]




asissyforher -> RE: silk scarf bondage (6/16/2005 5:02:04 AM)

Any questions? scarfbound;;
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yes. where were you when i was looking for someone with scarves and silky things growing up? it has been a fantasy of mine all my life.

a slave




guy4silkbound -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/6/2006 5:41:56 AM)

hi, I'm a silk fetish who love to be silkbound and silken mummified with silk & silky material, like silk & silky scarves, wide silky strip, silk ribbon, etc...

have you ever tied a real person using silk scarves before??? if yes, how many silk scarves did you used  and does your scarvesbound victim make his/her escape?

there was a lady in US who told me that she would like to have me s8ilkbound and silken mummified with more than 150 silk & silky scarves, dont you think this is a joke...lol.

maybe she dont know that I am quite small size cos I am an asian. definitely there is no way she can used more than 150 silk & silky scarves to bind and wrapped me up...

I would love to take her challange which is a sure win....lol.

I would also love to be your silkscarves bondage sub too if there is a chance...btw,I love to escape from tight silkbond cocoon..(smug).

hmmm...how many silk scarves would you used to bind and mummified me if given a chance?

cheers,
guy4silkbound

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Evanesce -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/6/2006 9:00:28 AM)

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maybe she dont know that I am quite small size cos I am an asian. definitely there is no way she can used more than 150 silk & silky scarves to bind and wrapped me up...

I would love to take her challange which is a sure win....lol.


LOL!  For HER, most definitely!  Small or not, there is no such thing as too much when it comes to bondage and mummification.  150 is just a warmup!
 
But I still prefer multi-color saran wrap.




WyrdRich -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/6/2006 4:51:30 PM)

    Sign me up for your gray area!  Woo-Hoo!!

    I've used silk for sensation play but never had enough around to do any serious bondage with them (EXPENSIVE!!!  unless you live in or near a big enough city to buy your stock in thrift stores).

    I've read that extra caution needs to be used with these because the silk can tighten up and cut off circulation fairly easily.

     Have fun.




shadevarr -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/6/2006 8:52:19 PM)

I only have 3 silk scarves currently, one for each wrist and one tight around the neck. Haven't really needed more but the thought of 150 does arouse me.




Daddy4Princess4 -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/7/2006 11:05:31 AM)

Just a caution here:  Silk can make itself very compressed.  When it is tied against skin, it can actually develop rather sharp edges (depending on the thickness of the silk, of course).  Ties tend to be thick enough to be safe, but some of those scarves could become quite painful quickly.

Play safe.




tieherup -> RE: silk scarf bondage (7/8/2006 8:20:29 AM)

i'm into silk scarfs for otm gags is there any one out there like minded?[X(]




tieherup -> RE: silk scarf bondage (8/10/2006 7:19:08 AM)

asissyforher.i've also been into scarf bondage all my adult life.more especially for to gag or be gagged.




shadevarr -> RE: silk scarf bondage (8/13/2006 12:45:27 AM)

I use mine as both restraints and as gags, I just love the stuff. Now if I can find a suitably dark and thick one to use as a blindfold I'd be happy for the rest of the year.




WhiplashGirlChld -> RE: silk scarf bondage (8/13/2006 12:51:42 AM)

quote:

I use mine as both restraints and as gags, I just love the stuff. Now if I can find a suitably dark and thick one to use as a blindfold I'd be happy for the rest of the year.
  Try:  http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=4&products_id=11&zenid=477906d201aa976d1d12936e38642d53




Cristalin -> RE: silk scarf bondage (8/13/2006 12:59:00 AM)

i am really interested in this subject, i have several (about 24) silk scarves and i try them on myself but i have to admitt my knotts are not perfect, is there a site where i could learn more about this?




shadevarr -> RE: silk scarf bondage (8/13/2006 4:34:25 AM)

for the knots? I use my trusty boy scout's handbook.  Oh, and thanks for the link but that is a scarf with a blindfold sown in. I was looking for a silk scarf that will be thick enough to not need an actual blindfold, I find that look far more erotic.




tomcat45 -> RE: silk scarf bondage (2/28/2007 11:49:34 AM)

I also love silkbondage, blindfold and a good gag.
I have over 150 scarves.

greetings tomcat




leather4pearls -> RE: silk scarf bondage (3/13/2007 12:53:54 PM)

Wide satin ribbon or blanket binding is very nice. I recently purchased a package of 2 1/2 " wide black satin (Blend) with a finished edge and cut them to a prefered lengh. Oooooohhh!




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