RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann)

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann)

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann)

Page: << < prev 4 5 6 7 [8]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:01:31 AM

AquaticSub

Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

I'm thinking be as pig headed and narrow minded as you can be!!
Be proved that your opinion could be wrong but definately never ever admit it openly.
Sure there must be other admittance rules but off the top of my head ........

Does it come with a nifty uniform?

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to missturbation)

Profile

Post #: 141

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:07:02 AM

missturbation

Posts: 8290
Joined: 2/12/2006
From: another planet
Status: offline

So i heard. Bit like a prison guards but with a specially made hat to fit an over inflated ego

_____________________________

What you don't witness with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. Proverb.

If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

Buying 10 item's or less is not shopping !!

(in reply to AquaticSub)

Profile

Post #: 142

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:22:47 AM

SirDiscipliner69

Posts: 2607
Joined: 2/1/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

So i heard. Bit like a prison guards but with a specially made hat to fit an over inflated ego

Never let your head get bigger than your hat size.

Ross
©º°¨¨°º©

(in reply to missturbation)

Profile

Post #: 143

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:25:26 AM

Stephann

Posts: 4214
Joined: 12/27/2006
From: Portland, OR
Status: offline

Over inflation never hurts my ego; it still weighs the same.

As for the D/s police, I was passed over in the test. I have to be content with my Vigilante Justice Badge from my box of Gor-Flakes.

The White Bluesman

_____________________________

Nosce Te Ipsum

"The blade itself incites to violence" - Homer

Men: Find a Woman here

(in reply to SirDiscipliner69)

Profile

Post #: 144

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:28:21 AM

Passion357

Posts: 481
Joined: 8/7/2005
Status: offline

Greetings, All,

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

quote:

ORIGINAL: Passion357
It's just a general question, no details needed. Like "What is she doing?" Well, it does not matter :-) She is challenging authority in a public M/s setting. That's bad enough.

Well Wishes,
~Passion~
It's interesting to see what gets disreguarded in order to make ones point. Isn't it?

Thank you, Discipline! I was just fixing to do this very thing and copy and paste the part of the OP that was overlooked.

I asked the question the way I did for a reason. I wanted *all* outlooks. Draw your own conclusions.

If you want to be the Master friend of the Master and say the girl is surely being *bad* and not playing, then so be it. I'd like your outlook on what *you* would do. :-)
If you want to be a complete stranger and view the girl as being playful, please do. I want *your* outlook, too :-)

I must say, however, I think this statement says exactly what I was thinking:

quote:

Are you absolutely sure that the submissive/slave is challenging his/her owner's authority. I ask because there have been many situations where someone could assume my sub was challenging mine when I wasn't. In other words, it is the Owner who determines what is and isn't a challenge. And some Masters/Owners want resistance; that is part of their kink.

Having said all of that, my answer is to watch the Owner/Master. He/She may be enjoying the challenge. They may not be. But, in either case, I think it is for the Owner/Master to deal with, or not. How they choose to respond may be the critical factor in the future of the relationship.

The bottom line is that no one can know all the details of the negotiation behind the relationship except the participants. Interfering in any way is just that: interfering. Even when it's clearly messed up. Besides, doing it wrong is an important part of learning how to do it right.

Well Wishes,
~Passion~

(in reply to MrDiscipline44)

Profile

Post #: 145

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 10:32:45 AM

AquaticSub

Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

Over inflation never hurts my ego; it still weighs the same.

As for the D/s police, I was passed over in the test. I have to be content with my Vigilante Justice Badge from my box of Gor-Flakes.

The White Bluesman

*giggles* That made my day.

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to Stephann)

Profile

Post #: 146

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 11:25:31 AM

ELUSIVE1

Posts: 536
Joined: 9/11/2005
Status: offline

I went to a social with a great Master of 30+ years...one of the couples had a Dominant that was forever making his submissive drop to her knees as punishment...no one really cared for the way he treated her, but out of respect nothing was said...BUT the next time we ran into this couple, the great one just quietly handed her a pair of knee sheilds from Home Depot....he got the point across, and not a word was spoken...

_____________________________

"Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality"

*Poe
http://alt.com/blog/ELUSIVE1NC
http://users.adultspace.com/ELUSIVE1NC/

(in reply to dawntreader)

Profile

Post #: 147

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 11:48:43 AM

AquaticSub

Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ELUSIVE1

I went to a social with a great Master of 30+ years...one of the couples had a Dominant that was forever making his submissive drop to her knees as punishment...no one really cared for the way he treated her, but out of respect nothing was said...BUT the next time we ran into this couple, the great one just quietly handed her a pair of knee sheilds from Home Depot....he got the point across, and not a word was spoken...

That is an excellent point! I'm curious if the same number of people would step in they thought a dominant over over-punishing as would step in if they thought a submissive wasn't being obedient enough.

Edited to Add: Love how it was handled.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 3/28/2007 11:49:06 AM >

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to ELUSIVE1)

Profile

Post #: 148

RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) - 3/28/2007 12:39:20 PM

Calandra

Posts: 725
Joined: 11/22/2004
Status: offline

I agree with juliet, basically...

If this is consistent behavior, I'd simply try not to actively associate with the couple in question. I have no problem with "resistance play" between others, but that doesn't mean I would be happy closely associating with a couple that approaches this lifestyle from so different a direction as I do.

I (and those who serve Me) love following a higher, more structured protocol as expression of our D/s, so it would feel uncomfortable to spend a large amount of time with a couple that didn't value similar ideals. It would be compounded if the submissive WAS challenging authority and the Dom/me was visibly uncomfortable or embarassed.

If I were ever asked "why" I avoid someone, I would first ask if they really want the answer... if they do, then I'd explain how the behavior made Me feel. If they can't handle hearing it, they shouldn't have asked....

(in reply to julietsierra)

Profile

Post #: 149