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sissy play advice needed - 3/27/2007 9:07:48 PM

LilKizmet

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My Dom has asked me to dress him up as a girl and humiliate him. I need some advice since I've never done this before and I haven't topped anyone either. It is all a little new and I find the idea exciting but have little to no experience with this. Since I have always considered my self a sub, but I am finding new things about myself. Right now it is still in the discussion phase but I figured it would never hurt to ask some advice especially since I have never really spent anytime around sissy subs.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks.

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RE: sissy play advice needed - 3/27/2007 9:14:18 PM

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Heck just keep going on about how ridiculous he is being a dom and yet wanting you to dress him up and humiliate him and how obviously he just can't take it and needs to be put in his place. That ALONE could be fodder for a good hour.

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RE: sissy play advice needed - 3/27/2007 9:16:04 PM

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lol *hugs* Thanks I shall have to try that

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RE: sissy play advice needed - 3/27/2007 10:39:34 PM

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Possible book recommendations

A Charm School for Sissy Maids by Mistress Lorelei (second edition)
Miss Vera's Finishing School for Boys Who Want to be Girls: Tips, Tales & Techniques from the Dean of the World's First cross-Dressing Academy by Veronica Vera
The Lazy Crossdresser by Charles Anders

Hmm. Do you like tea? You could read up on high tea ceremony, have him serve you tea and then grump about how bad he is at it while copping feels every time he bends over.

Oh! You could have a poetry recital and correct his diction! You could find some Ru-Paul CDs and rip him shit while having him lip synch. If that's too sophisticated for him while he's dolled up, there's also critiquing his performance of I'm a Little Tea Pot.

Hmm. You may get some inspiration from renting a bunch of movies that have women watching male strippers. Some of the heckling may give you ideas of things to say.

"C'mon, honey! I know you've got a spout somewhere under that frock! Once more with feeling!"

Good luck.

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RE: sissy play advice needed - 3/28/2007 7:59:28 PM

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Thank you so very much for the book suggestions and the other advice. And giving me a few ideas

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RE: sissy play advice needed - 3/28/2007 10:54:37 PM

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Well you could always try the spontaneous play I tried once that My former sissy hubby later said he enjoyed most of all! W/we'd just come home with all the grocery shopping and of course, he was in his high heels bringing everything in from the car. I told him to take off his outerwear exposing the panties and stockings underneath. Then I fastened his arms behind his back at the wrists. Then I sat down and told him to put the shopping away!

Well, it was hilarious watching him trying to hold things with his teeth (false ones at that LOL!) or backing up to cupboards and trying to stack cans. Lots of ammo for heckling of course. And when it came to putting the packet of toilet rolls on the top shelf ... well, that was hysterical. He eventually did a very clever thing with a broomstick ...

Just one little word of caution. While your Dom has asked you to do this (and I think LA was right, you can get a lot of mileage out of that alone), it might pay to clarify what He thinks is humiliation compared to what you think it is. In My experience, everyone defines humiliation differently and you don't want to inadvertently say something that really hurts His feelings. Don't want to jeopardise your usual relationship through what I think is intended to be a learning experience that stretches both of you. Good luck!

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