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D/s training - 5/22/2004 8:50:13 PM

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Need some advice.

I have been more used to Master / Slave relationships.

However of late I have become with a sub in a D/s relationship and am having trouble trying to adapt my training methods. (have used B.E.S.T. in the past)

Any suggestions were I can gather information speifically on D/s training?

Your cooperation in this matter is greatly appreciated.

Aonghus

RE: D/s training - 5/22/2004 9:06:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aonghus
Any suggestions were I can gather information speifically on D/s training?

Have you visited the Submissive Loving website? It may help in your quest:

"Welcome to Submissive Loving. The source for submissives and dominants interested in learning more about BDSM and the Domination/submission Lifestyle. This site's mission is to provide helpful, sound, and realistic information and advice."

Also, try Castle Realm D/s Resource Center.

There is a variety of articles at the Iron Rose Library which may help in researching specific topics.

Hope these help, and welcome to the message board.

Inyouagain

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RE: D/s training - 5/22/2004 10:08:20 PM

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Please excuse My entry on Your Forum Masters:
here is My suggestion Aonghus:
http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html

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RE: D/s training - 5/23/2004 2:55:27 AM

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What is your goal in using formalized training?

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RE: D/s training - 5/23/2004 9:12:43 AM

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hmmm first I read sumthing
and then I find it gone when
I come to make comment.
interesting, hind sight must
of kicked into gear.

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RE: D/s training - 5/23/2004 9:01:10 PM

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Not really. I simply thought it was inappropriate and didn't need to be aired here.

If, however, you'd like to know more about it, please do contact me at my email - [email protected]

Considering it was a real life experience, and a business type thing, I have no issue discussing it really, especially considering how many other folks had the same exact experience and were physically present the entire time that could verify anything I'd have to say in regard to that.

I just felt it was not in keeping with the topic, and thus, made a comment that was.

~ShadeDiva

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RE: D/s training - 5/23/2004 9:52:55 PM

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LOL
Then why make mention
of it?
hindsight
We all have opinions based
off of Our facts.
I have no desire to know Your
experiances hence no need to
contact you in private.
I posted My Opinion of what I feel is good
One Mans trash is another Mans treasure.
Im sure Aonghus is capable of making that
choice and decision for Himself as well.

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RE: D/s training - 5/24/2004 2:34:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

LOL
Then why make mention
of it?
hindsight
We all have opinions based
off of Our facts.
I have no desire to know Your
experiances hence no need to
contact you in private.
I posted My Opinion of what I feel is good
One Mans trash is another Mans treasure.
Im sure Aonghus is capable of making that
choice and decision for Himself as well.

Because you addressed me even though you didn't use my name. I would have felt it was rude to NOT reply, so I did, as it seemed to me that was the purpose of your entire post, and since you took the time and the effort to type a response to something that existed very briefly - I felt to be civil, a reply would be in order.

However, yes, hindsight was an appropriate term, I'll admit. I misspoke when I said "Not Really". It happens. lol

And yes, facts are indeed facts. *smile*

Out of curiousity - why even mention it anyway? Seems a tad moot, at that point, really.

~ShadeDiva

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RE: D/s training - 5/24/2004 4:37:30 PM

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I like the thought
of a divas miss
spoken words
being corrected
on hindsight and
enjoyed listening
to you state that
your words were
moot.......~smiles~

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RE: D/s training - 5/25/2004 7:40:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
I like the thought
of a divas miss
spoken words
being corrected
on hindsight and
enjoyed listening
to you state that
your words were
moot.......~smiles~

I rather thought you would - you make it quite clear that is kinda where your mentality is at. <shrug> I'm human I make mistakes, and what's more, I have NO issue saying so.

Of course, you didn't read them *correctly* but I didn't expect you would so yanno, no biggie. I rather didn't think you copuld comprehend that the moot was in regard to your post, and not mine - I see I was correct. *smile*

And congrats at directing your comments to me directly. However, as I said in my other post to you - it is clear where we both stand - so let's not rehash it.

Neither of us seems to think of the other highly, and neither of us cares that the other doesn't. As a result, no communication between us will be a positive one, so there is no point in attempting further discourse, as I am quite sure you will agree with, and if not, well, that's your deal, not mine.

You'll do your thing, I'll do mine, and neither of us will give a flying fuck one way or the other, so case closed. Kapeesh? And yeah, it was a rhetorical kapeesh.

*smile*

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RE: D/s training - 5/25/2004 7:54:03 PM

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I believe the word is capiche, which (if I remember right) is the Italian verb for understand.

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RE: D/s training - 5/25/2004 7:57:12 PM

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Aonghus:

You stated you used B.E.S.T. in the past, what is that?

BTW- the submissive loving website is great!

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RE: D/s training - 5/25/2004 8:09:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy
I believe the word is capiche, which (if I remember right) is the Italian verb for understand.

hehehe, the original Italian spelling, yes, was capisci. The anglicized spelling of that word however is either kapeesh, kabish, and capeesh.

So yanno .. do as in Rome, and all that. hehehe

Nice spotting though!

~ShadeDiva

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RE: D/s training - 5/26/2004 3:11:34 AM

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quote:

you make it quite clear that is kinda where your mentality is at

yes diva I am a kinster and a alternate lifestyle person whom gets off on that which is not deemed normal to society and your point on bringing this allready known fact here is? do you really feel that My mentality is less then yours? face it diva you are here as a outcaste of society as well.

quote:

Of course, you didn't read them *correctly* but I didn't expect you would so yanno, no biggie

Each person reads whats written and takes away what They so choose in the writings. I am sure I read the words correctly and just because I dident address them in the way you would wish Me to doesent mean I dident read them correct. It simply means I stated My words off of what I desired to state and may or maynot be based off of anything you stated.

quote:

hmmm first I read sumthing
and then I find it gone when
I come to make comment.
interesting, hind sight must
of kicked into gear.

I made no referance to you
or your name what so ever.
I simply made a observation
that dident need any responce.

quote:

Neither of us seems to think of the other highly, and neither of us cares that the other doesn't.

there you go again tempting to speak for Me. do you wear My kolar or wedding ring?? I think not/

quote:

neither of us will give a flying fuck one way or the other

that is your words and your opinion however I do care about My Lifestyle

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RE: D/s training - 5/27/2004 4:18:53 PM

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greetings, Aonghus...

good place to start is to define for Yourself what You think the difference between submissive and slave is... then see if the sub agrees with that... then go from there...

for Me... submissives retain use of the word 'no', and slaves do not...
I don't post often here, cuz I don't often have time to come read... My email however is [email protected], and you are certainly welcome to email Me at any time...

I wish You well,

Temji

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RE: D/s training - 5/28/2004 7:32:41 PM

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Hi,

Just wanted to thank everyone for thier suggestions. The Submissive Loving site was great.

It also helped my to better understand where my sub is coming from mentally.

The B.E.S.T. method can be found at http://www.bestslavetraining.com/Welcome.htm

Again
Thanks
Aonghus

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