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ShadeDiva -> RE: Escorts and BDSM (5/24/2004 3:29:03 AM)
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Well off your escort page.
Yanno the one you recently killed off.
Here let me get the link off google's cache:
http://66.102.7.104/search?q=cache:EZU_HBWnK8sJ:www.usaadultdirectory.com/master/body/1713/feedback_fs.html+702-561-1212&hl=en
I first saw that particular page about 1 year ago, when it was still active - someone showing me another money dommes escort advertisments threw me the wrong link and I popped onto it, and was all dude that's not her, and she gave me the correct one.
However, my memory, especially for faces of women, and tattoos is quite exceptional (prolly cuz I study them as I specialize in drawing women, I seem to retain an unnatural photographic memory of sorts when it comes to women's faces and shapes, and as an artist that has drawn tattoos, and a tattoo affecendio, I remember tattoos).
At any rate that page was active a year ago and as recently as about 2 months ago, last date I happened to blink by it while looking up someone else, I really dug the tattoo, or what I could make of it, lol.
So yanno, you popped onto this site, with your original post which BTW was typical of a moneydomme *post*, and so as a result you caught my attention. I love this site in particular because I don't see a lot of that type in general on the boards, and was pleased to find a space on the net unburdened by that particular greedy mindset. So yeah when I see that mentality appear, I tend to notice. And the picture you included was quite familiar.
Sooooooooo I got curious, and did a google search on your phone number which also seemed very very familiar, and wahla, your first dominant page pops up on ms.domina.com, along with an escort page that I saw only recently but it was still active.
Now you say light domination there, so yanno, I know escorts can indeed be interested in BDSM for it's own sake and yanno to buffer their services, so no biggie really, for all I know that's the way it is, and I won't judge a woman for being an escort anymore than I would judge them for being a prostitute, that's their business, after all.
So yanno I know you've been on the web for at least a year and that page was active two months ago, soooooooo being bored and now fully curuous, in light of your first post, I just did some quick looking into your whois for your new domain name which you registered on May 2, 2004, at which point you killed the ms.domina.com page and set up on extrasuite.com with your domain name pointing to it. Nothing bad really, except for the fact of a few things:
You are lying about your history right here right now.
You are lying and putting down the exact same thing you have done or do.
You are lying about how long you've been on the web.
You are lying about your opinions of escorts that advertise domination.
Why, I don't know, and I kinda don't care. You could have just posted in this post that hey *I* do it, and I think it's fine, or I do it or have done it and I don't see the problem with it. Instead, you state you think it's *wrong*, and then deny your own history, when I expressed that I was surprised at your stance considering you were a real life escort. And I was surprised - I had expected you to be honest and come up with THEIR angle in a thought provoking way, or to shed a different perspective on it from that side, not bash yourself. The more likely reality is that goddessmarissa was created 2 months ago, not that you came online 2 months ago, especially considering the nature of your first post here. Though I will admit you learned DAMN quickly when the regulars here kinda ragged you for trolling.
And please don't deny it at this point, I mean have some dignity. The female in the pictures is the same lady as in the pictures on your website, and they are *verfied* pictures from that company, which means they screened the real life escorts to make sure they were using real pics, their money and crediblity depends on that, and besides the *tattoo* is the same. So is the phone number.
I would have had a ton more respect had you copped to your experience and background and history honestly - rather than just sitting here and lying about it. I wasn't judging you for your histroy, I was saying I was surprised that you agreed.
I don't think being an escort or even a prostitute is something to be ashamed of if you made that choice yourself and found nothing wrong with it - it's not a choice I'd make for myself, but I have no issue with others making that choice for themselves and their lives. But on that same token, I don't expect them to lie about it either.
I also don't recall seeing any advertisments in the Las Vegas listing that feature such ads over the years, as I do have family that lives there and in Reno, and I do travel there somewhat frequently, and do get curious what is going on in that corner of the BDSM world. But hey, I could have missed those.
Anyway, just because you yanked your pages doesn't mean they can't be dug up, or found. Why people feel a need to invent personas, historys and backgrounds is beyond me, I just don't get why it's difficult to just be honest and say who you are. It all comes out in the end, anyway.
I will say that I agree with Lady Beckett's post, in regards to posting with an authoritative voice, which you have done here. I must say it disturbs me on a few levels that if you'd lie about your entire background, well, it makes me wonder how honest you were in your posts, your advice, and the experiences you relayed here, and if any of them really happened at all. I confess I find it sad as I have really come to like this space and the minds that frequent it, and I do feel a tad protective of it, and I truly hope the moneydomme mentality does not gain a foothold here and make this space into one where the BDSM integrity of it on a whole is called into doubt.
~ShadeDiva
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