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swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 7:23:56 AM   
alex22wv


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Status: offline 		Greetings all,
I am currently trying to get over the mental block of swallowing my own cum.  Does anyone have suggestions of ways to get over this mental hurdle other then just do it?

Alex
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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 8:31:54 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		How would you describe your mental block?  What makes it seem 'wrong' or 'creepy' or whatever emotion you are feeling?

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 9:04:41 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		If it's the idea of it that bothers you, knock it back like a shot and chase it with a flavored liquid. If it's the taste that bothers you, change your diet. If it's the texture that bothers you, spread it thin on a slice of bread.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 12:19:49 PM   
toservez


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Status: offline 		Work with your other and communicate with her your problems. Two best ways would be to start off with a small amount and not all of it at once. Something like licking a finger off with a small amount on it, then doing it twice and so on, a slow buildup. Another way would be to have it with another powerful tasting thing and to eat/swallow it fast.

Mentally I would try like any other submissive, try to focus on it is your dominants desire and for her pleasure and to think why is this really so bad, what is the harm. Focus on back when you were young and your parents made you eat something you did not like, was the fight not worse then the food and eating it faster to get through it better then going slow and fighting it.


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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 1:23:47 PM   
MsKatHouston


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other then just do it


I am pretty fond of "just do it" and think it a valid solution though I am sure one you didn't want to hear lol

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 1:56:30 PM   
BoundDragon


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Status: offline 		I agree with the build up to it... almost like getting used to it I suppose.
Before you know it you'll be lapping it up like its second nature lol

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 4:07:09 PM   
rskenderian


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Status: offline 		i say just do it.
Or, if it's with your lover, and fluid exchange is going on, kiss Her (Him?) with your cum in Their mouth. That will get you through it, slow or fast.

- richard "puppy"

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 4:13:22 PM   
myobedience


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Status: offline 		Are you trying to swallow your own cum because previous Domme's have insisted on it?
Or like your profile says, you are now looking?  If so, maybe your new Domme wont make you if she knows it is difficult?
 
just curious.
 
On the other hand, you asked how to over come and it seems just do it might win out....but
is it the taste you are afraid of? 
the texture?  I know many have issues with the texture and taste.
I have always had a mental block when it came to strangers I was to serve formerly, but now will not have to worry about strangers. 
I did it slowly.... just a drop, then juice.  It is true what you eat makes the taste change, men and women.  Smoking also makes a diff.
Now I enjoy it all...his and mine mingled together.  He likes it when I suck off his fingers after they have been in me..... 
so if you have no relationship now, I can garuntee the right one might make a difference in your mind frame.
just a suggestion, so you dont worry about it so much.

< Message edited by myobedience -- 4/3/2007 4:22:13 PM >

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/3/2007 4:17:16 PM   
Tom48


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Status: offline 		Being a sub/slave and swallowing my own cum or another mans cum as instructed by my Mistress part of being owned...cleaning Her with my tongue after another man has had Her also part of the lifestyle.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/12/2007 11:25:14 PM   
RowanJ


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Status: offline 		Think of it as protein.  :)  That's what I do when I don't particularly feel like swallowing my Dom's semen.  Just remember that it's good for you!

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 2:11:03 AM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		I've always liked it, but I have known guys that had a similar block. I say just do it and dont much about it, the less you think about the less an issue it will be. OR think of it as a kinky thing you are doing for your domme, like you are such a good sub that you will, think positive

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 6:12:01 AM   
peterK50


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Status: offline 		Why do you want to?

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 6:18:00 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: alex22wv

Greetings all,
I am currently trying to get over the mental block of swallowing my own cum.  Does anyone have suggestions of ways to get over this mental hurdle other then just do it?

Alex


You could try flavoring it. I heard you can get some pills that make it taste like candy.


Wonder if it comes in chocolate... *considers*

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 6:19:54 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: RowanJ

Think of it as protein.  :)  That's what I do when I don't particularly feel like swallowing my Dom's semen.  Just remember that it's good for you!

~Rowan


*chuckles* Years ago, some guy on the radio was talking about how (because it's protein) it could help prevent breast cancer to a small extent. Swallow for your health girls!

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 8:37:41 AM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		I just had to learn to like it really, I jumped in feet first so to speak.
But consider what you don't like about it, or if it is a mental thing you may just have to jump in and just do it. And it makes a big difference in taste according on what you eat.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 12:17:55 PM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		Wasn't someone selling a drink that was supposed to make it taste better?

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 3:48:56 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		alex, I have found that I have gotten over all my mental blocks by realizing that I have surrendered to Master. You might just have to realize that you have a command, you will obey, and that's pretty much that. (And eventually the previously-undesired activity may become something you BEG for because you were forced to do it.)

Omg. I think I just came.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 4:12:32 PM   
igor2003


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Status: offline 		It is much easier to accept the first few times if you can swallow it while you are sexually excited.  Unfortunately, that excitement tends to go away quickly once you have cum.  The solution?  Save it in an ice cube tray or something of that nature and freeze it.  The next time you are sexually excited and the "idea" of eating it doesn't sound so bad, take it out of the freezer and let it melt in your mouth.  After you cum again, save it again, etc and etc.  This is what worked for me.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 5:18:13 PM   
Rose4Mistress


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Status: offline 		the first few times, have a bit of your favorite soda in your mouth.  the carbonation and flavor will help you get past the gag reflex.  you can then wean yourself off the soda, and be able to do it normally.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 5:32:23 PM   
ericpup


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Status: offline 		If you lick it off of your finger or something like that, do it as soon as you come, so it doesn't get cold.  It's a little easier that way, and if you don't think about it. 

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