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The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 12:12:19 PM   
AAkasha


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Question for the boys with fantasies about having to suck a real cock for his Mistress' pleasure. In your fantasies, what does the man look like?  What kind of a body does he have? 

Do you ever fantasize that he's disgusting looking and that adds to the humiliation?

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 12:19:51 PM   
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Mine are always nameless and faceless.  I'm thinking more about the act itself and doing it for her. 


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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 12:20:40 PM   
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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 1:10:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kismet817

I'm thinking more about the act itself and doing it for her. 



To me, this could be the only possible answer.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 1:33:53 PM   
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Is it classed as humliation if the guy likes it?

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 2:17:42 PM   
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I'd say it could, depending on whether or not he'd like random people knowing he sucks cock. If telling someone that he did that, and even actually liked it, would make him die of embarassment then yeah...I'd call that humiliation. If the guy is openly bi/gay though then obviously you'd expect that for him it wouldn't be humiliating.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 7:18:12 PM   
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the guy has never even come into the mind's eye of the fantasy, it's more about the voice and actions of my Domme. 

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/4/2007 7:23:58 PM   
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I would want a gay guy that I could relate to on some level. It would help if he were into it instead of just standing in as a piece of scene meat. Physically, a reasonably well kept, fit guy would be a more desirable than the a hairy, chain-smoking, beer bellied fellow.

(Although I am not homosexual, I'm not homophobic either.)

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/5/2007 1:39:24 PM   
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i'd rather eat shit

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/5/2007 2:44:40 PM   
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god you ask great questions aakasha.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/5/2007 3:43:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kismet817

Mine are always nameless and faceless.  I'm thinking more about the act itself and doing it for her. 




It seems that many sub men really have this kind of nameless, faceless concept of the cock they would be sucking. I wonder if this vague visualization means that in real life, it came down to it, and there was a living, breathing, visible, possibly NOT attractive (even say the guy is hot - but not to the guy who is about to suck cock), manly smelling MAN there that the sub would back out because it's not what he wanted.

There are certainly fantasies that are just that - fantasies - and if push came to shove, doing it in real life would be impossible.  So if a femdom starts to go through the motions to make it happen, and that "nameless, faceless" person in the fantasies starts to become real, the fantasy loses its flair and the sub decides it's not what he thought he was signing up for.

I mean even if you start to solidify the details to the sub with the nameless, faceless fantasy, I wonder if the fantasy loses the appeal: "The guy is 47, he's in reasonably good shape, his name is Roger, he has a beard, he smokes occassionally, he is fairly masculine, he wears cologne, he has a lot of body hair" -- now that you know that information, rather than "nameless, faceless" and being driven by the feminine, gorgeous femdom -- does it lose the appeal?

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/5/2007 7:10:34 PM   
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If the fantasy is going to be picked apart.... Sure.  I'm almost willing to be that I could scrounge up some 74 year old, chain smoking, beer bellied, hairy, obnoxious, desperate bastartd, who would be willing to stand in as said cock.  Let Me stop right there, as the vision just killed the idea for Me as well.  *Laughs*
 
The concept behind this, is in fact, to please Me.  That means, on some level, that I want the vision to be attractive to My eyes.  Call this harsh, or heavy handed if you will, but in essence, it's the truth.  Being fortunate enough to have half of this scenerio on hand (My husband) I don't have this difficulty.  It's not like some random meeting if a comfort level needs to be established.
 
The greater question is, if this is a fantasy, why should it remain one? 

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/27/2007 5:42:20 PM   
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To me, it's about doing the deed to please Mistress. I've never given any thought to what the guy looked like. However, now that I think about it, it would seem the Domme would enjoy it more if the cock belonged to a superior looking male. Does this make any sense?

need

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/27/2007 8:43:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mistresssquibels

Is it classed as humliation if the guy likes it?



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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/27/2007 10:07:47 PM   
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For me, it's all about Stephen Hawking.

It's all about intelligence.

It's a malesub thing so don't ask.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/28/2007 3:46:06 AM   
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i'll agree with most of the sub posters...i don't think about what the guy looks like...probably because i don't wonder about male on male contact in any other context...i would probably rationalize it in my mind by thinking it's the Domme's cock i'm sucking even though i know better.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/28/2007 4:31:40 AM   
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a black guy with a 10 in cock ...decent looking ...ok maybe 2 ..one for my ass and one for my mouth ...my mistress has this one boy he has a nice cock ..smile ..love watching him with her when he is buried balls deep inside of her ,the contrast of skin color i find very erotic ...she loves to see me with him also ..yes he gets a workout when he is with us but he loves it ..big smle ..mal ..and yes we are both white --lol

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/28/2007 6:13:40 AM   
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Good qeustion and subject. I have always seen the person my domme has forced me to suck..although a few times i was to be blindfolded, once the man had the blanket over his upper body with a big cock sticking out and i was told not to even think about his face chest or arms..Is alot of fun ..hehe

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/28/2007 6:14:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: needDomme

To me, it's about doing the deed to please Mistress. I've never given any thought to what the guy looked like. However, now that I think about it, it would seem the Domme would enjoy it more if the cock belonged to a superior looking male. Does this make any sense?

need


Ok, as said before, im no Domme, but I would figure that your statement COULD be true, but the opposite could also be true. If the guy wasnt all that spectacular looking, it's more of a sacrifice for the sub, so the Domme could appreciate the act more knowing that her sub was absolutely miserable, but doing it out of willingness and need to please, as opposed to just enjoying the eye candy.

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RE: The body and face behind the cock - 4/28/2007 6:52:07 AM   
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In my fantasies it is only a nameless, faceless, body-less, cock.  I have looked at both photo's of men as well as actual men in public and tried to imagine being made to suck their cock and the fantasy just simply is not there, and in fact feel a good degree of disgust at the idea.  If and when i might ever actually be faced with the situation of a Mistress requiring me to suck another man's cock i know it will be very difficult for me to do.  I know there are a lot of ladies (and some men) that think that if a sub has a fantasy of being made to suck cock then it isn't really "forced".  But this is where i have to disagree.  Though i do have fantasies of being made to suck cock i don't know that i could actually go through with it if i were not "forced" in some way.  For instance, being tied and whipped until i beg to suck cock and actually do the deed, or being threatened with the possibility of humiliating pictures being shown, or....?

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