shyinini
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ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou quote] Sharing ONLY from my past, having learned much about myself in the process.... My perspectives on this "used as fuckmeat" topic is 2... 1. being used by the dominant for the dominants joyed pleasured, in whatever capacity he sees fit and it is consensual ....... then there is..... 2. being used by anyone that the dominant finds delightfully pleasured and amuzed tosee his slave used by, for she is no limits and thus consents ................ is quite another thing. Now i am Sir's treasured pet, not a no limit emotionally abused slave. im wondering how a no limit slave is considered emotionally abused if she chose this????? perhaps its her lifes joy to be just this. A lot of people seem to be getting up in arms about this post, and I have to wonder why. I know there's no direct correlation between no limits and emotional abuse, but I don't understand all this feigned ignorance about misguided submissives who think being fuckmeat and having no limits is what being submissive is, even if it goes against their will. Don't get me wrong, I know most no limit slaves know what they're into and choose it willingly (even passionately!), and I completely understand the appeal of being fuckmeat. But, um, not everyone is as informed as they think they are - you can't pretend collarme doesn't get an abundance of misguided subs (The 'Hard Limits as punishment' thread, for example - I haven't looked at it recently, but hard limits are hard limits, I feel inclined to think anyone who believes otherwise is misguided). Ahem. ... but uh, regarding myself, I am totally up for being fuckmeat. Thank you so much smirkingsheep. Scenerio 2 under protection of the dominant, his presence, his voice, his ANYTHING other than silence is what I signed on for (way back then). But no limits DID turn into emotional abuse for me, NOT anyone or everyone, for ME. Why? He did not take responsibility or accountabilty for me at all before, during or after this acts of being used as fuckmeat. He found that suitable. When I realized his abscene, lack of concern, etc was his way of emotionally punishing/abusing me, I had to make a choice. So I ask, What would yours have been? What should have mine been? Sir's encouraged girl, who still remains not a no limit emotionally abused slave.
< Message edited by shyinini -- 5/31/2007 5:50:52 PM >
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With grace and gratitude, I am owned. A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Sir.
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