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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 8:11:00 AM

danreeves

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very interesting subjec t but--a little confused lol--why is it called a bj-when actually you suck on the penis-therefore drawing blood into to make it erect for the final release--Hello DianeB269 always nice to see you

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 8:17:05 AM

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Most dommes reject the notion of submissive release

Then some allow oral gratification for themselves while demonstrating their power over the subbie with orgasm denial

Then others will gratify and be gratified on equal terms

Depends on the baggage they are carrying

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Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 8:26:26 AM

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As with most questions there are no general rules.

If a Domme loves giving head and is safe with the partner, they will do it. Same with rewards, punishments, intercourse etc. I have had Domme partners who loved giving and getting head, but have also had Doomes who only liked giving, and others who only liked getting.

So many possible variations exist.

A Lesbian Domme friend only allowed female subs to give her head, but she loved penetrating both genders with her toys, and loved making her boys and girls have intercourse under painful circumstances. She did not give men head, but she might make them give each other head.

A Gay Dom I knew hated giving or getting head. He only allowed male partners, who had to accept rough anal sex to be with him.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 8:27:59 AM

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I don't. It doesn't mean I think its wrong. Its just wrong for me. Most of the men I come in contact would feel as uncomfortable it as I would.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 9:15:24 AM

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ummmmm....they might be stunned by it coming from You, but i don't think they'd stop You. They might have alot of questions afterward, if so permitted to ask, but I'm just about as close to certain as i can get when i say i don't think they'd stop you....lol.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 9:17:08 AM

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I do it rarely, and then only as a means of tormenting the sub. For example, I may blindfold and restrain him, then turn on a TV show I like. During commerical breaks, I stimulate him orally, then tell him it's time to get back to the program. Sometimes a commercial will come on, he will beg me to continue, but I will say I'm not in the mood at that particular moment and we'll have to see how I feel when the next commercial comes on. This can go on for an hour or more, after which the sub may or may not be granted release. If he is, he finishes himself off.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 9:30:32 AM

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How, exactly, would you know what it's like to be a Domina?

Please refrain from lumping us into categories.

As for Me, I love sex in all its forms, but I mainly use blowjobs when teasing. Binding a man and teasing him...now to Me that's just yummy.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 9:45:46 AM

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I do it 'cause I like to. A lot. [Last subboy didn't like it quite so much cause it hurt him. Poor thing.]And having nothing to do with reciprocation cause truth be told cunnilingus doesnt do much for me and that is from somsone who was a dyke for 20 years, it's never been a big deal for me.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 10:47:03 AM

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lol, why wouldn't a Mistress take and devour what's rightfully hers?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 10:54:36 AM

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Well, just letting everyone know I'm a sub, so if you want to ignore this go right ahead, but...
On one of my deeper online relationships (Over a year), my mistress has given me the pleasure of oral sex as a reward. It does usually involve equal reciprocation though.

Maybe I have not had enough coffee either, but how do you get an online blowjob?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 10:54:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: danreeves

very interesting subjec t but--a little confused lol--why is it called a bj-when actually you suck on the penis-therefore drawing blood into to make it erect for the final release--Hello DianeB269 always nice to see you

Is that how do it? Oops...

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 10:55:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Most dommes reject the notion of submissive release

Then some allow oral gratification for themselves while demonstrating their power over the subbie with orgasm denial

Then others will gratify and be gratified on equal terms

Ross
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And you know this because you've talked to every single Female Dominant in the world and done a survey, right? You asked every single one of us? Oh, wait, that's right, you didn't ask me, you didn't ask Holly, and I'm relatively certain that you didn't ask any of my FemDom friends either. Please don't say what "most" do or do not unless you actually have some numbers to back yourself up. When I talk about most, I am usually pretty careful to add "that I've talked to" or "that I know of" - statements like yours ... particularly on a board where a number of Dommes have professed to enjoy sex with their pyls ... are entirely unfounded and generally irritating.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 10:55:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: danreeves

very interesting subjec t but--a little confused lol--why is it called a bj-when actually you suck on the penis-

Why do we drive on the parkway and park on the driveway?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 12:12:55 PM

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Yep I give him bj's because I love doing it. No I don't swallow, I usually hold it in my mouth and spit into his

Its tremendous turn on for me to drive him to the brink and then pull away and beat his thighs with a riding crop, or to bite his balls (gently of course) and watch him squirm and beg....oh the begging...is music to my ears.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 12:47:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I very rarely post in this section.
I just wondered about something and did a quick search and came up with nothing, so apologies if this has been covered.
Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs?
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship?
Is it a reward for good behavior?

It's all according to preferences. Some do and some don't.

My new Mistress LOVES to play with "her toy". She enjoys going down on me a great deal. I'm very thankful that she does because I love it too!

Oh, and yes it's a normal aspect of the relationship. We don't do the "good behavior, bad behavior" thing. Obedience is expected. If there's a problem, we'd sit down and talk about it. My penis is hers for the taking whenever and however she wants it.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 12:56:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

How, exactly, would you know what it's like to be a Domina?

Because I have known many personally in My 20 years within the scene that is how.

Please refrain from lumping us into categories.

It was a quick answer...seems you really don't know Me kid so I would refrain from the string of attitude responses you like to leave.

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 1:02:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Most dommes reject the notion of submissive release

Then some allow oral gratification for themselves while demonstrating their power over the subbie with orgasm denial

Then others will gratify and be gratified on equal terms

Ross
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And you know this because you've talked to every single Female Dominant in the world and done a survey, right?

Sounds like a remark I would expect from you...

No actually I have known quite a few in the 20 years I have been in the scene...

You asked every single one of us? Oh, wait, that's right, you didn't ask me, you didn't ask Holly, and I'm relatively certain that you didn't ask any of my FemDom friends either.

Actualy I do not care to waste My time on tripe sacastic negative remarks from someone who obviously has a stick up her butt.

Please don't say what "most" do or do not unless you actually have some numbers to back yourself up.

I hardly feel the need to justify My remarks to you or anyone else. you want title of authority...ok you have one...no go play with yourself...

When I talk about most, I am usually pretty careful to add "that I've talked to" or "that I know of" - statements like yours ...

Well that works for you I suppose...seems you have too much time on your hands...

particularly on a board where a number of Dommes have professed to enjoy sex with their pyls ... are entirely unfounded and generally irritating.

Actually I find your response and pics irritating...so now We are even.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 1:05:58 PM

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i like giving blowjos...its a blow, with out finnishing the job...

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 1:16:14 PM

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I tried it years ago and did not like it. My slave does seem to like it, so I enjoy it.He does a good job.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/5/2007 2:09:55 PM

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my mistress loves giving me a bbj ..because yes my cock and ass belongs to her and she loves to play with both however she chooses ....if she gets me to cum from the bj or her pussy fucking me ..or her fisting me and i cum in her mouth this i do know ...she loves watching me licking up the mess i made or she gives me a snowball kiss with her mouth full of my cum because she loves to see me swallow what she took from me until next time we play ..after all i am her little cum slut ...smile ..our cums mixed together do taste quite good i believe and they are low in calories ..smile ...have fun ..gladly serving my mistress and her desires ..mal

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