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BoundDragon -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 11:56:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

just looked at your myspace

you name there is "sgt hales wifey - 2 weeks left"

then why are you stilll looking?



Sorry, I know it says in reply to me but I dont think that was meant for me was it???



mixielicous -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 12:23:01 PM)

the one time i dont type, "fast reply"



MissyRane -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 2:11:02 PM)

The damn sad truth: we're women, we are never completely at peace with ourselves there's always something we see about ourselves that we think we should try to change (or at least I'd say ca. 99% of all women felt that way...at least the younger ones) I suppose as you get older you get more satisfied with what you've got.
I'm not comfortable being completely naked, it makes me feel vulnerable and I HATE feeling vulnerable. I've been told hundreds of times that I've a great body one said wow you look like a model fuck it didn't make any difference I still hate being naked.
Yup I'm a woman *sigh*[8|]

but no I'd never want to be a guy..except for being able to pee standing[:D]



elisabet -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 2:25:58 PM)

You could try to work up to it.  Doing it in a dimly lit room with candles or something.  Also, you know HE loves your body, right?  Maybe you need to talk to him about it.  Have him undress you and tell you all the things he loves about your body and seeing it naked while he's doing it- that there's no reason to be ashamed.



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 7:46:44 PM)

Xahleena,
You are just adorable! 
What everyone here is saying is right on the money.  You have to feel secure in the fact that your husband chose you.  From what you say, he has given you no reason to feel insecure, correct?  Most of us feel insecure because the Amercan piblic is bombarded with images of "perfect" women all the time.  I might be raked over the coals for this, but there isn't one woman who doesn't secretly want to have  that perfect body, no matter how comfortable in their skin they say they are.

You can imagine what havoc years of weight gain and loss, plus giving birth to, as well as nursing, two children wreaked on my body.
My ex was always so amazing about it.  He never once made me feel anything but sexy when I was naked. I never had any problems being naked in front of him..
So my problem was not with him, it was with myself.  I was able to overcome that while I was with him because he made me feel so good about my body.  Just do it.  Each time you get naked with no protestations to your husband, you will find your confidence level rising. 
Good luck..



Celeste43 -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 7:52:05 PM)

I agree that getting comfortable with yourself naked first is very helpful. But it would be equally helpful if he expressed his appreciation of your body. By that I mean stroking the body part and telling you how much he enjoys the look and feel and use of it. It makes it easier to see yourself through his eyes if his eyes are very positive.



junecleaver -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/6/2007 8:08:49 PM)

I never ever ever in a million years thought I could be naked in public.  I don't even wear bathing suits in public.  But when everyone else is basically naked and your guy is yanking off your clothes....it feels a lot more natural.  It wasn't mortifying.  It was actually hot.  Instead of worrying, allow yourself to be swept away in the moment.



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/7/2007 8:16:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

One of the very sexiest women I have EVER been with, someone who I still jerk off to images of her and I...was at least a size 16.  One very VERY important difference, she loved and accepted her body.  I didn't have to deal with "i'm too fat to do that" or "turn off the lights" or whatever other sad things come with body image.

We are ALL being supportive of you because you are going to need it.  The man hasn't seen a real woman in a very long time, you better get ready for a lot of use!


Michael is sooo right..  it's probably not even going to be an issue once he walks in the door, rips off your clothes, stuffs your underwear in your mouth and bends 
you
over
the
couch... 
...
...
...

Sorry, I was daydreaming...(clears throat)  Now where was I? 
Oh yes.. Your clothes will be in shreds and you will be having so much sex your only issue will be how sore your pussy will be.




dawntreader -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/7/2007 8:41:55 AM)

Xahleena,
i am right on board with Merc and beth on this one...
 
While i usually run around half clad in private, not being an exhibitionist, makes public nudity difficult for me. However, when i stand naked before a Dominant, it is very symbolic to me in that i am presenting my "whole" being with openess and honesty.It is symbolic of my submission and my trust to/in that person. If i based it on my self-image...well, lets just say it is not based on that :-)
           j



GeekyGirl -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/7/2007 12:38:49 PM)

I've always preferred being naked. At 5ft3 and 200lbs, I am far from having a good body. I just look at it this way: If he didn't like my body, he wouldn't be asking me to take my clothes off. Who am I to tell him what he should or should not enjoy looking at?



XahleenaXkajiraX -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 5:57:40 PM)

awww thanks yall!! sorry was gone for Easter for the weeked why I havent responded till now.. Thank You So much Bossy :) for the compliment!! Sir Michael *giggles* the hubby already said I would be *cough, cough* hurting when he gets home *aha* soo yea your right!! And what You said about the woman who was a size 16 is true.. I need to just gain the confidence of this woman [:)].. You all are soo truly amazing thank You alll soooo much for your responses!! *hugs and kisses* lyndz!!



XahleenaXkajiraX -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 6:00:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

just looked at your myspace

you name there is "sgt hales wifey - 2 weeks left"

then why are you stilll looking?



and to this... my husband told me I could have an online Dom to possibly help spark the "slave belly" [:D] my hubby does it just fine but he is also learning and He is fine with it so I am too! I need to change it... now its less than 2 weeks *giggles*



captainblack -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 6:16:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissyRane

but no I'd never want to be a guy..except for being able to pee standing[:D]


You can pee standing up. Just reach down spread your pussy lips and use finger pressure
around our eurethra to aim. I saw a girl do it in the parking lot of where I worked when I was
in high school. I never looked at her the same way passing in the hall at school after that!

-CB



XahleenaXkajiraX -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 6:18:52 PM)

yuck...[:'(]



Passion357 -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 8:57:26 PM)

Greetings, All,

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

The more you do it, the more natural it will feel. The more you are around other naked people, the more natural it will feel. Start walking around the house naked when you can NOW. By the time he gets home, it'll be more familiar.

Master Fire



That is the simple fact right there.
The more you do it alone, the more it will feel "right". Also the more you will feel in control of your body. I know it may sound crazy but when I would get naked because *I* wanted to I found it easier when Master said to.
Now, 5 years later, it's just skin LOL

I must add, though, I had trouble with this spot not being tight enough that spot being too small....etc etc. I eat right, diet, and exercise when my machine is up. It also helps that I have a reassuring Master (when he's not being a Sadistic Asshole and using me as "fuckmeat")...lol sorry that's still lingering from another thread.

Well Wishes,
~Passion~



Passion357 -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/8/2007 8:59:24 PM)

quote:

You can pee standing up. Just reach down spread your pussy lips and use finger pressure
around our eurethra to aim. I saw a girl do it in the parking lot of where I worked when I was
in high school. I never looked at her the same way passing in the hall at school after that!

-CB


I feel an urge cumming on...
I am so gonna try this...LMAO...



BBBTBW -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/9/2007 3:37:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

I am one to get naked at the drop of a hat,I have always had a great body and love to flaunt it of course it took a lot of hard work to get there and keep it..23 years in the miltary helped as well..bounty


quote:

Original: BossyShoeBitch

What everyone here is saying is right on the money.  You have to feel secure in the fact that your husband chose you.  From what you say, he has given you no reason to feel insecure, correct?  Most of us feel insecure because the Amercan piblic is bombarded with images of "perfect" women all the time.  I might be raked over the coals for this, but there isn't one woman who doesn't secretly want to have  that perfect body, no matter how comfortable in their skin they say they are.


I have a great/perfect body too.  6'1 300 lbs.  Ok, I can see people thinking, "this fat bitch is crazy, she doesn't have a good body."

QUESTION to the masses.  What makes a great body?

I think a man that has something to hold on to makes his body great.  He doesn't have to be muscular, he just has to be fleshy.  Damn a fleshy man is sexy.  I love luv handles.

Edited to rewrite stuff cause I thought of it after I posted the orginal.



RowanJ -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/10/2007 10:27:46 PM)

I may be the completely wrong person to answer this, but lots of research into diet and exercise helped me tremendously.  I lost 40 pounds that way.  Which led to the modeling career, which led to higher self-esteem.  You don't have to be a model to have high self esteem, though.  I found that just knowing that I had worked hard to keep myself in shape produced greater respect for myself, and a higher self-image.  Just a thought.

~Rowan



slavegirl1969 -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/11/2007 5:16:44 PM)

I felt a little bit sad at this post.  I guess because I've never understood how anyone can be married and not trust their husband/wife enough to be comfortable naked with them (exceptions being when one of the partners is abusive about body weight, serious disfigurement - those sort of things).
 
Sexiness is all in the mind.  You got all your bits in the right place, they all function then what have you got to be concerned about...so you're tummy might not be like a washboard - did your husband say on your wedding day I will love you forever because you have a flat tummy, tight bottom and pert breasts - or did he just say he will love YOU forever. 
 
You got teased as a kid for being a tomboy and that's affected how you feel now - but you look so feminine now and certainly not tomboyish.  Do you get teased now for looking like a boy?  I bet you don't. 
 
I have wobby bits, some in right place, others - well lets just say I'd survive longer in a cold sea than a lot of skinny lasses <giggles>. I look in the mirror, especially when I'm sitting cross legged on the floor and I look like the michelin tyre man and gone yeuch, got all girly about my ass being too big, my boobs not being pert enough etc etc but when my Master/fiance looks at me, touches me I could be green with 6 arms for all he cares.
 
Do a 'Rachel' pour yourself a glass of wine, put some good music on, shut the curtains and strip yourself down...have fun, enjoy it and if you still feel uncomfortable just think how much less washing and ironing you'll have to do if you're not wearing clothes all the time.



XahleenaXkajiraX -> RE: NAKED! sighs~ (4/11/2007 9:15:56 PM)

awww i love that post.. thank you slavegirl :) made me feel good!



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