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SusanofO -> RE: Male subs/slaves - would it bother you to see your Mistress cry? (4/6/2007 4:48:56 PM)
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They are sexy, aren't they? My male Scorpio submissive friend hasn't directed any temper at me (so far), although I have read they can be vengeful when they are ticked off, whereas a Pisces, IMO, usually just doesn't see the long-run point of doing that, although they might be hurt by someone.
In contrast, from what I've read, a Pisces will probably be able to determine someone's questionable motives, for instance, just as shrewdly as a Scorpio can, but may worry about "hurting their feelings", or how exactly to call them on it, while a Scorpio has no trouble simply calling a spade a spade, and damn the consequences, as far as "ruffling feathers" goes.
IMO, this isn't all bad, in situations where someone maybe does need the so-called "fear-of-God" put into them. My male submissive friend is an attorney, and I can see how this attitude in his daily life might work to his advantage.
Maybe they struggle with doing it, but the entirety of that struggle isn't usually completely apparent, from what I've read. They are pretty secretive, generally, as far as wanting others to know their motives - even if they have absolutely nothing to hide. My dad is a Scorpio, and sometimes asking him what he had for dinner, for example, is like asking him some CIA-guarded secret. If he doesn't want you to know, you just aren't going to find out, and that's that.
I do notice that my submssive male friend seems to have the usual Scorpio tenacity, as in - what a Scorpio wants, they are determined to get, and if they have to move a mountain to do that, most of them seem to consider that to be simply a "minor inconvenience". They are not usually "scaredy-cats", from what I can see, whether they are submissive, or Dominant.
I have noticed they don't tend to "sugar-coat" much, when they feel they want to make a point, which can be both good and bad, IMO. I can usually count on them for a realistic assessment of a situation, but not to say anything, necessarily, just to make me "feel better", although in my experience, they can be very kind as well. This can be good for me, because I can sometimes want to see situations through "rose-colored glasses"- not always, but sometimes. My male Scorpio submissive friend gives me great advice.
- Susan
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