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stockingluvr54 -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:02:16 AM)

Don't consider myself a Master but to answer the question.....yes I like to go down on a woman.

Your post reminded me of a woman I had the opportunity to spend some time with a few years ago but the situation was kinda different.

We were in the sack and it was my first time with her and everything was heating up. I started to work my way up her legs to go down on her and she started to twitch and shake and I'm thinkin "great!" it's working and all of a sudden she stops me? She seemed to be enjoying everything and now she stops me? I ask what's the problem and she says "No one has ever done that to me before". This lady was kinda promiscuos(sp?) and I was absolutely floored that no guy had ever went down on her before?

Anyways it we worked it out and after she got over that little hurdle she took to it quite nicely in the future but I was really shocked that apparently lots of guys out there flat out won't go down? I was pretty surprised!

Now that I think about....Haven't been with tons of women but I've personally never run into a woman that wouldn't go down? Maybe things are kinda lopsided in the oral scenerio?



Wildfleurs -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:02:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

I have gone on 2 dates with Dominant men in my life: one in 1998 and the other in 2001

They had one thing in common: both made very clear to me in a solemn voice that they never go down on women

The first said he never would - and then in the height of passion did. Up against a wall. Is that some kind of Dom trick?  Playing hard to get?

The second said he never would - and he was so creepy, I was glad I never found out.  He wasn't hard to get, he was hard to want.

Two is a small sample.  This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

PS: this question follows from a similar one in Ask a Mistress because it seems some Masters have got very strong opinions whether Dominants like to perform oral sex on submissives.  Fire away boys!




I'm not a man but when I was single I found it depended, but generally it was something done.  My owner is not someone that does it a lot, its not just not his thing.  Its definitely a sex act that falls under earned privilege and took quite a while to earn and something that happens probably on average about once a year once every one and a half years or so.

C~



nighthawk3569 -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:03:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

I have gone on 2 dates with Dominant men in my life: one in 1998 and the other in 2001

They had one thing in common: both made very clear to me in a solemn voice that they never go down on women

The first said he never would - and then in the height of passion did. Up against a wall. Is that some kind of Dom trick?  Playing hard to get?

The second said he never would - and he was so creepy, I was glad I never found out.  He wasn't hard to get, he was hard to want.

Two is a small sample.  This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?

PS: this question follows from a similar one in Ask a Mistress because it seems some Masters have got very strong opinions whether Dominants like to perform oral sex on submissives.  Fire away boys!




     Speaking only for myself, of course:
 
1- Yes, it's a 'Dom trick'...I love for you girls to beg for it
 
2- I do perform cunnilingus...going down, eating out, 69, whatever you want to call it...at every opportunity.
 
3- Only twice is not really a fair sample. I suggest you seek out more 'samples'. After all, you do want to be scientific about this.
 
                                                                                  'hawk

Btw...69 used to be my 'favorite' number...but I've advanced.



diz -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:14:09 AM)

i know this is ask a Master BUT i just had to put in my 2 pennies worth... i can not stand receiving oral, i never come and no its not cos it has never been done right its just that i do not get excited by it... lol IF it is done to me i have to ask them to stop cos i have finished shopping in my head....



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:19:28 AM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_722658/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#722836
doms, subs, and oral sex

http://www.collarchat.com/m_8305/mpage_1/key_giving%252Coral/tm.htm#8305
Is giving oral domly?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_70067/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#70067
oral sex on a sub

http://www.collarchat.com/m_279010/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#279010
oral sex- a submissive act?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_533633/mpage_1/key_doms%252Coral/tm.htm#533707
is it masterlike to enjoy eating pussy as much as I do?



slaveluci -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:41:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

I love oral sex both giving and receiving.SOME subs refuse to let their dom go down on them as they feel its not the thing for a dominant to do.I love a nice little clit rolling over my tongue as I suck the sweet juices.I want to add that I just don't suck any little pussy that cums along...IT must neat , attractive neatly trimmed and without saying a shower..as always just the views of this ol" master..bounty

Master agrees with you, Bounty.  Subs "refusing" to "let" their dom go down on them????  Who's in charge here?  Master loves enjoying me this way.  Though it's probably not acceptable procedure in the dom handbook, He couldn't care less.  He loves it, i am His property and He does WHATEVER He wants, WHENEVER He wants to do it, regardless of whether i or other doms think it's "domly" to do.  He says, "Why in the world would I deprive myself of something I love to do this much just because some say it isn't 'dominant' to do?"  He's a dominant so any behavior He exhibits is thus "dominant" behavior for Him.  Plus, as good as He is at it, He never has MORE control over me than when He's got me in the throes of ecstacy from it [;)] ...slave luci



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:41:56 AM)

Thank you to all the people brave enough to answer the question!!!!

Now for every New Age Guy that said yes on the board, I wonder how many really would rather not - and would rather no-one knew about it.  I guess we will never know :)





stockingluvr54 -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:50:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Thank you to all the people brave enough to answer the question!!!!

Now for every New Age Guy that said yes on the board, I wonder how many really would rather not - and would rather no-one knew about it.  I guess we will never know :)





WTF is a "new age guy".....?????  (probably not me...I'm 52..lol)



szobras -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:50:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne








Two is a small sample.  This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?


One of my favorite activities.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 9:57:36 AM)

I'll go ahead and say I think that 90% of the men who say "I like it and really love getting a woman off on it" is a man who is willing to lick around the area for about two minutes before wondering why she isn't getting off yet and frustrated,



jeff44311 -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:00:14 AM)

i swallow.  And, im not so shy i wont beg for a woman to come in my face.



BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:03:46 AM)

You don't say.I have gotten lock jaw giving head to please,SOME women take forever ...bounty ..edited to say"HELL yes I know what I am doing"..bh



BeatMeDaily -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:11:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'll go ahead and say I think that 90% of the men who say "I like it and really love getting a woman off on it" is a man who is willing to lick around the area for about two minutes before wondering why she isn't getting off yet and frustrated,


LoL no doubt true, is same for a female trying to suck a guy off and thinking 2 minutes should be enough ..
i can and do like to go down for a long time, i like to see her get off 2 or 3 times before i stop.
Just lay back and let me do my thing



KCwarrior -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:17:58 AM)

I have to agree with BH, I've experienced the lock jaw as well. Some are slow to start and others get on the "wave" and it becomes an endurance test to see who gives in first. I love it when they have to safe word out.



bayboundse -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:18:21 AM)

As a Master I love to go down on my slave. It is great when I restrain her and play with her in this way over a period of time. Making her beg to cum. Stopping when I feel her getting close or diving in and making her scream. Its all good!!! 
Some feel giving oral sex is a submissive action. I do not agree in our relationship...she is mine and I can do what I want lol!!!



captainblack -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:26:21 AM)

Hello there folks

Well I do on occasion lick a slave girl's pussy, but she has to have been very pleasing, or there has to be a very
good reason. It is not because I find it un-masterly or anything like that, rather it is an expierence that is very intense for
the girl and something I prefer to use sparingly with slave girls. They know if they get my oral attentions it is a
very special day.

On the other hand if I am having a sexual encounter with a female that is not a slave girl then she may just get way
more oral than she can handle. Yep I enjoy it.

-CB
Just another gorean

http://www.streetofbrands.com/



PoeticMotion -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:41:56 AM)

Personally, it's something I enjoy. It's not something I do just because a girl enjoys it, I geniuinely enjoy going down on a woman. So it's not a submissive act for me. Nor is it a reward.



MistressSandra2U -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 10:47:30 AM)

This comment is the one I agree most with so far. Don't get me wrong. I love instructing my submissives to perform oral sex on me and as a Domme I can use oral sex to control my submissives in many ways. However there is something that goes off in my brain that disconnects me from outside of my head. I slip into fantasies too and they are addictive. I found myself slipping into these disconnected thoughts in order to orgasm during oral sex. It would be powerful but lonely and only when it was over could I begin to think about my partner.  Group sex actually helped stop that for me, because it's harder to ignore two people and it's way hot so those fantasies in my mind were easily ignored. The fantasies, too dark to be shared with my partners are fun for me but also not real. I could see how someone vanilla or someone afraid of their own private thoughts might dislike losing control when their "sick" fantasies take over. Even submissives need to have control, they control their minds to focus on their Owner, but if they can't keep their heads in that space during oral sex it must be a frightening loss of the core of their submission.




SimplyMichael -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 12:27:05 PM)

LA,

I doubt that is true of many men here but I can provide references...



Kinkypupper -> RE: Oral sex taboo? (4/7/2007 12:39:29 PM)

MOST MOST TASTY



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