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GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 7:00:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Maybe it's just me but lately it seems i'm inundated with profiles and emails from Men who claim to widowers or to have lost Their subbie/slave in death. This strains credulity and if it is not true, it seems to me to be sleazy thing to do. A/anyone have an opinion? pinksugarsub Pheeewww! Wipes brow in relief And here I was worried about the excesssive number of dead Mistresses. I am so glad to see that it is Women in general who are kicking the bucket so regularly. Oh wait! That doesn't help My odds, does it?

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 8:42:46 PM)
so are you saying candy stripper is all those other alias's? quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Just a question- are you a new incarnation of: candystripper pink20nails shyster fillepink pinkpleasures deliciouspink

WhiplashSmile -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 8:48:35 PM)
I think this is common for many people on this site. Because let's face it's not easy to find another in this lifestyle after such as loss. The local BDSM communities may be too small or non existent. Not everbody into this lifestyle attends Munches or Dungeons either. For many they are faced with trying to find another or perhaps hang up the whip for a vanilla relationship. Some have even tried to hang up the whip but simply could not. So they come online looking for somebody that will keep the whip going!

frolicking -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 9:17:34 PM)
Well this girls Master is a widower. But this girls mother is a scary stalker so she looked up his wifes obituary online. This girl had no doubt about the situation.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 9:47:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion so are you saying candy stripper is all those other alias's? No, actually, she did, in a thread awhile ago about how you picked your name. I'm guessing that Pinksugar is all those aliases.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/7/2007 11:28:50 PM)
This all kind of reminds me of the latest trend that I seem to be experiencing in the university realm. This semester alone, I can't even believe the number of different students that couldn't complete an exam or assignment because some "friends were in a horrible accident and I've been unable to concentrate since." I wonder if it's just the easier way to say, "the last woman dumped me and I'm too self-absorbed to admit it."

susie -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 12:37:26 AM)
My Master is a widower. His wife/slave died of a brain tumour when they were both in their early 30's. Not once during our chats did I doubt what he told me. Since we have been together I too have been diagnosed and treated for a form of cancer which he has supported and nursed me through. He has dealt with it all far better than I have and has been an amazing support for me. Sadly these things do happen. Knowing he was happy in his past relationship it made sense that he would look for a similar type of relationship again when he was ready and that is what he did.

juliaoceania -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 1:03:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Just a question- are you a new incarnation of: candystripper pink20nails shyster fillepink pinkpleasures deliciouspink Did the font give it away?[;)] I thought so when I saw the name, and the font kinda confirmed it, but it was this O/one, T/their, W/we stuff that totally made me sure

pinksugarsub -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 3:38:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Just a question- are you a new incarnation of: candystripper pink20nails shyster fillepink pinkpleasures deliciouspink Did the font give it away?[;)] I thought so when I saw the name, and the font kinda confirmed it, but it was this O/one, T/their, W/we stuff that totally made me sure Whose business is it? pinksugarsub

domiguy -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 4:23:56 AM)
It's simply a fact that the U.S. is no longer producing quality subs....Instead we are being handed inferior models that no longer exhibit any type of "staying power" and tend to die at the worst possible moment....This is why Nigerian subs who seem to come from a much hardier stock are becoming the sub of choice by any clear thinking discerning Dom.

kc692 -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 7:38:21 AM)
Tsk, tsk, you make it all of ours when you post. Noone said you were trying to hide it, having a bad day?

MstrssPassion -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 7:47:00 AM)
well with that attitude it really doesn't matter does it? she just made the public aware that rather than address the comments & questions about the previous identitie she prefers to handle matters by lashing out Not a good way to make a debut on the boards whether you are a completely new poster or one using a new identity.

MariaB -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 8:06:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion I wonder if they are the same ones who write to me & say it was their Mistress that died? Stifles a giggle. I had a rl sub for some time. He told me that his previous Mistress had died after a long illness and of course I believed him. He seemed like a totally honest and genuine person. He often spoke about her and was very descriptive about how she looked. One day Im at a munch and this woman Ive not seen before starts to talk about her sub coming over the following morning to do her decorating. We chatted more and I discovered this sub had the same hobby, an unusual one, as my sub and drove the same car. I asked her if his name was xxx and she replied ‘yes’. It turned out he had been subbing to her for 3 years and she fitted his description perfectly. I went home and called him and told him that he would be pleased to know that his Mistress was not dead at all because I had spoken to her that very afternoon. I have never seen him since.

crouchingtigress -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 10:36:26 AM)
lol...that reminds me Mark Twain once said: "the news of my death has been grossly overstated." quote: ORIGINAL: MariaB quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion I wonder if they are the same ones who write to me & say it was their Mistress that died? Stifles a giggle. I had a rl sub for some time. He told me that his previous Mistress had died after a long illness and of course I believed him. He seemed like a totally honest and genuine person. He often spoke about her and was very descriptive about how she looked. One day Im at a munch and this woman Ive not seen before starts to talk about her sub coming over the following morning to do her decorating. We chatted more and I discovered this sub had the same hobby, an unusual one, as my sub and drove the same car. I asked her if his name was xxx and she replied ‘yes’. It turned out he had been subbing to her for 3 years and she fitted his description perfectly. I went home and called him and told him that he would be pleased to know that his Mistress was not dead at all because I had spoken to her that very afternoon. I have never seen him since.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 11:22:55 AM)
Tis a good day for resurrections...Tempting

julietsierra -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 12:03:07 PM)
All that keeps running through my mind with this thread is Happy Gilmore telling his grandmother who asked about his girlfriend (the one that dumped him) "that's ok Grandma, she died." juliet

HisProperty4Life -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 1:41:01 PM)
that is code for I don't want to share my past or give you references, it's just easier if they are dead.

domiguy -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 1:46:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Just a question- are you a new incarnation of: candystripper pink20nails shyster fillepink pinkpleasures deliciouspink Did the font give it away?[;)] I thought so when I saw the name, and the font kinda confirmed it, but it was this O/one, T/their, W/we stuff that totally made me sure Whose business is it? pinksugarsub You stole one of my names from My Nigerian sub collection "brownsugasub69"....So sad.

stef -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 2:05:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 Tsk, tsk, you make it all of ours when you post. Noone said you were trying to hide it, having a bad day? Be careful, if you're not nice to her she'll go running back to that other site and start complaining about how mean we all are over here. On second thought... ~stef

Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: Are There Too Many Widowers? (4/8/2007 6:02:21 PM)
Ive had 23 subs previously that died, they are all in my back yard. ........... i cant get this knife play down. Ive tried and tried again but i keep screwing it up. Can any subs help me out?

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