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RE: No underwear? - 6/28/2007 4:34:12 AM

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Well KnightofMists, because is not a formuable answer, it answers nothing, it states nothing, it varifies absolutely nothing, hence 'because' is not a logical reason. The logic in this thread seems to stem from one that One that wants access anytime anyplace for whatever reason they chose, and the other logic seems to be that due to the visual and mental appeal of One that desire to have their minds caressed with what is underneath the material boundaries (aka thong, panties, whatever). 'Because' just finds no rationale in my mind, it is inconclusive.

and my answer is still... "Because" you seek to have the answer you want... and not accept the answer that is given. You qualify what the answer should be.. so why ask the question if you can't accept the answer as given.

again.. sometimes logic is not a part of every answer. Sometimes.. it's just Because.

spoken like a true parent....

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RE: No underwear? - 6/28/2007 5:38:31 AM

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I agree... Gross and inconsiderate to others. At a BDSM social, it's one thing but in public! Hmm... do you think Clorox makes their wipes in a travel size?

I even bring my own towel to sit on at BDSM functions.....and baby wipes come in small, travel size containers

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RE: No underwear? - 6/28/2007 8:10:08 AM

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I agree... Gross and inconsiderate to others. At a BDSM social, it's one thing but in public! Hmm... do you think Clorox makes their wipes in a travel size?

I even bring my own towel to sit on at BDSM functions.....and baby wipes come in small, travel size containers

See that makes sense. The wonderful Master who introduced me to flogging, spanking and other activities commented that nudists were fine, but be polite and bring something to sit on!

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 4:20:16 AM

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I love frilly, lacy, silky, ribboned things....no knickers occationally is ok, but it does lack a certain something in the imagination department...But if I was told not to wear them, then I would do as I was told.
Sleeps naked and have done so for years, but am so not keen on sitting bare arsed on some seat in a public place...coz frankly no one needs to see that...Besides imagine the splinters!

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 4:30:11 AM

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I went out to lunch yesterday and all I could think of was the possibility that the previous occupant hadn't any undies on.

Squick. I'm sorry but this thread makes me want to Lysol every public seat I'm near now.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 5:25:03 AM

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While I can certainly understand the squick factor everyone is talking about, let's put it in perspective a bit. Have you ever gone out and actually sat in a wet spot? Smelled something odd? Gotten an std with no other explanation? Frankly I'm more squicky about things like touching doorknob handles, toilet handles, etc, because I'm doing so with my bare hands, and who knows where someone else's hands have been. When you're sitting down in a public place, at least your butt is covered *unless you're one of the bare contingency, and sometimes even if you are*, in which case, it isn't an issue for you. Just something to think about...

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 5:35:24 AM

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I would have to agree with you. As a non panty wearer myself (for no other reason than i decided to do away with them years ago) - the squick factors being spoke of are less about undergarments or the lack of them than it is about good old fashion - class.

Suffice to say - there are no lingering reminders of me anywhere once i've gone. No matter where it is.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 7:59:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: sublimelysensual

While I can certainly understand the squick factor everyone is talking about, let's put it in perspective a bit. Have you ever gone out and actually sat in a wet spot? Smelled something odd? Gotten an std with no other explanation? Frankly I'm more squicky about things like touching doorknob handles, toilet handles, etc, because I'm doing so with my bare hands, and who knows where someone else's hands have been. When you're sitting down in a public place, at least your butt is covered *unless you're one of the bare contingency, and sometimes even if you are*, in which case, it isn't an issue for you. Just something to think about...

-a

Also something to think about: I don't want to have to pay to clean a dry clean only dress or skirt because someone's master felt like getting them all wet and juicy on the seat. Be polite - have your girl sit on something.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 8:05:49 AM

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This 'squick' is an automatic response from me, kind of like how I leap away from an encroaching bug. It just is.
It grosses me out to imagine sitting on someones wetness, soaking into my jeans or skirt. Walking around with dried crusty 'stuff' on my backside!
Going undie-less is one thing, but sitting on public chairs with your naked bits sliding around and dripping is another thing altogether for me. It isn't so much a worry about STDs, it is just the whole idea.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 8:12:53 AM

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Aquatic....I have to admit, was only talking about public places there..ie, out at a restaurant or something of that nature. If you're at a dungeon or play party, obviously there's a better chance of finding a wet spot..and yes, it should be thought about there. Personally, I don't sit on furniture in that type of situation, so not something I have to think about too much...

tricia.. I don't think any girl would go out and consciously leave a wet spot, and I really didn't interpret the posters as saying that..that ones that seemed squicked seemed squicked by the idea in general, though I could be wrong. My point is simply you have a better chance of getting germs off a doorknob or faucet handle, then from a seat at a restaurant...regardless of whether the person there before you had their naked butt on the seat or not. I hate undies..but personally wouldn't put my bare butt on a seat in a public place, but, doesn't bother me too much that others might have. Maybe I'm just not easily squicked. Do I think it lacks class to do so? Probably..but, no harm, no foul...

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 8:20:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: sublimelysensual

Aquatic....I have to admit, was only talking about public places there..ie, out at a restaurant or something of that nature. If you're at a dungeon or play party, obviously there's a better chance of finding a wet spot..and yes, it should be thought about there. Personally, I don't sit on furniture in that type of situation, so not something I have to think about too much...

At a dungeon I don't care. In fact, I'm rather expecting it!

But I think it's only polite to not put your private parts on public seating. If you are going to do it, carry wipes with you. Women can get juicy and it's not always from arousal. If you've simply been moving around a lot, your vaginal discharge can come out and you probably won't even notice. Some women do, some don't, and some only notice some of the time. This is why women sometimes take off their panties and notice some fluid there and wonder why.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 8:20:16 AM

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Like others have said, I geuss its just a controll thing that many Dom's really enjoy. Ownership of that one sensual area that belongs to him, that he can control, must obviously give him pleasure and boost his 'Ego' hehe

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 2:58:33 PM

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Going pantyless can make me feel sexy, but going braless? Ugh.

Some things were not meant to swing free IMO, and my lady lumps are two of them. (Soquili disagrees of course, so sometimes I'll go without just for him. He has never demanded it though.)

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I really enjoy the feeling of freedom when braless and pantiless, not to mention feeling sexy.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 3:01:50 PM

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This reminds me... Just recently Daddy decided that I should only wear cute little girl type panties so we went shopping and found some cute one with ice cream cones and cupcakes on them. They join my collection of plain white cotton, South Park, and Tigger panties. We'll be on the lookout for more, I'm sure. I guess I'll have to pack my grown-up satin ones away. LOL :)

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greetings unsung,

i'm actually expected to wear panties most of the time, and i try to always wear ones He likes, especially when i'm around Him. rarely i'll be told not to wear them, or to take them off immediately, but He actually finds underwear on women attractive (and oddly enough, doesn't like thongs).

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 5:22:09 PM

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Some things were not meant to swing free IMO, and my lady lumps are two of them.

I used to do the whole "no bra" thing. Sometimes I still do it when I'm lazy and can't find the one bra I have that fits. But I went jogging without one once... fuck "female empowerment", I want my fuggin' bra. The was the most embarassing black eye ever!

Ok, I'm exaggerating a little.

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RE: No underwear? - 6/29/2007 9:04:29 PM

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I personally can't go without panties. I get horny easily and therefore get very wet very quickly. so yeah.. that won't work for me yes I've gone without them but I either end up with wet spots in the crotch of my pants or leave wet puddles on chairs if i'm in a skirt.

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RE: No underwear? - 7/7/2007 7:09:54 AM

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slave must kept her body open for her master touch 24 7

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RE: No underwear? - 7/7/2007 7:29:52 AM

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For us he was trying to come up with rituals to help with the long distance thing. I am not allowed to wear panties on Mondays. Other days I have other rituals. Makes me think more about him and he can think of me knowing I'm doing as he says.

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RE: No underwear? - 7/21/2007 7:52:11 AM

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My Dom is quite the opposite, I MUST always wear panties. I'm referring to regular panties, no thongs allowed unless I am being rewarded. Reason being is that he controls my orgasms and so panties or even thongs make me so aroused that I become overwhelmed and don't get anything accomplished. I would love to be able to go commando again, did so for 3 years and it was hard to get used to wearing panties again. Everytime I went to the bathroom and pulled up my jeans, I forgot that there were panties too and things would get all tangly! One time for reward I was allowed to remove my panties and it was heaven, I could feel every inch of the seam of my jeans and just moving around was getting me more horny and then after a bit of that, I was told to put them back on, fun over. My panties have become like a chastity belt for me, although would love to get one of those too someday!

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RE: No underwear? - 7/21/2007 8:21:09 AM

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i have to admit, having recently committed a little transgression, i have been instructed to wear panties for 3 days straight! Damn , it's so harsh, having a piece of lace nestled between my butt cheeks heading north ( HBS ~ Hungry Bum Syndrome!)! i certainly learned my lesson!

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