Mustardseed -> RE: abandonment... (4/13/2007 8:24:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: byrdygirl Why do Doms/Masters wait so long to call or IM when they must know how hard it is for us to breathe let alone function without them...? Weaning? My Daddy did this to me. At one point, we spoke for about 10 hours a week on the phone, on average, and seeing each other every weekend. Then we lowered it to two phone dates a week, plus weekends. That was painful, but I managed. Then one phone date a week, and seeing each other every other weekend. By then, we both had a bit more social life back (previously I'd been dealing with family stuff, and he was a bit isolated, so we were each other's lifelines), so it made sense. Now that he's going back to school and is feeling more isolated, we're having teeny weeny mini phone dates almost daily, and seeing each other pretty much every weekend. Life that doesn't involve the romance of D/S happens. It might be best to be able to keep oneself happy, healthy, educated, entertained and thus interesting during what might be considered downtime.
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