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CreativeDom4you -> Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/9/2007 2:26:55 PM)
Looking to talk to a woman who likes to win, hates losing, does not know what the word means. She is creative and has too many ideas to name to list on a website. She takes on a challenge full force. My idea of a challenge would be both switches place themselves in self bondage in some manner and they both race to see who gets undone first becasue the one who is still tied up will remain tied up and kept as the winners prize. Now you might htink well if two are subs what the harm and wone might try hard to win. To solve that each has to divulge their inner most feared or hated punishment/torment. The winner inflcicts thsi on them over and over which I am sure would spark enough gumption to try and win and not purposely lose. What are your thoughts?[:D]

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/9/2007 7:34:08 PM)
My thoughts is that it for this to be effective, it going to have to NOT be self bondage. Master Fire

CreativeDom4you -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/9/2007 10:06:04 PM)
effective bondage can very easily be from self bondaeg if you are skilled. However the other thought was if we are stuck we need a safety so why nto have a Domme stop by to check on us say in 2 hours if she does not get a call. Question is knowing we are both tied in the hosue does she come by sooner and make us both her pets?

nyrisa -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/10/2007 9:53:23 AM)
If two people put themselves in self bondage, and race to see who can free herself first, what is the motivation for tying herself up well? That means that the one who ties the best......loses, right?

Celeste43 -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/10/2007 4:07:49 PM)
What about bet on who wins a scrabble game, or chess or whatever. Or challenge each other to a run and the first one to complete the course wins. That way you can devote your entire attention to her if she's bound, and will be free if she needs to be released. Or vice versa.

Suleiman -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/10/2007 5:59:39 PM)
Given my own perverse nature, I might very well play to lose, whatever the forfeit. I have never expressed any hard limits as far as scene play go (in my personal life, it's another matter entirely, but in scene, especially when I opt to sub, pretty much everything is cool). Honestly, a third party outsider tying both sets of knots would work best. Yes, self-bondage can be very effective if done right, but it is also potentially dangerous, since it's very easy to do it WRONG. Differing levels of skill really matter here. If you've got a monitor signed up to play bondage fairy any way, might was well have the bondage fairy do an identical set-up and level the playing field.

TigerNINTails -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/11/2007 10:32:45 AM)
I have to agree... The only real time that self bondage works well is during masturbation. Asking if a scene monitor would come by and enforce petdom on you, knowing she's got too switches bound in a house by themselves... LOL... Yeah, okay, it's possible, but doesn't that dilute the idea here? Level the playing field as Suleiman said with an identical set of ropework, initiated by someone else. Secondly, that person should never leave the house, but rather simply leave the room. This also enables whomever wins to drag their prize out on hands and knees, leashed, should that person wish to show off their trophy... And there is a witness to the effect... (always makes it a bit more official). I've used plenty of challenges, as a switch, though those games haven't occured in a long time... Chess, video games, checkers, arm wrestling.... wrestling... heheh.. Okay, that last one isn't fair, I'm pretty good at that, and a lot of women aren't... Funny thing, is that even the most delightful torture that a person can think of, could easily become hell, if applied for a long enough period of time... (Reminiscent of Chinese water torture here). At any rate, nearly any challenge would work, but if you're going to induce the bondage thing, have another skilled Top do it for you. This way, there's a non biased (one hopes) and safe equalizer watching over the situation.

jthorne -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/14/2007 7:26:40 PM)
it's a cute fantasy.

earthycouple -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (4/14/2007 7:38:30 PM)
S I'll do the bondage...where are my victims? looks around for her 300 feet of Purple MFP D~

skareamoos -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (6/14/2007 12:14:56 PM)
It is better done with two pairs of handcuffs, but only one key ... and that one fixed in a manner which makes sit inaccessible for a time. Package the key so that neither player knows in which of two identical packages it is, shuffle them thoroughly, then each takes one package. The time delay adds to the eroticism as neither knows until they reach their package whether they will be dom/me or sub.

CreativeDom4you -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (6/14/2007 2:08:08 PM)
If you have purple rope and that many feet I am on my knees crawling to you already may i please come there?

aparootsa -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (7/1/2007 5:50:36 PM)
I'm thinking this'd be good for a couple switches and a sub... the sub could be the safety factor involved as well as the prize to be won. I suppose it could work with three switches as well...

km4kf -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (7/3/2007 9:42:42 AM)
The tweak I think of is to have a third party tie the couple up and be there as their safety and referee. The third party can make sure the bondage is both secure and escapable. The escape method could be fairly involved like having to got back and forth. For instance, force them to get or find a key in one part of the room or house, take that key to another part of the house to get a second key. In such a scenario, the third party can add to the it by blindfolding or hooding and gagging the couple so they have to do it blind, too. Footnote: A dom/Master could do something like this with two (or more) subs/slaves. The winner would get a special privilege and the loser(s) get punished.

earthycouple -> RE: Bondage Challenge/Mind Games (7/3/2007 8:01:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDom4you If you have purple rope and that many feet I am on my knees crawling to you already may i please come there? Oh that is too funny....I do indeed have easily that much in each purple, black, raspberry, and teal. I'm a rope freak S

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