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Monogamous my ass *Rant* - 5/24/2004 10:59:45 AM

kirameaMW

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i just got off Yahoo IM from talking to a sub friend of mine. We don't talk that often, and it's always a joy to hear from her. In the course of our conversation, i told her about a "Dom" that i was speaking to, and hoping to eventually meet. A few minutes later i found out......He's her boyfriend, and He's suppose to be monogamous.

This isn't the first time this has happened to her; in fact we first met when her ex and i had a "relationship". Her ex was also suppose to be mono, but i didn't find that out until after the fact (he essentially forced her into poly, and since she didn't want to lose him accepted it). She always tells the prospective boyfriends that she's mono, so it shouldn't be a problem.....right? But NOOOOOOOOO, they agree to it, and then tell her after she forms feelings for them that mono isn't for him.

The kicker with this "Dom", he not only has been contacting me for a possible relationship, he's also contacted my slave sis for the same thing. As my husband Wolford put it to me a few minutes ago.... we all should be singing "It's A Small World". Hey, at least i can have a sense of humor with all of this.

*sighs*

i just don't understand it.

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RE: Monogamous my ass *Rant* - 5/24/2004 11:16:19 AM

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You have a Dom/husband and a slave sis, but are looking to start a relationship with a mono Dom? Perhaps I'm confused, but it appears that Wolford was right, it is a small world... and it seems like everybody is playing everybody else. From what I read, you seem to always be hooking up with your friend's partners?

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RE: Monogamous my ass *Rant* - 5/24/2004 11:42:52 AM

kirameaMW

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i'm poly, so "hooking up" with others isn't a problem. As for my "habit" of dating friend's partners.... not only was i not aware that this person is supposed to be monogamous, i also didn't know he was my friend's boyfriend until we both discovered it together. And no, i'm not planning on playing with him.

i do no play with liars or decievers.

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RE: Monogamous my ass *Rant* - 5/25/2004 6:31:21 PM

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

That SO bites!

Your poor friend, how she must be shattered at this!

Please send her my well wishes, and my empathy, and my thoughts are with her!

I'll send good thoughts and energy her way, not much I know, but still.

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