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Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 5:54:16 AM

rozynozy

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I was wondering if anyone could give my any websites that show me how to present myself to my Master. I have only found one, and it doesn't really tell me how. I would appreciate any help.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 5:58:39 AM

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Please be more specific
Do you want to know how to compose an email message?
How to present yourself physically? In dress, posture, mannerisms?

I guess I'm not really sure what you are asking.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 6:07:00 AM

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Sorry about that. I need to know how to present myself physically.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 6:21:47 AM

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One of my friends used to have a wonderful site, but it is gone for some reason.....
These are two that have general information, they may or may not help you:
The Village
A Slave's Heart

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 6:39:58 AM

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Thank you, I will try both of them.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 7:06:07 AM

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quote:

I was wondering if anyone could give my any websites that show me how to present myself to my Master.

why do you need a website? why not ask Master how He wants you to present yourself to Him?

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 7:07:31 AM

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quote:

I was wondering if anyone could give my any websites that show me how to present myself to my Master. I have only found one, and it doesn't really tell me how. I would appreciate any help.

Rozy

I would suspect that you would want to present yourself to him in the manner he wishes. Given that communication is one of the foundations of a D/s relationship, you might want to ask him what he prefers.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 7:09:29 AM

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quote:

I would suspect that you would want to present yourself to him in the manner he wishes. Given that communication is one of the foundations of a D/s relationship, you might want to ask him what he prefers.

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why do you need a website? why not ask Master how He wants you to present yourself to Him?

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 7:16:47 AM

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The only one who can tell you how to "propertly present yourself" is your master.

For me the "proper presentation" is to say "Hi how are you?" with a hug and a kiss. If we're going out I know the general style of clothes he likes and will dress to that.

But there's no website that will tell you what your master will want, though they might give you ideas to try out or ask your master about.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 7:28:52 AM

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Whoops, answered this before having my morning caffine fix. I missed the word "my"
I thought she was just looking for general information.

Because I have now had my caffine and re-read the original post I am going to change my answer

I agree with what everyone else said, no one can know what he expects you to do except for him. Just ask.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/20/2005 9:05:51 AM

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One thing you ned to understand is that physical presentations vary according to the format of D/s M/s that you are in.

Presenting in an Old Guard fromat is different than Presenting in a Gorean format, which is diffent than presenting in a Victorian format.

The similarity is in the fact that each is designed with meanings behind how it is done.

If you would like to research the various formats that's great; knowlege is rarely wasted.
However as it has been said here several times, your eventual Master/Dom will likely change or mdify whateve possitions you learn to present yourself in.

One well thought out slave protocol that is available online is the Butchmens protocol, available on the APEX Arizona Power Exchange website.

In Leather

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/29/2005 12:49:39 AM

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Well, i know when i walk into my Master's home, He wants me on the floor, nose to the ground, ass in the air with my skirt lifted up, ass his direction...no panties of course.

Is that what you meant?

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/29/2005 7:15:29 AM

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I find that's hard sometimes when you've got loads of groceries in your arms though. Or are wearing jeans cuz you're working in the yard.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/29/2005 10:42:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

I find that's hard sometimes when you've got loads of groceries in your arms though. Or are wearing jeans cuz you're working in the yard.

My apologies for taking up bandwidth for this...but E...I am laughing so hard! Nothing like real life to bring one a sense of reality.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/29/2005 2:18:35 PM

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I present myself to him with coffee in the morning. I present myself to him with a cuddle and a kiss when he goes of to work and then back again.( like emeraldslave2 mentioned).
I present myself in many different ways. I have presented myself while kneeling on the floor ass in air though, but that's called Play time.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/29/2005 2:33:45 PM

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rozy,

good advice was given here, i agree totally. Go to _your_ Master and ask Him. Not only might He not actuallylike some of the positions, some of them are almost impossible if you are a bigger person, or have hip problems or any other kind of problem. It is best that He tell you what He wants and then together you work on designing something that suits both His requirements and your physical capabilities.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/30/2005 7:04:47 PM

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When I lived in NYC, I was once meeting a very important client for lunch at one of those overpriced French restaurants with big plates and small food. I encountered one fo those waiters who can not just ruin lunch, but kill a deal. Not knowing what else to do, I told him he was a terrible waiter.

He bristled and told me he was not Really a waiter, but an actor.

So, I told him he was a terrible actor.

He bristled and huffed, "how did *I* know he was a terrible actor."

And I told him it was because he did not know how to act like a waiter.

I further explained, he had as Shakespear had pointed out, a stage on which to perform a variety of the quientessential waiter roles and he was letting this great chance go to waste. In the end this actually not only closed the deal, but the manager of the restaurant hired me to train his staff.

So I would say to you, close you eyes and just imagine the most elegant of servants. Play with your hands, the tilt of your head, the angle of your knees, whether your feet have your toes under or pointed, right toes over left or left over right.

Keep a dairy of each thing you try and how it feels inside. See how your lover reacts to each thing you do.

Then when you have 100 pages, post them here or create a website and let us here know the way.

Within you is the most exquiste servess. Now you are but a bud, tightly held, perhaps a caterpillar would be a better metaphor.

Explore. Suprise yourself.

Enlighten us.

Zip

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 4/30/2005 7:08:23 PM

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Advice--

If you "present yourself" to your Master in a way that you have not been instructed by Him, you are not impressing Him.

He will tell you exactly how you need to present yourself and that is what where you should seek guidance for this question, from Him.

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RE: Presenting Yourself - 5/1/2005 2:54:36 AM

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my Master likes me to curtsey. When He arrives home or leaves, sometimes just because He wants me too. He only has too look at me, i know when He is waiting for me to curtsey to Him. i do this in public discreetly, no need for it to be more then a slight hint, He see's me.

i like it, it suits us. i think it is nice to have Your own ways. We have other presentations but this is a simple one that we do all the time, for us, it is a part of the dynamics of our r/ship. i give Him 'lazy' ones sometimes .. and then have to come back and do it again lol. i couldn't do the nose dive routine.. my kids wouldn't understand.

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