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Xeandra -> What all this is to me (4/14/2007 2:12:22 PM)
I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out.

szobras -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 2:16:53 PM)
Welcome to the forums Xeandra.

Xeandra -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 2:19:21 PM)
nods Thank you

LadyPact -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 2:30:12 PM)
Welcome, and you are perfectly right.

FukinTroll -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 2:33:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. I am looking forward to introducing you to the slurp method. Slurp!

Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 3:23:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. Hence my sig

TigressFL -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 3:45:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. Agreed and you will see people say things to this effect over and over and over again in the threads. quote: ORIGINAL: Slavetrainer2007 Hence my sig _____________________________ Everything i have stated in this post is my opinion, It should be viewed as such. Do not try to quote me and tell me i am wrong, as i can assure you i am not. Opinions cannot be wrong, since opinions are one's "views" of a subject. I think it is sad that this has to be repeated all the time by many of us. Tigress~FL

Xeandra -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 7:01:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Slavetrainer2007 quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. Hence my sig That is a great signature *smiles

crouchingtigress -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 7:34:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. ahh... yep.

Elorin -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 8:10:10 PM)
Looks like you worked it out early, so you are well on the way to success. Take what works for you, leave all the rest behind. ~E

WiseCracknSadist -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 8:39:06 PM)
Nothing like the obvious to get the old gears to grind.

minnetar -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 9:12:48 PM)
Welcome aboard Xeandra. As you said all Masters are different and we need to learn their wishes. minnetar

arayofsunshine55 -> RE: What all this is to me (4/14/2007 9:29:02 PM)
Right there with you. And your comment in the other thread about the hardon for labels and boxes and the like.

raevnn -> RE: What all this is to me (4/15/2007 5:34:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Xeandra I have one point to make.. all this is mostly opinions! There is no one way to train, serve ,sub, own ect. BDSM D/S is like ice cream there are thousands perhaps millions of flavors you just have to find the right one. Alright im done that all i had to say just had to get it out. That's an opinion too ;) Seriously, you're very right.

tulinwl -> RE: What all this is to me (4/15/2007 8:03:57 AM)
[sm=hello.gif] Agreed.... and just like in life!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What all this is to me (4/15/2007 8:22:29 AM)
Which doesn't explain the dozens of questions we get that say "Am I the only one? I'm not that weird? Please tell me I'm just like other people!" To a lot of people, your statement is bad and scary- they don't want it to be "whatever works for you"- they want a One True Way, and they want you to tell them what that Way is ASAP so they can't start fitting in with everyone else.

Xeandra -> RE: What all this is to me (4/15/2007 9:22:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Which doesn't explain the dozens of questions we get that say "Am I the only one? I'm not that weird? Please tell me I'm just like other people!" To a lot of people, your statement is bad and scary- they don't want it to be "whatever works for you"- they want a One True Way, and they want you to tell them what that Way is ASAP so they can't start fitting in with everyone else. thats is quite true they want boxes like true dom True sub mainly this thread got started becasue there was a true sub that wanted me to train them proplerly im my mind yes i could train them but there is no properly unless your for me becasue of the above statment.

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