RE: Throwaway Qualities in Subs

M'Lady AAkasha...

Thank You for such an interesting topic.
From my personal point of view, If asked... I would hope that my response would never be 'I am OBEDIENT , LOYAL , HONEST...' Because, surely, these are three things that are as it should be, whatever the relationship. I would be wary of someone who constantly embarks on the 'I am always honest' stance... because to me, that conjurs up an impression that the person is closed to the potential of their own abilities.

If asked, I would instead explain my thirst for knowledge. That is what drives me... that is what allows me to be open to the training a Dominant will offer me, should they so wish. The undeniable urge to learn so that I can reach the potential I can be.

I continuously hear and read the words from submissive types of 'I am loyal and well behaved, I am trustworthy, I am well trained, i will admit mistakes, but I rarely make them, I never need to be punished, etc'

My question would be to the Dominants about these also, if I may be so bold to ask you all. How do these words effect you?
As a submissive woman, I see those words and think that for me... they seem so boring for a Dominant to have to read?

Loyal and trustworthy - IMO... should just be a necessary not a quality.

Behaviour - Is not for a submissive to decide, that is the Dominants decision. Not all think the same behaviour is the correct behaviour?

Well trained - Fine, this is a good quality, but it doesn't show willingness to learn. If I was released tomorrow, I would leave with the very best training, but what may be right for Demon, for another might be insignificant. Would a Dominant not want a submissive/slave needing to be trained to their specific requirement?

Never need punishments? - well, depending on ones stance: that is either extremely boring or puts in my mind a sheep.

Rarely makes mistakes? - Again, not for the submissive to decide IMO. There are times where I may do something that I deem is fine, and Demon disagrees. Now I could argue, I am right... and be shocked and disillusioned that someone finds me wrong. But that isn't what I am. I am Demons, and in such, He decides if my actions are wrong. He knows what is safest for me. What will achieve my potential. My Growth is in His hands.

To assume my 'perfection' would be IMO, taking away the value of the training that could be offered to me. I am a submissive woman and I am to become the embodiment of my Dominants' (Demons) Desires. I am my own person, yet I am part of Him. My mind is His, although it is mine.
Because all that I am able to be, able to submit, able to comprehend is because of my Dominant.

Peace and Love