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lostsoulskitten -> What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 9:47:58 PM)
Are there any left who know how to show any manners what so ever without calling collared girls sluts and whores, and for calling them fat assed bitches? As my Master has said.. Respect is a double edged sword. To gain respect one must show it as well. Why is it so many of you think just because a girl is collared and slave she will automatically jump at your commands and fuck your brains out? *Just shakes head. Lostsoul's kitten.

LadyAnnabelleLee -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 9:55:50 PM)
It's the pr0n Kitten.

Liiaa -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 9:59:13 PM)
Well IMO the Dom,s that would be doing or saying such a thing would be some of those Fakes that we have heard of....in like why would you call someones husband or wife a slut . if they are saying that in my mind they are just looking for a one nite stand.

N4SDChastity -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:03:54 PM)
YEAH!!! Y'all need ta learn ta respekt dem HO's... Sorry, I have a friend who says tha ALL THE TIME.. Nowadays you have to learn to ignore the ignoramii amongst us, I'm afraid.

icubdsm2 -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:05:07 PM)
I do not think most of those types are in the forums...they are busy trolling for pics of "girl sluts and whores...fat ass bitches". That is what makes finding a good dom such a great thing...we are rare. Best of luck. JT

wyldsubmissive -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:05:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: N4SDChastity YEAH!!! Y'all need ta learn ta respekt dem HO's... Sorry, I have a friend who says tha ALL THE TIME.. Nowadays you have to learn to ignore the ignoramii amongst us, I'm afraid. Funny man!

lostsoulskitten -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:06:11 PM)
If this one may.. If they treat the collared girls this badly that they cannot have, God help the ones who are single and looking *shudder.

WilliamWizer -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:25:31 PM)
I'm single, looking for a slave and I'm not that rude. sorry to hear that "doms" here call you names. just ignore them. they are not worth your time (or the time of anybody)

lostsoulskitten -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 10:36:30 PM)
Master toned down my profile a little. Will see if it helps. It just irks both of us on the jackasses who cannot respect collared girls. I do wonder if the other collared girls on here have the same experiences on the asses like these.

BondageTopJere -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/16/2007 11:54:49 PM)
Shrugs I've sent exactly 1 jacka** message in the time I've been on CM, and I just apologized to the the sub I sent it to for sending it in the first place. Which is kinda ironic, as she replied to the apology

Poldark -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 12:03:25 AM)
There are plenty of well mannered Doms on CM, and whole truck loads of idiots posing as Doms. your mission, should you decxide to accept it, is to figure out which is which lol. My sub is sub to me and me alone, should another "Dom" try to order her around they are very likely to get a real mouthful, and with my blessing. No Dom of any substance tries to order around anothers sub, well not in the world I inhabit.

FukinTroll -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 12:47:57 AM)
As a rule of thumb if they have either Fukin or Troll in their names.... well you know the rest of it.

Pulpsmack -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 1:55:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lostsoulskitten Are there any left who know how to show any manners what so ever without calling collared girls sluts and whores, and for calling them fat assed bitches? As my Master has said.. Respect is a double edged sword. To gain respect one must show it as well. Why is it so many of you think just because a girl is collared and slave she will automatically jump at your commands and fuck your brains out? Just shakes head. Lostsoul's kitten. I am slightly amused to find the "show respect to get respect" line juxtaposed with an accusatory rant towards "so many of us". Seems a bit hypocritical if you ask me. Nevertheless, the people you are referring to aren't "us"* at all. These are DINOs, "Doms in name only"... those who masquerade as something they are not/can't understand to pursue their own ulterior motives. The same goes for "so many of you", the SINOs... who think a strong controlling man will be happy to take control and micromanage this mentally/emotionally challenged character, or what not. It is annoying, frustrating, and enraging to the Nth degree on both sides, and those are the breaks when you make yourself available to these internet personas. If this is something that is aggrevating you so much, I suggest you alter your mail controls to filter male Doms out.

Jevousadore -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 2:40:37 AM)
Hi, Pulpsmack..... While I agree with your second paragraph, I have to say I disagree with a couple of comments. I don't believe lostsoulskitten's intent was to be disrespectful in an accusatory manner towards all Masters/Doms/Tops. It would seem that in her case her experience has been that "most" Doms who have contacted her have been disrespectful. Just like saying "I never" or "I always" Right now she is disappointed and hurt in the behaviors of some, which is especially understandable when someones appearance is put down. I also disagree that she should have to change her mail controls to exclude all Doms. Why is it that she should have to limit her experience and whatever it is she is searching for because of a few Doms with little regard for others? Kind of like telling a mugging victim it's their fault for walking down the street. This is where her Dom needs to step in. Just my opinion..:) So, to lostsoulskitten...when I receive an obnoxious message, I have myself a good laugh and delete it. Certain types of people will not or do not want to change, and some girls do like that kind of Dom. Personally, I akin it to a "Napolean Complex" with delusions of grandeur, where they need to put someone else down in order to cover up their own feelings of inferiority. The more a man needs to put a female down, and the more he promotes his own ego, the less I think of them. If simply laughing it off doesn't work for you, find other submissives to vent with and block the blockheads. And don't give up......there are some truly intelligent, creative, and kind Men on this site who deserve the respect given to them. jevousadore

TigerNINTails -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 5:03:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll As a rule of thumb if they have either Fukin or Troll in their names.... well you know the rest of it. [:D]ROFLHAO[:D] *Tora shakes his head with a grin... Fukin Trolls...[8D] Really... That's all there is to it...[:D] Well not really... Some are just HNG's that think to act burly and speak sexually vulgar is the way to domliness... I think they're part of the same group that think that it's impressive to show the world a picture of their "manly bits" in their profile. Which I couldn't disagree with that bunch more. Not all Doms, Tops, Masters or whatever other flavour that might be out there are like that though. Not even most. Those however, are just the most irritating. The best you can do, is simply ignore them, defer them to your Dominant/Top/Master, whomever, or whatever he is to you, and let him chew their skull, or just block them whatsoever from popping into your PM or C-mail and saying something unsavoury. I do agree, there are a lot of women/girls that enjoy the semi-humiliatory references of slut, whore etc. but generally, this also depends on the girl in question. I personally utilize those terms in a situational basis, though I tend to use the word "slut" rather liberally with most slave girls. I just love ta see them blush, if that's their thing. [;)] But then it's been my experience, there are many a Mistress that use the same term for the boys... So it's not a gender thing, I don't think. Though the concentration of it's more liberal application might be with girls. I also use it (in my mind, at any rate) in a rather complimentary sense, as I tend to like slutty, trashy, nasty, naughty, kinky and uninhibited fuckpuppets... But it usually also means I know the person, at least somewhat first. My first statements to her aren't "Come here slut, suck my cock!" in other words... Or worse...[8\|] It's also really unwise to start spouting commands at someone elses submissive or property... This is a good way to go outside to get your paper and get curb-stomped or something similar. In any case, it sucks when, as PulpSmack put it, "DINO"s get on your nerves... But it's not all of us... Any more than I'd think it's "All of you" that need to be micromanaged and coddled. Just ignore em... Pretty simple solution. Peace.

MsKatHouston -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 6:07:30 AM)
I would suggest getting a bit of a thicker skin. It is the Internet and creeps abound. Block, ignore, move on but do not let the ones who are rude bother you. There are so many wonderful male dominants, many of whom participate on the boards, who would not act in such a manner. No sense getting all upset over that which you can not control. However, you can control yourself and the best way to deal with those people is to brush it off as if it and they mean nothing to you...and they shouldn't.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 7:00:30 AM)
Well its the internet and wannabes are all over it. Best thing to do is ignore and move on. It is not worth the effort.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 7:36:54 AM)
This is the internet, I really don't get where people come up with this notion that people will behave the same, if not better, than they do offline. Don't have expectations that anyone will share the same values that you do, be happily surprised when they do.

Pulpsmack -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 8:57:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jevousadore Hi, Pulpsmack..... While I agree with your second paragraph, I have to say I disagree with a couple of comments. I don't see any disagreement between what I posted and your response. quote: I don't believe lostsoulskitten's intent was to be disrespectful in an accusatory manner towards all Masters/Doms/Tops. It would seem that in her case her experience has been that "most" Doms who have contacted her have been disrespectful. Just like saying "I never" or "I always" Right now she is disappointed and hurt in the behaviors of some, which is especially understandable when someones appearance is put down. I would agree that it was not towards all Doms either. Nevertheless, it seemed an overgeneralized rant aimed at most Doms in general. I felt it necessary to point out that most "Doms" don't engage in those practices and the people she really has a beef with is most horny net geeks. quote: I also disagree that she should have to change her mail controls to exclude all Doms. Why is it that she should have to limit her experience and whatever it is she is searching for because of a few Doms with little regard for others? Kind of like telling a mugging victim it's their fault for walking down the street. This is where her Dom needs to step in. I never said that she needs to do this. It was a suggestion that she could use to weigh the interests between receiving the benefits and costs of receiving positive/negative mail from all "Doms" and remaining free of harrassment at the cost of contact from some friendly people. While it's unfair that one has to bear any loss for the disturbances caused by the asses on this site, it may be worth the drawbacks to limit who can contact.

waterdance -> RE: What is with the Doms here? (4/17/2007 9:11:01 AM)
Though i don't come online much, i have also found this to be true of some submissives. Master and i have been talking to a few male submissives here and i find the same thing, rudeness. LadyAlbatross said it perfectly.

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