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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Oral Sex on Demand (3/6/2008 8:46:30 PM)
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Even though I smell a shameless plug with the primary intention of marketing a website going on I'm going to respond.
For me personally, sex is a very big aspect of BDSM. It all goes hand and hand together for me.
In terms of oral sexual service, this is something I've never had to train anybody to do for me or please me in this manner. Basically, how to you train somebody who's already willing to do this and can do it damn good.
For the most part, I'm not a fan or supporter of cookie cutter training services. I'm a Dom with a Dominant personality. I don't want to live nor shape my life around and according to other people's standards. So, I guess this makes a Rebel. I really have issues with people blindly following the masses. People should be able to think for themselves and be in touch with what they want out of life.
I'm a supporter of diversity, appreciate and value individualism provided it causes nobody any real or true harm in life.
I actually think "Oral Service on Demand" is a pretty basic or understood concept in the BDSM world and is the same in the vanilla world as well. Then again, that's what I honestly think.
I also honestly think, that the OP was geared to drive traffic to website, more then it was geared towards sincerely engaging a topic. However, this is non the less a valid topic to talk about. Hence why, I've taken the time to respond bluntly.
Not only to the concept of Oral on Demand, but also with regards to services that train Dominants and submissives. There are a lot of great articles that are posted freely and openly on the internet. I personally would not recommend anybody to use and stick to any one source of information.
There are plenty of people writing good articles with tips and advice. Whole sites devoted to various aspects, Blogs published by Doms and submissives. The whole world of BDSM is there to be Googled or search on the search engines, and great resources such as this Message Board. There is a world of information people can read without having to sign-up for anything or shell out money for.
Don't get me wrong I value the merits of Training. Hell, I even value micromanagement as a training tool as well. However, not everybody who's into BDSM is looking for a M/s relationship. Not everybody is into TPE or high power exchanges. Also cookie cutter organizations do not have focus upon other types of relationships such as Dom Couples, Switch Couples and whatnot. In fact, I find much lacking with one wayism instructional organizations.
I would be more impressed the day I see somebody post about an online "Dom Couple" workshop or something to that effect. Something beside the dime a dozen resources and websites that are already out there.
Perhaps I'm being too mean, judgemental and blunt for my own good here. But at least I'm being a honest bastard with this post. For those that hate me for it, I'll keep an eye out for the angry mob to show up at my door with the pitch forks and torches.
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