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sissy4u2dom -> urostomy (4/25/2007 6:08:05 PM)
i would like to know what you all think about having a sob who has a urostomy

sissy4u2dom -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 6:10:07 PM)
i mean sub

DommeChains -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 6:57:10 PM)
Just like anything else pertaining to a physical condition or limitation I take it on an individual basis.

myobedience -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 7:01:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommeChains Just like anything else pertaining to a physical condition or limitation I take it on an individual basis. I mean NO disresepct, do you know what a urostomy is?

myobedience -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 7:08:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissy4u2dom i would like to know what you all think about having a sob who has a urostomy sissy, having a heart condition, LS arthritis as well as serious bouts of depression.... I will admit NONE of my medical conditions are disfiguring. I'd like to know what a Domme REALLY would do vs what she would say she would do? I guess something like a urostomy or a colostomy would be something NOT entirely an obstacle but HSV is an overcomeable obstacle .... so maybe a urostomy would be too. My professional RN side is empathitic toward your concern.

DommeChains -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 7:34:20 PM)
Yes, I do know.....I am also a nurse. And I have had a vanilla lover in the past who had a colostomy so I know it is possible to be sexually active with any type of stoma. Like I said I take everything on an individual basis. To me a power dynamic is not dependent on physical attributes or physical differences.

HutchGarahl -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 9:40:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissy4u2dom i would like to know what you all think about having a sob who has a urostomy Love it when I get to play stupid. Here we go again... If you could explain what this is, then maybe I can answer.

N4SDChastity -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 9:44:00 PM)
Google - top link: http://health.enotes.com/cancer-encyclopedia/urostomy

HutchGarahl -> RE: urostomy (4/25/2007 9:51:14 PM)
Ah,,ok. Thanks Chastity. So..how would I feel about a sub with a peebag or a peetube? Indifferent I guess. I mean, they are still people..just with a addition to their bodies. As long as the sub can perform his/her duties without dangering themself by either yanking their bag, clogging the tube or whatever...things would be the same as one without the addition. Those are a fact of life and noone should feel they need to be any different about it.

TheDiva -> RE: urostomy (4/26/2007 3:46:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommeChains Just like anything else pertaining to a physical condition or limitation I take it on an individual basis. I agree. I would assume there would be certain accommodations to be made, especially if it became a 24/7. During the time I normally take to get to know a potential sub, I would have gathered enough information about what limitations the urostomy would place on bdsm play. I googled a bit and one site said that only heavy lifting and rough contact sports would be no-no's. (That just brought up the question of what constitutes rough contact!) Short answer: It wouldn't be a dealbreaker if a submissive told me that he had a urostomy. I would, however, ask him to explain more about his current physical condition and any limitations or considerations.

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