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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 12:13:39 PM   
DomminginAZ


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Status: offline 		Yes, female ejaculation is totally real.  I have had six female partners who ejacualted to some extent with any arousal that led to orgasm.  Two actually ejaculate with every orgasm, no matter what, at least until they run out of fluid, and four ejaculate to varying degrees.  Half were initially shocked and ashamed, and that took some work to help overcome, but the sexual and interpersonal rewards have been vastly worthwhile.  Heck, I make a mess all the time, why can't they??  LOL!  The reference provided by mistoferin above is absolutely outstanding and should be required reading of men and women alike, IMHO as a practicing physician.  .  There is almost nothing more rewarding than hearing and seeing a partner have her first female ejaculation!!  I have been lucky enough to assist four women in finding their abilities.  The eroticism, whether you are sub or Dom is amazing!  Every woman, just like her clitoris and g-spot response is different in ejaculating.

I encourage everyone to try it, and work slowly at it.  Some women might never achieve it, but that shouldn't detract from them in any way.  Partner support is vital, no matter what way it turns out!  Have fun at learning, play safe, sane and consensual.  And if you are a woman, and you can ejaculate, then more power to you, and don't let any man or woman change that beauty you have.  Smiles, D.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 12:15:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD
I started Female ejaculation after I passed 30. 
i had my first experience with it very recently and i will be 35 this summer.  i never really doubted it's existence, i just never thought it was possible for me to do it since i never have in the nearly two decades i've been sexually active.
At first I was very confused.  I did think it was a bladder issue but I now know it has very little to do with the bladder.  I have learned much over several years of experiences.  I can feel where the ejaculation comes from and its not the uretha.
i have done it twice in the last month and the first time it happened, it was not as profuse.  i really was convinced that it was a bladder control problem.  Both times it has occurred, i have been up on my knees, leaning face forward onto the bed with several clothespins pinning the bottom halves of my labia together and one clothespin clamped right onto THE spot ...sorry if TMI, just trying to explain the only scenario in which it has ever happened....lol.....after the clothespins have been on a bit and clitoral stimulation is occurring with the clothespin on it, that is when it happens.  As i said, the first time i thought i had a minor bladder control issue but the more i thought about it, the more i knew that just wasn't the case.  A week or two later, the same scenario was occurring and i was extremely excited.  As i was building toward climax, i felt a LOT of liquid pouring down my thighs and soaking the bed covering.  When everything was over, i investigated a bit further and it was NOT urine.  i still had a full bladder ('cause i went right afterward) and the liquid WAS pretty much colorless, odorless, and tasteless.  Kind of like water, for real.  i'm no scientist but i was there and i do believe i have been the lucky participant in two instances of female ejaculation. 
As usual it is left to women to educate the medical community about the female body's functions. 
Amen, sister.........slave luci


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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 12:19:31 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I haven't read the whole thread, so I might be repeating what's already been contributed.

I understand the question, because up until I experienced it Myself, I thought it was just something faked in porn movies.  I was 37 before it happened to Me the first time and I literally thought I had urinated all over the bed.  Thankfully, after the initial shock, it was easy to tell the difference.  From My understanding, the liquid itself is rather sweet to the taste, and I'm afraid that's the best description I can give on that.

In My personal case, it doesn't happen every time.  I have to be stimulated a certain way.  It has to do with the angle and the intensity.  I've yet to be orally (only) brought to that type or orgasm, but it has happened manually on several occassions and once through penetration. 

Hope that answers the question.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 12:19:58 PM   
DomminginAZ


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Status: offline 		OOps!  Sorry about the repeat post.  Just getting used to this forum. 

< Message edited by DomminginAZ -- 4/26/2007 12:25:55 PM >

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 12:35:37 PM   
sexy2sum


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure where this information is coming from, but it is definately not urin (there is extensive studies and tests available on the fluid.)  If you are looking to compare it to something, male seminal fluid is the closest in makeup, though it obviously doesn't contain sperm.  The G spot is sometimes called the male prostate, as its tissue makeup is very similar.  The area is also surrounded by erectile tissue, very similar to the head of a penis.  With all of this tissue, you can see why the area is so sensitive.  We have recently added female ejaculation to our training schedule, and it is going very well.  From first hand experience, it is definately real.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 1:29:06 PM   
MariaB


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Status: offline 		This is an interesting link

http://www.answers.com/topic/female-ejaculation

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 1:39:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've always had rather prolific ejaculatory orgasms when I have orgasms. I've included a rather good informational site with tutorial that's helped several of my friends and their partners achieve them as well.

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 1:55:55 PM   
MariaB


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Status: offline 		Thanks for posting the link mistoferin but unfortunately all I got was a blank page

I found this link really interesting SDFemDom, especially the bit that said, Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:03:12 PM   
StellaByStarlite


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Status: offline 		Damn, I've never squirted. I've had my G spot diddled with, but no orgasm.

Sorry for the hijacking, but how does a G-spot orgasm differ from a clitoral or vaginal one, sensation wise?

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:04:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

Damn, I've never squirted. I've had my G spot diddled with, but no orgasm.



I hate my G spot diddled with... it hurts!

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:22:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout

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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

Damn, I've never squirted. I've had my G spot diddled with, but no orgasm.




I hate my G spot diddled with... it hurts!


It felt pleasurably odd to me. There was pressure on my bladder, that's for damn sure!

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:31:25 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: MariaB

Thanks for posting the link mistoferin but unfortunately all I got was a blank page

I found this link really interesting SDFemDom, especially the bit that said, Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol

mistoferin
That is a very informative site .  Thanks for the link.

MariaB.  You may want to try again, it seems to be working fine.  Server trouble perhaps?


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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:32:22 PM   
iwannapullurhair


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Status: offline 		I've been with two squirters and it is totally real. It is not urine. The first time my bed was soaked-you need multiple towels. It tasted sweet. I thought it was cool.

The second lady squirted less and I never tasted it, but it has no urine odor and is clear. A towel was always required for the bed. You also can't do it anywhere you don't want to make a mess, like your living room couch. It comes at orgasm.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 4:36:53 PM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: MariaB

Im interested in other peoples opinion on female ejaculation.
Many, including a lot of doctors, say that it does not exist, whilst others who have done further research insist that it is possible for a female to ejaculate from the paraurethral glands.
What are your thoughts and experiences on this?



I've never been able to ejaculate.  In fact depending on where I am in my cycle I lean more towards the drier side than the soaking my pants side. 

C~

Edited to add: and we do plenty of stuff that has involved stimulation of my gspot, its just not something that happens for me, its not a big issue for me tho.


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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 6:11:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MariaB

Im interested in other peoples opinion on female ejaculation.
Many, including a lot of doctors, say that it does not exist, whilst others who have done further research insist that it is possible for a female to ejaculate from the paraurethral glands.
What are your thoughts and experiences on this?



I believe that they should, and as often as possible.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 6:36:37 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		From the link mistoferin posted:
Where Does Ejaculate Come From?
Very little medical research has addressed the source or sources of female ejaculate. The research that has been completed often provides conflicting results. Some research concludes it is only fluid from the female prostate while other research says it is mostly liquid from the bladder with trace amounts of  fluid from the female prostate. It is my believe that in some cases all of the fluid emitted from a woman's urethra is from the female prostate, in other cases is a mixture of fluid from the female prostate and bladder, and in other cases it is only from the bladder. We simply do not know where the fluid originates from in every instance.
How can you tell if a woman is releasing fluid from her bladder or prostate? This is a question that cannot be answered outside a medical lab. There is no accurate way of determining whether a woman is voluntarily or involuntarily releasing liquid from her bladder or ejaculating prostatic fluid. These fluids all exit the body through the urethra so the visible source is the same for them all. I'm not aware of any color, taste, or scent test that can be applied to the expelled liquid that will accurately distinguish them from one another. We are left with no other choice than to see them as indistinguishable, the same.
 
I whole heartedly agree. I think the reason you encounter such vociferous denial that "it's not urine" is that urine is seen as bad, nasty, dirty, and if we can insist that what we are doing when we ejaculate is NOT urinating, it becomes easier to accept both as the woman doing it and any partner who gets splashed with it.

To me, it doesn't matter if it's urine or not. When I have multiple hard, intense orgasms, I often gush. I don't care WHAT I'm gushing. Neither does M. I have no doubt that the female prostate can provide additional content to urine during the course of gushing. What I doubt is that it can hold the quantity of fluid that comes out of me when I gush. There just isn't a receptacle in that part of my body that sits around holding that much fluid on the off chance that I'm gonna cum hard today. It has to come from somewhere. My guess is that it is exactly like the sentence in red above.
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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 9:17:19 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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You're welcome.  As it is said in the link it isn't urine...but because that is the sensation of it (as if one has to pee quite badly) the urge to not let go and allow it to happen, instead what we tend to do is hold it back rather than simply going with it and enjoying. As for me, a water cannon would pretty much be an accurate description LOL. I wrote in another thread some time back that I was always a little embarrassed by this propensity. No one really ever explained it to me when I was younger and it made me feel rather odd and abnormal prior to having it explained to me as a wonderful thing by someone that reveled in that ability in me. ok, I should say more abnormal than I already did over my kink proclivities.

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 9:21:59 PM   
MasterKazarik


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Status: offline 		Like everyone else, I too thought it was a myth until the first time.. The poor girl it happened to was so embarresed.. I tried to explain to her that I believed it was just because she was enjoying her self.. She stopped all play at the time, but a week later wanted to try again and with the right play it was easy. Finding that right play is hard, if not impossible. Of all the girls I have had to play with, only 2 have climaxed in that fashion. And yes, it can be messy! the last girl that I did that with did it so much we had to buy a new matress and get rubber sheets lol.. Yes, 2 hrs of play and your not sleeping in that bed for a week! uggg..

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 9:23:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MariaB

Im interested in other peoples opinion on female ejaculation.
Many, including a lot of doctors, say that it does not exist, whilst others who have done further research insist that it is possible for a female to ejaculate from the paraurethral glands.
What are your thoughts and experiences on this?



If female ejaculation doesn't exist, why we get waterfalls doing it doggie style? Oddly enough, it only happens when I'm cuming...

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RE: Female Ejaculation - 4/26/2007 9:25:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

It actually is most likely...at least in part...urine. If you check the link that I posted it explains it rather well. But I have to ask this....does it really matter what the composition is?


I don't know why it would. It's a sterile fluid that we can't help releasing. It started Valyraen at first, but now he loves it. He knows I can't fake an orgasm at any rate!

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