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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 7:18:09 AM

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im a male sub and one problem ive run into alot is the fact that im so much taller then many Mistress es/ Dommes to me it feels there intimadated by my height maybe becuase im thin and streched out i look so much bigger then most....and i keep getting turned down more then excepted

I love em tall. Makes Me feel so delicious when they're on their knees.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 7:30:49 AM

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I am almost twice the size of Ms. Mlicious, and maybe three times her physical strength. That does not make me in control any more than a horse is in control of its equestrienne.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 7:34:08 AM

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Healthy. Thats what's important to me. I actually like all types. I really like small, shy geeky types with very little sexual experience but a nice fit body is always fun to look at. Healthy and a great attitude is most important.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 7:42:49 AM

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Size shape mattes little to me. It is the willingness to serve that is most important.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 7:56:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

im a male sub and one problem ive run into alot is the fact that im so much taller then many Mistress es/ Dommes to me it feels there intimadated by my height maybe becuase im thin and streched out i look so much bigger then most....and i keep getting turned down more then excepted

hey.. I like domming guys taller then myself, that may be because at 5'2 there is not to many shorter then me, But hey..... lol

besides I like domming guys who are more "powerful" then I am.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:26:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

im a male sub and one problem ive run into alot is the fact that im so much taller then many Mistress es/ Dommes to me it feels there intimadated by my height maybe becuase im thin and streched out i look so much bigger then most....and i keep getting turned down more then excepted

This is another problem Fox has. He is 5 inches taller than me and would love to switch me those five inches. That's not going to happen though so when wants to feel shorter he either kneels down (I have no problem with a handsome obedient man kneeling before me) or he stands on lower steps of the stairways in our house.

As long as I don't have to stand on my tiptoes I don't think it's too tall for me.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:28:24 AM

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Beyond height and body build there is one factor that is my first priority in terms of attractiveness.

Hair. I cannot stand body hair and have a low tolerance for facial hair.

I think that is because I'm attracted to more androgynous people in general.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:46:32 AM

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For me personally, the joy derived from dominating a male slave has less to do with his phyiscal attributes and more about the power in dominating his mind and soul in to total submission.

I agree totally. A sub is a sub in My eyes, whatever body frame he has.

It does not phase or excell My Dominance; a muscular, slight framed, or well built male sub in My presence.

Invading his mind, and exploring a submissive's submission, is more My thing, not the package lol.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:48:35 AM

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I want the option to play rough without thinking I am going to damage them easily.

Same here. Although I would say that muscular definitely fits the bill, as well. Muscles do a very good job of absorbing and distributing the impact of a blow, while not affecting how it impacts the skin. Fat mostly cushions the blow, which reduces the impact (force equals mass times deceleration; deceleration is velocity divided by time; cushioning extends the time, like an airbag).

When we do martial arts practice, we do a fair bit of work on the muscles, particularly the supporting muscles and the ligaments, but also the bulk musculature. The reason for this is that we go full-contact (some call it "hard contact") during practice, and when taking a blow (whether bone clusters, wood or something else delivers it) the muscles serve to prevent injury.

Of course, it does nothing to prevent half your lower arm from swelling and bruising if someone gets a decent hit in.

I train in martial arts too. I can crush a brazil but between My thighs lol.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:50:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

im a male sub and one problem ive run into alot is the fact that im so much taller then many Mistress es/ Dommes to me it feels there intimadated by my height maybe becuase im thin and streched out i look so much bigger then most....and i keep getting turned down more then excepted

I rarely have a sub taller then Me, it has happened a few times, and I commend subs on their height, as it is a rarity in contrast to My height and frame.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 8:52:42 AM

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I have my preferences, but I can be attracted to a wide variety of types. However, a few things are a must -- hygeine, nice breath and teeth, and a sense of style. No slobs!

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 11:11:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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Beyond height and body build there is one factor that is my first priority in terms of attractiveness.

Hair. I cannot stand body hair and have a low tolerance for facial hair.

I think that is because I'm attracted to more androgynous people in general.

lol- oh yeah Tammy Jo I seen your Harem. You should link to it.

I don't like body hair or facial hair.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 11:04:40 PM

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A slave's appearance is a direct reflection of the Master.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 11:24:57 PM

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Ooooooh, the condemnation of body hair is disheartening. I'm a bit of a fuzzy guy, and in places that are...hard to reach *ahem*

It's a pain to shave, so I don't do it when I'm not with somebody...But it seems nobody'd want to be with me unless I did it! O cruel cyclical traps. >_<

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 11:25:57 PM

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A slave's appearance is a direct reflection of the Master.

then my Master must be old and flabby....LMAO i'm sooo kidding...JOKING......

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/28/2007 11:27:55 PM

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Well now, is a bit fuzzy like dark thick hair you can visably see, or a light coating of hair that's barely noticable? If the first I'd find it emensly unattractive, but if the second I wouldn't care, I even like barely noticable but it's there hair.

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Ooooooh, the condemnation of body hair is disheartening. I'm a bit of a fuzzy guy, and in places that are...hard to reach *ahem*

It's a pain to shave, so I don't do it when I'm not with somebody...But it seems nobody'd want to be with me unless I did it! O cruel cyclical traps. >_<

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/29/2007 7:13:13 AM

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Ooooooh, the condemnation of body hair is disheartening. I'm a bit of a fuzzy guy, and in places that are...hard to reach *ahem*

It's a pain to shave, so I don't do it when I'm not with somebody...But it seems nobody'd want to be with me unless I did it! O cruel cyclical traps. >_<

Well, I did have a slave (an excellent slave) who had a lot of body hair. I think that was in a factor in why I never used him sexually. He just had too much to be regularly shaved but he did always keep his face very clean.

A person could also make shaving part of the rituals they do in a Ds relationship -- either the sub does it himself or the dom helps/does it.

So while I could train someone and own someone who had body hair I could not honestly say that it would ever become sexual.

It isn't a personal thing any more than someone saying they could serve me but not sexually because I'm too fat or too short or am too pale.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/29/2007 7:19:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: TigressFL

I want the option to play rough without thinking I am going to damage them easily.

Same here. Although I would say that muscular definitely fits the bill, as well. Muscles do a very good job of absorbing and distributing the impact of a blow, while not affecting how it impacts the skin. Fat mostly cushions the blow, which reduces the impact (force equals mass times deceleration; deceleration is velocity divided by time; cushioning extends the time, like an airbag).

When we do martial arts practice, we do a fair bit of work on the muscles, particularly the supporting muscles and the ligaments, but also the bulk musculature. The reason for this is that we go full-contact (some call it "hard contact") during practice, and when taking a blow (whether bone clusters, wood or something else delivers it) the muscles serve to prevent injury.

Of course, it does nothing to prevent half your lower arm from swelling and bruising if someone gets a decent hit in.

I train in martial arts too. I can crush a brazil but between My thighs lol.

Cringes at the thought of my nuts between your thighs, lol.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/29/2007 8:45:03 AM

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Yeah, I train in martial arts too, so even though I look kind of scrawny I can take a roughing up pretty well. Don't need the kid gloves with me.

As for the amount of body hair...It's fine hair, but clumped together enough to be very noticeable. Especially in the...erm, hard-to-reach area. That one's the real pain in the backside (pun not intended), everything else is pretty easy to get rid of. Try as I might though, I can never get that one spot evenly or sufficiently shaven.

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RE: A Slave's Appearance - 4/29/2007 9:10:34 AM

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One word :)

Waxing!

MC... the sadist :)

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