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Open sexual Lifestyle is it possible? - 4/28/2007 1:00:35 PM

cuddlyfemale

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TRUST!!!! I had a resent break though one day while lying in the arms of my husband. At that moment I felt at ease, I felt safe, I felt comfort, and I felt loved. That’s the feeling I always want to have, every minute of everyday. I feel the only way to have those feeling is to have trust and respect for the person you are with. I don’t have that with my husband I wish I could say I did and I will work on that. My husband and I live an open relationship sexual. Something I always thought I wanted and fought to get. I have no doubt about us loving each other. But, trusting each others, No, I know we really don’t when it comes to complete trust in each other. It’s ironic that I have to come to site as this one and other lifestyle and alternative sexual site to discover the true meaning of love and trust. Can a married couple really have a strong enough trust to live a completely open relationship in this or any life style?
It’s like the old saying; “if you play with fire you’re going to get burnt”. I don’t know what I will do with this realization I’ve come too, but if you are interested stay tune and see what happens.

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RE: Open sexual Lifestyle is it possible? - 4/28/2007 10:16:02 PM

SweetDommes

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I think you posted this in the wrong section, but I'll reply anyway.

We have a semi-open relationship, in that it is not monogamous and we are currently seeking someone to join our family. We are open and honest with all involved about who is doing what to whom so that no one is kept in the dark during our search. To us, that is what an open relationship should be - everyone needs to know what is going on and be on the same page. If there is communication (which I'm guessing is lacking in your relationship with your husband), then there is no reason not to trust.

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