NightVIne
Posts: 16
Joined: 5/5/2007 Status: offline
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I'm glad I read this. I'm a newbie who was approached by a male who said he was an experienced sub. He is very interested in disussing my day, learning about my life, and finding out what I do and don't want to have in a D/s relationship. He knows I'm married, and asks about my family. He's willing to meet and defer to my husband. He has referred me to some very good resources, is willing to let me start slow and get up to speed, and knows I have a taboo or two that I won't cross for him, and he seems to be OK with that. So we have vanilla and D/s both in the discussions, with a lot of the D/s actually being a learning experience for me rather than an online slave. He is being patient and developing a 3D relationship with me. I feel a whole lot better about him now. Thanks for the question which I also was asking myself and the thoughtful answers. This has helped me tremendously.
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