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Pain - 5/5/2005 2:43:08 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		How Many slaves/subs have Master whi like to inflict pain becauses them? On the other hand are they any that enjoy the pain? Any pain that Master gives me is because i am being punished of fr kicks. I enjoy it even though i am not into pain because it is a deeper level of my submission to him.

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RE: Pain - 5/5/2005 3:14:09 PM   
liltxsubby


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Status: offline 		FnF likes inflicting pain. I'm learning to enjoy him inflicting it. He also likes to receive some, and I've learned what he likes and when he likes it. We don't switch, I'm still submissive when I bite him or whatever.

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RE: Pain - 5/5/2005 3:42:31 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I like pain.

My partner doesn't really get anything out of it, for th emost part. He gives me pain because I enjoy it, and he likes to do things I enjoy sometimes.

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RE: Pain - 5/5/2005 3:48:57 PM   
allyC


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quote:

How Many slaves/subs have Masters who like to inflict pain because it pleases them?


My owner is one who would fall into that category. Discipline (not punishment) and the application of various stimuli including pain are things that he does because he enjoys them.

quote:

On the other hand are they any that enjoy the pain?


This is a quote from an essay that I wrote some time ago about why I crave the whip...

"I do not like pain. Pain hurts. Pain does not get me off nor does it make me horny but to be so literally beneath his hand, to be his object and to offer myself in such a vulnerable and profound way so that he may take his pleasure from me in any manner that he should choose - This is what moves me. It is what drives me and it is what I crave from the depths of both my psyche and spirit. It is terrible and glorious at the same time. It evokes in me emotions and feelings that are both sacred and profane."

I think it is the stark, demonstrative nature of SM that makes me crave it. The psychological place I reside in while I am enduring his brutal attentions is a place that reiinforces over and over again that I am property - an object to use as he pleases. When you add that to the knowledge that the more I endure, the more pleased he becomes, then I would say that it is one of the ultimate experiences for me.

Well wishes, K

-Cav's girl
ally{C}


(The entire essay can be found here if anyone is interested: http://www.houseofcavalier.com/craving_the_whip.html)




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RE: Pain - 5/5/2005 4:32:19 PM   
BobcatsLilMinx


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quote:

"I do not like pain. Pain hurts. Pain does not get me off nor does it make me horny but to be so literally beneath his hand, to be his object and to offer myself in such a vulnerable and profound way so that he may take his pleasure from me in any manner that he should choose


I love this, it is so true for me. I do not like being whipped, I do not like being spanked hard, it hurts, and that is not a good thing to me. But the idea of being whipped, knowing I am subject to physical punishment at his whim, being able to offer myself, my body so entirely for his pleasure... ahh, that excites me... *purrs* I know he likes using some mild pain when we play... I think he likes watching me squirm *grins* And again, as you said ally, the more I endure, the more it reinforces my position, and the more he is pleased with me... knowing that is the most wonderful feeling.

Minx

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RE: Pain - 5/6/2005 6:34:44 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		The Owner is a sadist and enjoys hurting me and knowing I do not like the pain.

Most people are what I call "fluffy sadists" in that they like to inflict the pain, but only if it's getting the bottom into subspace or an intensity that they can enjoy and ride. I'm this type of sadist.

I'm not a masochist, I don't have an endorphin response to pain.

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RE: Pain - 5/6/2005 6:35:46 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: allyC
Well wishes, K

-Cav's girl
ally{C}


Ally I am REALLY liking your posts here.

This is how I have condensed it "I love everything about pain play except the pain part."

This tends to get a chuckle out of people and get the point across nicely.

< Message edited by EmeraldSlave2 -- 5/6/2005 6:36:19 AM >

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RE: Pain - 5/6/2005 7:39:50 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for your responses i thought this was an interesting question

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RE: Pain - 5/6/2005 4:23:58 PM   
allyC


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quote:

This is how I have condensed it "I love everything about pain play except the pain part."


Holy s***balls, batman - that is perfect!

Completely accurate and to the point. *grin*

Rock on, Emerald.

Cav's girl
ally{C}

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RE: Pain - 5/7/2005 1:40:43 AM   
sfogarty


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Status: offline 		Yes!
So I do play with a number of sadists. They greatly like inflicting pain on me.
I enjoy getting hurt, it's very often fun. Not sexual, but deeply enjoyable and pleasurable and very very submission. Not an act of submission, but an act that creates submission. It is a method of interaction that brings my submission out.
Sometimes I don't enjoy getting hurt. Then it becomes an act of submission. Either they hurt me too much, or not in the right way, or whatever, but it's just not fun anymore. Somtimes it's a little fun, sometimes I'm sobbing and really would like them to stop. This is not as evidently enjoyable, but I'm pretty sure I do like it. Not for the macho reasons... to prove I can take it, or to make them proud, or whatever. But I think because it is a headspace that can't really be reached any other way... something that takes deep submission and makes it different. And that different thing is kinda cool, all wailing aside.

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human beings - and I hate people like that" --Tom Lehrer.

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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 11:39:15 AM   
magiqnapa


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Status: offline 		My Master loves to inflict pain on me....and I love it in return. I beg him for it. I am a Masochist and have a huge endorphine release (besides orgasmic release) when it comes to pain. I am just a pain slut I guess! I also have a very very high pain threshold and that pleases him greately. Most people,I think, don't get an endorphine release from it though and it down right scares others. So, I guess it would have to be an understanding between you and your Master/Mistress. But, I LOVE IT!

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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 11:54:56 AM   
dechala


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

How Many slaves/subs have Master whi like to inflict pain becauses them? On the other hand are they any that enjoy the pain? Any pain that Master gives me is because i am being punished of fr kicks. I enjoy it even though i am not into pain because it is a deeper level of my submission to him.

JL's K


i'm in agreement with you.For me,it's not so much about the pain but it's about whatever pleases Him.


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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 12:23:42 PM   
simpleprop


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Status: offline 		I do not like the pain but i enjoy pleasing Him. Usually, though, i am not on the receiving end of pain unless it is for discipline purposes.

simple

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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 12:48:13 PM   
Mylee


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quote:




"I do not like pain. Pain hurts. Pain does not get me off nor does it make me horny but to be so literally beneath his hand, to be his object and to offer myself in such a vulnerable and profound way so that he may take his pleasure from me in any manner that he should choose - This is what moves me. It is what drives me and it is what I crave from the depths of both my psyche and spirit. It is terrible and glorious at the same time. It evokes in me emotions and feelings that are both sacred and profane."





This is truely beautiful and moving to me, this is what my soul craves and lifts my spirit, I do not like pain, I am in fact scared of pain, I struggle when I know I am going to be in pain, but being under His hand, knowing that giving my body to Him, to do whatever brings Him pleasure, this is what takes me to the beauty of surrender, it rocks me to my very core knowing that this is me giving my all to Him, to bring pleasure to him and this in turn brings beauty and surrender to me as well

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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 6:55:15 PM   
sjacket


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Status: offline 		For me it is all about those glorious endorphins. I have always enjoyed floggers and paddles, cbt, elctro. For the last year I have had the joy of playing with a wonderful Sadistic woman, and in the last six months She has taken me to levels I never imagined. As a session moves on, I go from screams to laughter. It often ends with me hanging limply from the X with a chuckling, almost gutteral, laugh as the endorphins wash over me. It is as close to an orgasm as I need. In fact, I almost prefer it to a physical orgasm- this is the brain unloading. Plus I can "space" for an hour. Orgasms... not so long.

And as a Sadist, She is delighted that I crave more. I love the smile on Her face as I give Her a new swingy toy. Or a cutty one. Life is good. Have been collared as Hers now for 2 months, and looking forward to the years to come.

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RE: Pain - 6/29/2005 11:50:19 PM   
magiqnapa


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Status: offline 		OOOHHHHhhh....I hear you!! There is a certain look on their face, as they are inflicting the pain upon your body and soul....because they know you love it. They know you crave it, and they know exactly what to do to take you there.....and when your ready for more. And those endorphins are well worth any after pain for me!! All I have to do is think about the pain and I get shivers and another rush....*sigh....but, everyone is not as masochistic as we are sjacket!

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RE: Pain - 6/30/2005 7:36:11 AM   
pandoravampire


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Status: offline 		Im half way on this one. i do like the pain, but im a wimp, and cannot take much. However, within this relationship to one that is no sadist, that all works for us.
But the submission i feel, in offering up my body to Him in such play, is wonderful.
My particular preference, is spanking, there is something about His hand inflicting it, that makes my submission greater.
The whip i bought him though, certainly encourages things nicely, and yeah, the look on his face when he's using it, is wonderful

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RE: Pain - 6/30/2005 11:31:48 AM   
wednesday


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Status: offline 		Heh... I get in "trouble" if I laugh during or just after a beating. Apparently it means I'm not taking things seriously, or taunting him. Then I get another beating. And he laughs.

and that makes me happy. Once the session is over, we both laugh about it.

As serious as the endorphin rush is to me, I always bear in mind that it's still "play" and it should be FUN!

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RE: Pain - 6/30/2005 12:29:58 PM   
Hissweetshiv


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Status: offline 		I tend to ride the fence on this one (no NOT the rail... lol ... the fence). I love pain to a certain degree, and i love being subject to His will and whim. I'm not a complete masochist, but there's just something about the pain His hand or the bite of a paddle can cause that ..mmmm... well.. you get the idea lol. Does He enjoy inflicting pain? I suspect that He enjoys it because i do. It does reach a deeper level for me to serve Him this way, regardless of the endorphins.

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RE: Pain - 6/30/2005 2:40:19 PM   
THEBEAR69


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Status: offline 		I suspect some masters are like me. they get sexual excitement from inflecting pain. there is nothing like looking down at your submissive and seeiing whelts you put on her body.
to me it is awesome.

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