help

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

help

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> help

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

help - 5/7/2007 4:01:57 PM

spankinnewbie2

Posts: 6
Joined: 4/6/2007
Status: offline

Hello Sirs...I am new to the Lifestyle and have recently found that I LOVE the whip...It sends me flying high...I dont have a Master at this time and the only true times I am able to explore is if I am invited to a party...My question is this...How often is it exceptable to as a Master to play?...If you ask oftened is it rude or annoying?...Please if u could help me with this I would be greatly thankful.

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: help - 5/7/2007 4:14:06 PM

MrDiscipline44

Posts: 1776
Joined: 1/5/2005
Status: offline

I, personally, find it annoying. But then again, I'm not into "play-time" relationships.

I see that I neglected to answer the other questions in my haste. I'm not one to play all the time. Once a month is about all I really like to do. Sometimes more depending on my mood. So my relationships don't revolve around playing.

< Message edited by MrDiscipline44 -- 5/7/2007 4:26:39 PM >

_____________________________

If you love somebody, you have to be willing to break them.

Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.

Have you slapped your slave today?

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: help - 5/7/2007 4:17:24 PM

spankinnewbie2

Posts: 6
Joined: 4/6/2007
Status: offline

This particular Sir is a Master at what he does and says he enjoys it.

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: help - 5/7/2007 4:43:19 PM

MasterFireMaam

Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline

Why not ask HIM how often he'd be interested in playing?

Master Fire

_____________________________

The power of who we are can be intoxicating. The power of who we could be is humbling.
-----
Ms Relationship Books
-----
BDSM How-To Books

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: help - 5/7/2007 5:04:02 PM

Kinkypupper

Posts: 713
Joined: 9/26/2004
From: Portland oregon
Status: offline

Asking anyone to play with you is in my opinion very acceptable and quite a ego booster :-)

It is also can be quite a challange for a submissive to come up to a "Dom" type person and ask them to play with you. but Please accept my comment that if done respectfully you will most always get a favorable reply.

_____________________________

Phil Moulton
A Sensual Touch
Locopony Racing
Portland Oregon

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: help - 5/7/2007 5:56:11 PM

N4SDChastity

Posts: 327
Joined: 2/27/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

Asking anyone to play with you is in my opinion very acceptable and quite a ego booster :-)

It is also can be quite a challange for a submissive to come up to a "Dom" type person and ask them to play with you. but Please accept my comment that if done respectfully you will most always get a favorable reply.

+1 and +1

(in reply to Kinkypupper)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: help - 5/7/2007 7:05:49 PM

robertolapiedra

Posts: 520
Joined: 5/3/2007
Status: offline

Hello spankinnewbie. Don't forget to ask Daddy! Can you go out and play? If Daddy wants, update your profile and I'm sure it will be fine. It's only rude if Daddy does not know. What do you think? RL.

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: help - 5/7/2007 7:11:58 PM

MistressDarling

Posts: 31
Joined: 6/30/2006
Status: offline

I guess my situations are a little different since my former Owner and I had a rather unique relationship.

When I wanted to play, I'd tackle or pounce him. He would get the point. LOL!

Just ask him! As a previous poster stated, I'm sure he'd see it as an ego boost, as long as he wasn't busy. In that case, you would purr around at his feet until he's finished.

Then pounce him!

(in reply to robertolapiedra)

Profile

Post #: 8

RE: help - 5/7/2007 7:39:40 PM

hawkwolf7

Posts: 85
Joined: 10/24/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: spankinnewbie2

Hello Sirs...I am new to the Lifestyle and have recently found that I LOVE the whip...It sends me flying high...I dont have a Master at this time and the only true times I am able to explore is if I am invited to a party...My question is this...How often is it exceptable to as a Master to play?...If you ask oftened is it rude or annoying?...Please if u could help me with this I would be greatly thankful.

As a fairly rabid single-tail Top, I find that there are not that many people who want to play at that level. So, for me, anytime I wasn't actually involved in a scene, or in the middle of an intense conversation, I would appreciate someone asking (respectfully) to play. On the other hand, more than once per night would be too much. :)

HawkWolf

_____________________________

p.s. Everything I write is simply one person's opinion: mine. Feel free to take what is useful and blow off the rest.

All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost.

(in reply to spankinnewbie2)

Profile

Post #: 9

RE: help - 5/7/2007 8:52:33 PM

Sirandlittle1

Posts: 538
Joined: 12/22/2005
Status: offline

That's a bit like asking someone, how often do you like to have sex?
it depends on
the persons drive/need/desire
when the person played last
how good the last play session was
the persons motivation/demotivation
the persons health
the persons day at work they had
the list goes on.
Then once you have those answers, a collar etc you'll find that over years, your mutual need to play will fluctuate, sometimes more, sometimes less.

So really, its a question best asked of the person you wish to play with. At the time you wish to play.
good luck, go ask him.

(in reply to hawkwolf7)

Profile

Post #: 10

RE: help - 5/9/2007 1:57:24 PM

subtravels

Posts: 89
Joined: 4/23/2007
Status: offline

I would think that being asked to 'play' would be quite an exciting proposition. After all, if you're at a party for such a thing, aren't you there for exactly that? To play? And where's my invitation to such a party???

(in reply to Sirandlittle1)

Profile

Post #: 11